Do men actually expect their wives to wash their undies for them? Even if she volunteers, I cannot allow it.

Amelian:




No be if the woman agree to marry you?


If u don't do it, a better man will do the court wedding with her.
Shikena..
Choices full everywhere

so doing a court marriage makes a man better abi?

eitsei:
so doing a court marriage makes a man better abi?

1 like for you.

It's just psychological manipulation. Tell him he's not a better man because he wants xxxxx so he can change his mind.

KevinDein:
1 like for you.

It's just psychological manipulation. Tell him he's not a better man because he wants xxxxx so he can change his mind.

don't mind her jare, I don't know why everything must always be about them

I thought she was as well.

That is one of her quotes below on the attached link so not sure why she made that statement if she was not married. Nawa oh.

https://www.nairaland.com/2096499/ladies-pls-pls-beware

Re: Ladies , Pls Pls Beware by Amelian(f): 12:02pm On Jan 16, 2015
yes oo, am speaking from experience smiley

but thank God, am smart..my instincts never fails...and am always curious...i wont take all words, line,hook and sinker....warri babe no dey carry last... sweet words, magnificent houses , awesome cars dont move me..nahhh...thats one ace, i had up my sleeve, when i was searching back then , and wanted a stable partner..
thank God, i got married to a normal dark good looking guy who has a normal everyday job, one can identify with..and we met in my compound, he came to see my next door neighbor who is his secondary school mate, back then...my neighbor respects me, and i notice he talks highly of him too, that's how my grounded , romantic and real relationship started and we are married...my neighbor could not believe that any guy could make me chuckle.. am always serious, quiet and easy going...we , sha clicked grin

Aquariann:


Rather than have a healthy debate, you always come out gun blazing, attacking anyone whose opinion don't sit well with you. The embolden wasn't necessary.

I personally wouldn't have a court wedding for whatever reason. And I know people who never had one and are doing fine.

And by the way, thought you were already married as you always mention your hubby and baby? What's with the several proposals received this year?

I thought you were married as per your quote in the link below. Are you now saying you are not again? You can correct me if I'm wrong though.

https://www.nairaland.com/2096499/ladies-pls-pls-beware

Re: Ladies , Pls Pls Beware by Amelian(f): 12:02pm On Jan 16, 2015
yes oo, am speaking from experience smiley

but thank God, am smart..my instincts never fails...and am always curious...i wont take all words, line,hook and sinker....warri babe no dey carry last... sweet words, magnificent houses , awesome cars dont move me..nahhh...thats one ace, i had up my sleeve, when i was searching back then , and wanted a stable partner..
thank God, i got married to a normal dark good looking guy who has a normal everyday job, one can identify with..and we met in my compound, he came to see my next door neighbor who is his secondary school mate, back then...my neighbor respects me, and i notice he talks highly of him too, that's how my grounded , romantic and real relationship started and we are married...my neighbor could not believe that any guy could make me chuckle.. am always serious, quiet and easy going...we , sha clicked grin

Amelian:



Oh ok
The look alike baby is my god daughter. One of my married friends, who looks like me is her mother. When I saw her daughter for the first time, I fell inlove with her. Yeah, the Lil girl looks like her mum and me Such cute bundle of joy.

About knowing about marriages, most of my friends, if not all are married women and few married men. They always confide in me, am kind of a listening ear to their problems at home. At my spare time, I ponder on their problems and try find some feasible solutions to what they complain about. My mind won't rest until a solution comes up. In short we all rub minds. So I virtually know most things that goes on in marriages and with in-laws. I love to learn and study my environment and people around me, so I won't certain mistakes they make.
I learn everyday that's the beauty about a creative mind.

So am not married but hope to be someday

on social media, you can be married today, divorced tomorrow. You can even be single and say you are married. Choose whatever status you want to choose wisely and make sure you remember. Lies are easy to tell but it won't stand the test of time Cuz they are so many fact checkers.

Gbam

bennyrazz:
on social media, you can be married today, divorced tomorrow. You can even be single and say you are married. Choose whatever status you want to choose wisely and make sure you remember. Lies are easy to tell but it won't stand the test of time Cuz they are so many fact checkers.

