MizMyColi:


Sister mi, I mean it when I say that I wish you well. So far, my gut instinct does not believe it has crashed, but all this FP Topics aren't helping. Funny enough, he was paid this evening.

The thing cannot crash now o. I knw many good people who got involvd.

Onegai:


You bought Nataraj. I bought it too. I really don't know, all I do know for sure is that cheap Chinese products for the African market are such a gamble. Our people will not even bother to protect us and say they should use quality, why should they? Use the Nataraj because Crayola is hard to find. Crayola is not edible, it's just no,-toxic.

helovesme:
. You should consider making Christmas cards as an activity using glitter, colourful cardboard, etc.

I will post a picture later of one my son 'made'.

zaynie:



No pap till baby can sit or is 6months old.
Keep feeding with formular.

enque:
done...thanks

Pretimum:


Thanks! Will try the edible paint mix and see how it goes.

@ajuwarhodes, please where did you get the crayons at Ilupeju?

DANZAK:


@Final4804, I am in Ph and I need that your help o. My Ds is 5 months old on the 12the Dec but we started cereal at 4 months(Gerber rice). The problem now is day I can't find the Gerber rice anywhere again, which other cereal would you suggest for his age. You can also pm me so we can discuss on it further since it's in your line of biz

envynot:
onegai. there is a whatsapp group that is an offshoot of the pregnancy thread
they are all here. they are fond of picking on several members that contribute
a lot on this thread.
helovesme is one of their key favourites. she has been attacked on
that whatsapp group that i wonder why people can have so much hate against
someone that does not even know they exist.
in their usual fashion, her case was brought up yesterday on whatsapp and they all mobilised
to come here and attack her. that is why you see all sorts of unfamiliar usernames
and also new usernames that are not bold enough and decided to register new ones.
you members of that whatsapp group especially your leader, starbuck need to
really breathe in and out.

sometimes i think it is all envy against the likes of helovesme and co.

i took out time to read the last 2-3pages of this thread. to be honest, i do not see
anything bad in what helovesme typed. it is wrong to smack a child and it was
clear that the mother in question showed little or no remorse and instead was expecting
praise for trying hard with her child. it was only helovesme that took out time to reply
every single post she made and even picked on specific issues such as checking the child's
weight, the issue of the creche and so on.

personally, i will term anyone that smacks a 6months old baby to the point of tears a witch.
also calling that person a potential murderer is not wrrong.
there is no justification for it. i lost a niece when she was 9months old over something similar.
she was a known fussy eater. the mother claimed she was feeding the baby and all of a sudden
the child started convulsing. by the time the girl was rushed to the hospital, she had died. she was
declared dead on arrival. meanwhile when the child was around 5months old
my sister in law was caught by my mother pinching her daughter over over this feeding matter.
she was warned not to do so but its clear she carried on. it is not rocket science to
figure out what happened to that child. she must have forced the child to eat and the food ended
up the wrong way. she is treated as an outcast in the family and it took the grace of God for her
marriage to my brother not to end.

helovesme, i think its best you move on to a new username. people look at your first topic
and all they see is a woman with a rich husband living the champagne life. this is why they
pick on you all the time as they think you are looking down on others and you do not
understand whatever suffering people are going through. you are not the only person that
used harsh words on this feeding issue. how come it is you that is being picked on?
your opinon on MMM did not help you either as they think you are mocking those who have
their cash strapped in MMM. people's eyes are boiling and they are looking for who to
vent on. unfortunately, that person was you. if i was in your shoes, i will stay away
from controversial topics because you do pass on your views very strongly and you
are sometimes misunderstood.

it is impossible for we all to see issues the same way or address issues the same way.
some people say things as they are without mincing words.some will rather keep quiet.
others would rather apply more diplomacy.

peace.

starbuck:





Typical you.... Why you so angry about a whatsapp group that was formed 3 plus years ago.. Do you want to be a member (ouch, we don't need you cause we are friends turned family). On behalf of them, we DON'T and CAN NEVER have time to gossip over irrelevant issues... We have more pressing issues than this ...... I don't have time to thread word with you whom was born on a mango tree....

Lest I forget, June 12 2017 will make it 4 years of the whatsapp group.. We making plans to celebrate it. Venue will be posted soon. COME ONE COME ALL.

iomoge2:


Sleep o.
Lol

Nothing do your money.
Next year......we just left meeting and all is well.

Pele

Blessedmum:

Quite a long time Sis, how is my Wifey? I ll like to chat you up on whatsapp I need your opinion on an issue.

MizMyColi:


Uh-oh
My bad. It was a mixup. @ambient used collipan, not you.

I like the bit about mixing in food. I will try it. Thanks.

FINA4804:
I use to say my children don't eat but when I saw my sister inlaw feeding her 7months old baby I respected her and told her ,me I can't do This, they eat for two hours. NOT EATING HAS GRADE, I sell baby food I HAVE SEEN, you will cry for the mother.
In my case , I spank my children to eat, as I spank his buctucks he opens his mouth then I feed. We are in Nigeria, in this country we beat,it will not and can never kill the child. No greater love than the love of a Mother. No body loves my children more than me.
My first child is 3years old if you don't flog her at least one strike she will not eat.
WELL FOR MUMMYGWEN let your baby be hungry, when she wakes up don't breastfeed leave her till 9 or 10 am then feed it will be better, then use good MILK so that if she eats even if it's twice she will get enough nutrients. If you where in Ph I would have assisted you. Well done God is your strength.

