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After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Sandydayziz(f): 12:19am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Why? A girlfriend of mine had to break up with her bf over reasons I can't even explain! And all she does all day's listen to music and cry, I mean she broke up with him herself so it doesn't make sense at all... But what am more interested in is 'Why music'? I mean after a breakup, all you wanna do is lie on your bed, listen to heart shattering music... Is that the best way to grief? Do you think it helps ![]() ![]() 12 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 12:20am On Dec 13, 2016 |
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Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Sandydayziz(f): 12:25am On Dec 13, 2016 |
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Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 12:26am On Dec 13, 2016 |
![]() She Shud celebrate after break up and never waste tears since she's the one who called it quit. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by leahcimzil: 12:30am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Never been dumped in my life ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 12:30am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Sandydayziz:Jisos ![]() 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Aniker(f): 12:31am On Dec 13, 2016 |
How can you break-up with someone and still cry.. Why did you break up at first , wrong advice I guess 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Aniker(f): 12:31am On Dec 13, 2016 |
TrapQueen77:indeed she should Lol, these boys ain't loyal 1 Like |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 12:32am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Sandydayziz:who is this? Do I know you? Do you want me to ban you? 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Sandydayziz(f): 12:34am On Dec 13, 2016 |
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Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 12:34am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Maybe its her way of getting over the sadness. Many people do. But me I don't cus such a music will add to the sadness and increase blood pressure Instead I try to listen to lively songs, comedy videos and be around funny friends or friends DAT at least still respect me inspite of my mistakes 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 12:34am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Aniker: Yes ur right.. Men in nature are juz so flirty... ![]() |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 12:35am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Sandydayziz:last warning before I give you 90 days ban |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Aniker(f): 12:36am On Dec 13, 2016 |
TrapQueen77:True though, there are still some few good ones out there 6 Likes |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 12:38am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Aniker: Maybe 1 out of hundred . ![]() It's like finding a needle in the ocean ![]() |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Aniker(f): 12:40am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Sandydayziz(f): 12:45am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Aniker:If he cheated, which m sure, of cus she'll break up wif him or she's a dummy... She's/was in love that's y she'll cry 1 Like |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Divay22(f): 12:48am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Because she can't express it with words,so it like the music explains everything. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Aniker(f): 12:48am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Sandydayziz:That's why we should also forgive, is it better to be heart broken, than forgive? 1 Like |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Sandydayziz(f): 12:54am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Aniker:No doubt, That's not what she has in mind, certainly not wat I would b tinking if I was in her shoes.. Cheating's not something u look past, the memory neva goes away, well I tink so 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Aniker(f): 1:02am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Sandydayziz:True though, it makes you feel rejected and kinda not good enough 1 Like |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Vheektory98(f): 1:12am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Aniker:maybe she felt insecure about the relationship, thinking dat both of dem weren't compatible meanwhile she still loves d guy.. It happens 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by freesinzu(m): 1:22am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Sandydayziz:Now dats a threat.... 3 Likes |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by RaeMystix: 4:31am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Divay22: Seconded 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by BabaRamota1980: 4:46am On Dec 13, 2016 |
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Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by BabaRamota1980: 4:53am On Dec 13, 2016 |
@topic, thats why Mary J and Braxton are hot....their music shares pain of heartbreak and are melodious. What am i trying to say...pardon me, their music is a bridge! When the heart is broken it withdraws into itself. It will come back out but an external influence is needed to draw it out. The melody and beat excites the heart rhythym but the lyrics remind of the truth, told from someone else's experience. The "it isn't bad after all" solace! 2 Likes |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Rapmoney(m): 4:58am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Sandydayziz:You want to be sad and wallow in self pity ![]() 1 Like |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Larablink(f): 5:11am On Dec 13, 2016 |
It refresh all the memories together. Especially if they are music both of you share while you still together, playing alone hurt too much. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by BabaRamota1980: 5:15am On Dec 13, 2016 |
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Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Martinola(m): 5:39am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Yes it apens to me often, i mean wen i'm sad or felt i'm heartbroken not from ladies anyway...won't even brood over a woman |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Aregs(m): 5:55am On Dec 13, 2016 |
I don't listen to sad songs after a break up but I listen to them once in a while when I feel like, there are times I just feel emotionally down and I listen to the so called sad songs... |
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by drewxx88(m): 6:23am On Dec 13, 2016 |
Have you heard the saying when your happy you listen to songs but when your sad you understand the lyrics ...It's deep and your friend is using the songs as a bridge to understand some stuffs in her just ended relationship... 9 Likes 2 Shares |
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