TheeDetective:
I thought you were married as per your quote in the link below. Are you now saying you are not again? You can correct me if I'm wrong though.

https://www.nairaland.com/2096499/ladies-pls-pls-beware

Re: Ladies , Pls Pls Beware by Amelian(f): 12:02pm On Jan 16, 2015
yes oo, am speaking from experience smiley

but thank God, am smart..my instincts never fails...and am always curious...i wont take all words, line,hook and sinker....warri babe no dey carry last... sweet words, magnificent houses , awesome cars dont move me..nahhh...thats one ace, i had up my sleeve, when i was searching back then , and wanted a stable partner..
thank God, i got married to a normal dark good looking guy who has a normal everyday job, one can identify with..and we met in my compound, he came to see my next door neighbor who is his secondary school mate, back then...my neighbor respects me, and i notice he talks highly of him too, that's how my grounded , romantic and real relationship started and we are married...my neighbor could not believe that any guy could make me chuckle.. am always serious, quiet and easy going...we , sha clicked grin

Yawns "it's a beautiful story"

So?

Then you for say nah story and not deceive people.

Amelian:











It's a story

And?

And if you guys are expecting another make believe story.

Well sorry 2 burst y'all bubbles.. It ain't happening

Lol

Una wan hear story?

Story story? Storryyyy


Once upon a time? Time time

Oya make all of una siddon make I give another story

Oh jeez! Very funny peeps. Lol

Abi oh, me sef shock, and she now come talk say nah story. Story indeed. Ok oh story teller continue ooo

Aquariann:


My bad then, thought I once saw a picture of you and a lookalike baby on here. Again, you always have an advice for every marital issue on NL, so I guess it fuelled my assumption your advices were from your experience as a married woman.

Modified: Amelia, you claimed to be married on this thread https://www.nairaland.com/2096499/ladies-pls-pls-beware. Can you explain now please?

Cc: TheeDetective, thanks o. I was just too busy to search through her comments

TheeDetective:
Then you for say nah story and not deceive people.

Deceive ke


I was only living a make believe story back then with what uv dug up.


Lol


You can simply google mY real name on facebook , snoop around my neighborhood and confirm if am married!
It's that simple
Cmon don't be lazy

Don't u think?

Ok oh if you talk say nah story. But be careful with stories oh, as you can see that when you said you were married in that statment you no add say nah story o. Anyway it's all good.

Amelian:




Deceive ke


I was only living a make believe story back then with what uv dug up.


Lol


You can simply google mY real name on facebook , snoop around my neighborhood and confirm if am married!
It's that simple
Cmon don't be lazy

Don't u think?

Amelian:




Deceive ke


I was only living a make believe story back then with what uv dug up.


Lol


You can simply google mY real name on facebook , snoop around my neighborhood and confirm if am married!
It's that simple
Cmon don't be lazy

Don't u think?

I am a bit confused. I can understand wanting privacy and not sharing personal stuff on social media.
However, surely you don't have to divulge anything if you do not wish, you are fully in control of what you type. Why tell tales rather than say nothing?

Amelian:
And if you guys are expecting another make believe story.

Well sorry 2 burst y'all bubbles.. It ain't happening

Lol

Una wan hear story?

Story story? Storryyyy


Once upon a time? Time time

Oya make all of una siddon make I give another story

Oh jeez! Very funny peeps. Lol

Please just stop fooling yourself. No one after seeing this is going to take you serious. From your comment about learning from other people's experience, you earned my admiration and respect, so just do yourself some good and shut up.

She say nah story

shaybebaby:

I am a bit confused. I can understand wanting privacy and not sharing personal stuff on social media.
However, surely you don't have to divulge anything if you do not wish, you are fully in control of what you type. Why tell tales rather than say nothing?

Aquariann:


Please just stop fooling yourself. No one after seeing this is going to take you serious. From your comment about learning from other people's experience, you earned my admiration and respect, so just do yourself some good and shut up.

You should SHUT THE FUCCK UP!

did I send u on a merry go round with your detective friend to go snooping on. My page?


