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How Do You Cope With Your Gf That Likes Going To Party by issylarry(m): 8:41pm On Dec 16, 2016
How do you cope with a girlfriend that likes going to party,she can't do without going to party in a week
Re: How Do You Cope With Your Gf That Likes Going To Party by Xcoo(m): 8:47pm On Dec 16, 2016
I dunno
Re: How Do You Cope With Your Gf That Likes Going To Party by Nobody: 8:58pm On Dec 16, 2016
If she is out drinking every week then this is a sign of how things are going to be(always)

There is a time in everyone’s life when they should get down to the business of acting like adults instead of being at a party every-other week.

It is ok to go out and have a good time but as you get "older" you need to cut down(immaturity on her part) on this.

But.........Your perception that your girlfriend is partying too much may come down to a basic difference in personality.

If you are introverted and she is extroverted, her preference for being where the action is may seem excessive to you -- but not to her.

You should consider whether the two of you have enough in common to pursue a relationship.

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Re: How Do You Cope With Your Gf That Likes Going To Party by issylarry(m): 9:09pm On Dec 16, 2016
bbmpin:
If she is out drinking every week then this is a sign of how things are going to be(always)

There is a time in everyone’s life when they should get down to the business of acting like adults instead of life being at a party every-other week.

It is ok to go out and have a good time but as you get "older" you need to cut down(immaturity on her part) on this.

But.........Your perception that your girlfriend is partying too much may come down to a basic difference in personality.

If you are introverted and she is extroverted, her preference for being where the action is may seem excessive to you -- but not to her.

You should consider whether the two of you have enough in common to pursue a relationship.
She doesn't drink...but the most painful part of it is that she can go out with a stranger to club
Re: How Do You Cope With Your Gf That Likes Going To Party by Nobody: 9:12pm On Dec 16, 2016
issylarry:

She doesn't drink...but the most painful part of it is that she can go out with a stranger to club
I see!

Then she isn't "your" girlfriend!

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Re: How Do You Cope With Your Gf That Likes Going To Party by Nobody: 9:16pm On Dec 16, 2016
NIGGA, she's a ticking bomb...... You gadda weigh the differences in your personality and see if both of your lifestyles could match. If it cant, then I'm sorry you've got to end that shit

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Re: How Do You Cope With Your Gf That Likes Going To Party by issylarry(m): 9:22pm On Dec 16, 2016
bbmpin:

I see!

Then she isn't "your" girlfriend!
Am in a dilemma ,so confused. What really happened was I created a fb account with the picture of one of my friend she doesn't know abt.I chated her up n she responded fine...we chated to the extent that she brought u the issue of going to a club and I attacked her back with words,that I knew she wasn't truly in a serious relationship.. she vexed
Re: How Do You Cope With Your Gf That Likes Going To Party by Nobody: 10:22am On Dec 17, 2016
issylarry:

Am in a dilemma ,so confused. What really happened was I created a fb account with the picture of one of my friend she doesn't know abt.I chated her up n she responded fine...we chated to the extent that she brought u the issue of going to a club and I attacked her back with words,that I knew she wasn't truly in a serious relationship.. she vexed
If what you said is true @highlighted then she isn't committed to the relationship,

When a girl is in a relationship(a serious one) "Fraternizing" is the last thing on her mind! she will socialize mostly with her "known" friends

It's when she is single and "willing" that she becomes more social, the answers you seek are as clear as daylight.

Have some "self-worth" and walk away. #Kobayashi Maru scenario

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Re: How Do You Cope With Your Gf That Likes Going To Party by LordSucre(m): 10:31am On Dec 17, 2016
take off bro

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Re: How Do You Cope With Your Gf That Likes Going To Party by issylarry(m): 10:59am On Dec 17, 2016
bbmpin:

If what you said is true @highlighted then she isn't committed to the relationship,

When a girl is in a relationship(a serious one) "Fraternizing" is the last thing on her mind! she will socialize mostly with her "known" friends

It's when she is single and "willing" that she becomes more social, the answers you seek are as clear as daylight.

Have some "self-worth" and walk away. #Kobayashi Maru scenario
Tnx,I appreciate dz...you should be a counselor... u are so matured in your words..

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Re: How Do You Cope With Your Gf That Likes Going To Party by Nobody: 11:17am On Dec 17, 2016
issylarry:

Tnx,I appreciate dz...you should be a counselor... u are so matured in your words..
Thanks!
Re: How Do You Cope With Your Gf That Likes Going To Party by issylarry(m): 11:18am On Dec 17, 2016
bbmpin:

Thanks!
or don't you think we should start deceiving our sef,instead of walking away just like that.Mk me self dcv her small
Re: How Do You Cope With Your Gf That Likes Going To Party by Nobody: 1:40pm On Dec 17, 2016
No biggie.. shes not ur wife...
Re: How Do You Cope With Your Gf That Likes Going To Party by Nobody: 1:45pm On Dec 17, 2016
issylarry:

or don't you think we should start deceiving our sef,instead of walking away just like that.Mk me self dcv her small
You can do that!

But....... understand something, sex is "mental satisfaction" the joy you derive from it, is all in your head!

Instead of wasting time on a failed cause, Devote yourself to something more productive!

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Re: How Do You Cope With Your Gf That Likes Going To Party by issylarry(m): 6:14pm On Dec 17, 2016
bbmpin:

You can do that!

But....... understand something, sex is "mental satisfaction" the joy you derive from it, is all in your head!

Instead of wasting time on a failed cause, Devote yourself to something more productive!

Thanks alot

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