LadyPrecy:
mums in the house please dont ignore. my 9months old dd has totally rejected her formula so it happened that this evening i was drinking a glass of warm milk (nido milk) and dd started dragn the cup with me so i quickly made her formula in a cup too and offered her but tasted it nd refused taking it yet she continued dragn my cup of milk and i gave her to drink and she gulped the whole content and was crying for more.. So my question is, is it ok to start giving her cow milk at 9months(nido milk) cc all mamas.

LadyPrecy:
mums in the house please dont ignore. my 9months old dd has totally rejected her formula so it happened that this evening i was drinking a glass of warm milk (nido milk) and dd started dragn the cup with me so i quickly made her formula in a cup too and offered her but tasted it nd refused taking it yet she continued dragn my cup of milk and i gave her to drink and she gulped the whole content and was crying for more.. So my question is, is it ok to start giving her cow milk at 9months(nido milk) cc all mamas.

firsttymum:

Gerber rice? Look for other supported seater cereal... Gerber Whole wheat and even Gerber Oatmeal.
Feddy what's d name of that store again on odili road.
Even market Square on odili road told has it.
And welcome u supermarket in woji

feddy27:


Really! I've always tot it's frm 6months.

Danzak, pele o. Try cow and gate creamy porridge, ur baby will love it

LadyPrecy:
mums in the house please dont ignore. my 9months old dd has totally rejected her formula so it happened that this evening i was drinking a glass of warm milk (nido milk) and dd started dragn the cup with me so i quickly made her formula in a cup too and offered her but tasted it nd refused taking it yet she continued dragn my cup of milk and i gave her to drink and she gulped the whole content and was crying for more.. So my question is, is it ok to start giving her cow milk at 9months(nido milk) cc all mamas.

DANZAK:


No probe ma. My baby is already in love with Gerber cereal.
I bought cow&gate first and [b]discovered small ants [/b]inside even though the pack was sealed.
My dear, I returned to the supermarket I bought it from and collected Gerber rice since then it has been team Gerber all the way.

firsttymum:

Gerber rice? Look for other supported seater cereal... Gerber Whole wheat and even Gerber Oatmeal.
Feddy what's d name of that store again on odili road.
Even market Square on odili road told has it.
And welcome u supermarket in woji

MamaOO:
iomoge,

When I saw the post last night, me sef shock. Talmbout, you're insane, your head is not correct and all sorts cos the woman admitted to beating her 6 month old. I no wan wahala that was why I didn't reply last night. Plus I was tired and sleepy.

Like they say, if you have nothing good to say, don say anything. Me sef get choice words for the mama wey dey beat her pikin, but there are ways to tell her what she's doing is bad than the way she said it. Helovesme is not feeding the poster, neither is she her younger sis or maid. Have some respect dude! Criticize her but don't belittle her. Frustration can lead even the best mom to do bad things. Let her know what she did was bad without sounding like you're her lord and personal savior. Gosh.

And if we talk now, she'll say she lives in an advanced country kinikan kinikan. Me sef dey live for advanced country. Stop using Child Protective Services to scare people. Shebi you have to prove to CPS that someone is abusing her child, or you think you can just go there and tell them mama something is abusing her child and they will just go and arrest her? Oshisko. Abegi! Talmbout tracing IP and shit. Lmao. No be the same CPS?? they have enough wahala than to deploy FBI to search for one random woman on NL.

And I don't condone beating children in any way. MummyGwen please for God's sake, stop beating that child. It's not right and you should never let your anger and frustrations to make you do such things. I'm begging you. If she will take breastmilk. Give her that and keep coaxing her to eat little by little. With time she will adjust. Me sef that has been living her since, I no dey gree try new food, I'll rather stick with my Nigerian cuisine not to talk of a 6month old baby that's still exploring. Pele

feddy27:


hey dear, cow milk is not advisable for under 12 months. I suggest you change the milk. Wat is she taking now? and also use a sippy cup to give her the milk

kidco:
Just one word came to mind after reading your write up ma.... the word is
WOW
THANKS A BUNCH

DANZAK:


Thanks dear, I have been to all those places, in fact welcome u is very close to my house and that's where I shop. The truth is that I am a little skeptical about wheat and oat as my Ds is not on the fat side so I kind of want something that will make him gain weight and I don't think oat and wheat can serve that purpose, though he takes oatmeal well.
I tried Gerber multigrain and it's making his poo black and strong. That is why I think I should stick to rice.

FINA4804:
@Firsttymum, why looking for the shop in peter Odili, when mine is there, it seems you are in PH come and patronize me oh, so that I can eat Christmas chicken.
@Feddy, come to the shop I have a variety of 4months food.

LadyPrecy:
mums in the house please dont ignore. my 9months old dd has totally rejected her formula so it happened that this evening i was drinking a glass of warm milk (nido milk) and dd started dragn the cup with me so i quickly made her formula in a cup too and offered her but tasted it nd refused taking it yet she continued dragn my cup of milk and i gave her to drink and she gulped the whole content and was crying for more.. So my question is, is it ok to start giving her cow milk at 9months(nido milk) cc all mamas.

feddy27:


FINA4804 dey sell baby food and all things babies o... let's patronize her in PH.

But honestly, I don't support Gerber rice for 4months. Cow and Gate; Heinz has good 4 months product. There is also this new Gerber that has probiotics + DHA..very nice! I've not seen it here tho'.