I didn't send u that work. O

Since. Morning, u were sniffing and snooping . So don't blame me. With whatever u see.
Because I know much about married lives, and other things about life Shouldnt create headaches for u..
It's my life and my business!
And for the records my private life is mine to keep. And mine to divulge.

If that pretty little girl is my daughter I will. Never deny her.. Cause she is too beautiful to. Be denied
Why claim another woman's child, when it's not like am crazy.

So if u are looking for. Another juicy story

Just gerrout and go look for tales by moonlight


Ode.. Goat.. Mumu

Bloody foovl.

I am a 40ft tall pink Giraffe with feathers on my feet. Does anyone know if trains run from Lagos to Abuja, because I can only find Abuja to Lagos.

Hullo Thorpido. PM please?

shaybebaby:

I am a bit confused. I can understand wanting privacy and not sharing personal stuff on social media.
However, surely you don't have to divulge anything if you do not wish, you are fully in control of what you type. Why tell tales rather than say nothing?

Well it's my right to tell tales or say the real deal.

And I can choose to do whichever one I want.

It's my fucvking business.. Not yours..


Why should I tell a faceless forum while my pic is on my profile all My life history?


cmonnnnn! Honestly I don't know how u guys think?
Should my fucvking life history be so accessible to faceless people here
Let's be realistic and not be swayed by hearing more sweet tales by moonlight.

Some people can decide not to say anything about their lives

Some. People can tell tales about their lives

Some people can even tell a tale they wish they are in it But in the real sense, are not in it . But portray it like they are already in it

When ones mind is hyper creative.. Anything with the mind happens..


Most things I say here is true.. U can believe or not.. I care less..
I know some peeps here have learned one or two things and also adjust in their daily lives on some things I say here.
And that's the beauty of life .. Enlightening and also possibly entertaining myself and certain peeps.

But am. Simply a creative person with my. Mind and I study my environment most times.

And I ain't! Apologising for it!
It's my decision and my choice.

Not yours.

Onegai:
I am a 40ft tall pink Giraffe with feathers on my feet. Does anyone know if trains run from Lagos to Abuja, because I can only find Abuja to Lagos.

Hullo Thorpido. PM please?

Yea send.

thorpido:
Yea send.

Thanks. It's a medical question. I hope you can help, even though I have it on good authority you're actually an experienced School teacher with a smashing knowledge of First Aid

Amelian:




Well it's my right to tell tales or say the real deal.

And I can choose to do whichever one I want.

It's my fucvking business.. Not yours..


Why should I tell a faceless forum while my pic is on my profile all My life history?


cmonnnnn! Honestly I don't know how u guys think?
Should my fucvking life history be so accessible to faceless people here
Let's be realistic and not be swayed by hearing more sweet tales by moonlight.

Some people can decide not to say anything about their lives

Some. People can tell tales about their lives

Some people can even tell a tale they wish they are in it But in the real sense, are not in it . But portray it like they are already in it

When ones mind is hyper creative.. Anything with the mind happens..


Most things I say here is true.. U can believe or not.. I care less..
I know some peeps here have learned one or two things and also adjust in their daily lives on some things I say here.
And that's the beauty of life .. Enlightening and also possibly entertaining myself and certain peeps.

But am. Simply a creative person with my. Mind and I study my environment most times.

And I ain't! Apologising for it!
It's my decision and my choice.

Not yours.

...or saying nothing at all as opposed to telling porkies or revealing anything about yourself.

Note, I didn't ask about your life, I asked about the rationale behind lying. A creative mind should always be encouraged but when posting, attach a disclaimer saying it's fiction.

Don't pen fiction claiming its biography.

Onegai:
I am a 40ft tall pink Giraffe with feathers on my feet. Does anyone know if trains run from Lagos to Abuja, because I can only find Abuja to Lagos.

Hullo Thorpido. PM please?

What if I told you that Neil Armstrong is my cousin nko?

Get a flight boo.

shaybebaby:

...or saying nothing at all as opposed to telling porkies or revealing anything about yourself.

Note, I didn't ask about your life, I asked about the rationale behind lying. A creative mind should always be encouraged but when posting, attach a disclaimer saying it's fiction.

Don't pen fiction claiming its biography.

The detective and Aquariann were so engrossed about my life and desperate know if am married, divorced or widowed.
I know the way some people operate here. They push u 2 say certain things about ones life, and there partners in crime Are waiting for the right opportunity 2 slam it on one's face.

Am. Not taking about u, Sheybaby.

But trust me that's the whole purpose of their digging and digging Today.. Lol

Nairalanders I hail O

Well, it's well.

And yeah I think I will add disclaimer to it, if the story is just a fiction.
You are right on that.

But seriously for the records, am single, got engaged once and never married o!


As soon. As I signed the dotted lines, I will be so proud and even arrogant sef To be finally called Mrs.

Aye sef, go Gbô!

And I will change my handle as well, and add Mrs ontop

Fair deal right?

Engrossed about your life, for wetin? Nah you take your mouth talk say you don marry. When questioned for confirmation, you come say nah story.

Good say you go follow shaybebaby advice to put a disclaimer to distinguish wetin be true and wetin be false when you wan tell story.

Amelian:




The detective and Aquariann were so engrossed about my life and desperate know if am married, divorced or widowed.
I know the way some people operate here. They push u 2 say certain things about ones life, and there partners in crime Are waiting for the right opportunity 2 slam it on one's face.

Am. Not taking about u, Sheybaby.

But trust me that's the whole purpose of their digging and digging Today.. Lol

Nairalanders I hail O

Well, it's well.

And yeah I think I will add disclaimer to it, if the story is just a fiction.
You are right on that.

But seriously for the records, am single, got engaged once and never married o!


As soon. As I signed the dotted lines, I will be so proud and even arrogant sef To be finally called Mrs.

Aye sef, go Gbô!

And I will change my handle as well, and add Mrs ontop

Fair deal right?

Amelian:




The detective and Aquariann were so engrossed about my life and desperate know if am married, divorced or widowed.
I know the way some people operate here. They push u 2 say certain things about ones life, and there partners in crime Are waiting for the right opportunity 2 slam it on one's face.

Am. Not taking about u, Sheybaby.

But trust me that's the whole purpose of their digging and digging Today.. Lol

Nairalanders I hail O

Well, it's well.

And yeah I think I will add disclaimer to it, if the story is just a fiction.
You are right on that.

But seriously for the records, am single, got engaged once and never married o!


As soon. As I signed the dotted lines, I will be so proud and even arrogant sef To be finally called Mrs.

Aye sef, go Gbô!

And I will change my handle as well, and add Mrs ontop

Fair deal right?

I get the need to be careful of what one divulges, some might use it as ammo in an e-fight.

I guess it's on here the whole relationship thing is a big deal. It really isn't.

Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. Go out there and live the dreams you dream. YOLO.

TheeDetective:
Engrossed about your life, for wetin? Nah you take your mouth talk say you don marry. When questioned for confirmation, you come say nah story.

Good say you go follow shaybebaby advice to put a disclaimer to distinguish wetin be true and wetin be false when you wan tell story.

Sherlock, e don do.

Hehehe, you sef follow join the sherlock nah.

shaybebaby:

Sherlock, e don do.

TheeDetective:
Hehehe, you sef follow join the sherlock nah.

Actually, you got me to comment after you dug out her previous post subsequent to her first assertations.

I guess I was surprised because I imagined the other fella got it wrong and then viola! You stepped in.

There was me thinking that misrepresentation is the harder option as it takes time and effort so couldn't fathom why anyone would create work when there is no need to even do the work at all. Naive me.

Now this is highly entertaining.

No need to be naive as we all undergo a learning process. It's all good.

shaybebaby:

Actually, you got me to comment after you dug out her previous post subsequent to her first assertations.

I guess I was surprised because I imagined the other fella got it wrong and then viola! You stepped in.

There was me thinking that misrepresentation is the harder option as it takes time and effort so couldn't fathom why anyone would create work when there is no need to even do the work at all. Naive me.