seriously, don't be deceived by the many couples you see celebrating the festive period, if only you know what or how they feel........ (Those in relationships envy the happiness of singles, while those outside envy the happy smiles of couples).
I once had such experience with a girl, she still remains one if the best I ever met, for her to have apologized, she means well. Who knows, she could probably be over-excited to have you around.

Alsini6:
ur own beta mine stole my phone

U don't say
Thart one na ashana

Kenshinmunac:





Ermmm

Can i drop my number so you add me on whatsapp? If it's okay with you...

okay

Bro u just got to calm down nd check out ursef first!U wan a long term relationship, it'll surely take tym to get a good gurl.So many out dere aren't good enough for wife material.
Relax ur mind cuz if u rush too much u gonna end up with d wrong gurl.
Thank goodness d oda gurl showed dat wen u wanna meet a gurl u don't av to be too happy cuz d tendency dat she has a guy is also high.Kip calm,a good gurl will come.Thx be God u are financially okay

firstking01:
Nope, you'd never have peace not while i'm still on here until you give me what i want

You're not serious

Aniker:
You're not serious

And you are getting on my nerves the more ba

Kenshinmunac:
*sigh* searching and searching for a girlfriend, all to no avail. Young cool fine guy, but very lonely, no girlfriend. I don't think at this point with all this rejection that I will ever get married in life.

I have searching for a gf, met some girls who turned out to be nasty gold diggers, I didn't wanna waste my time on them cause I'm not a flirt, I'm not looking for a short term relationship so having "fun" with all these girls seemed like a waste of time to me as Sex is not my problem, love is.

So I met this girl few days back, we got talking, I fell for her instantly, she looked calm and very honest, she is not all these girls who do kk in chat, she is caring and very simple, hard to come by., we flowed really well chatting and I was very happy I found someone as I quickly asked her out and she said "let's see how it goes"

I said okay, so today being Sunday, normal chilling day, I called her, very eager to see her beautiful face once more, we got talking and she said I should come to her side.

So I said okay by six,

Six reach I entered road straight to her side, 30 mins drive, when I got close I dialled her number twice she didn't pick I thought maybe she was taking her bath or something was patient and kept on going, so when I got there by 7pm, I called and called but she didn't pick up the call and she was expecting me o!

Na so I begin call her, Even send whatsapp message and direct message all to no avail. I got so maddddd and pissed off, I almost cried because I don't know why I'm being treated like this by ladies. Head to toe I complete, face I fine, fashion sense Is great, but yet, my handsomeness and the growing cash I get can't even get me the slightest fly talk less about a lady

*sigh*

By 5 mins past 8 she called me, by then I was already going home, and she began to plead, this where error words.

"please I'm sorry, my elder brother took my phone to share WiFi, I didn't know he would go far"

I asked "didn't you tell him you were expecting someone"?"

She replied" i did na but he did not listen, I can't just come and stand on the road and be waiting for you, please don't be angry"

In my heart I said Chai! What kind of excuse is this?? This girl just told me indirectly that I'm not important.

So painful.

I see guys with their girl very happy preparing for Christmas, me i have none. All I do is admire beautiful couples and wish It could be......

Unfortunately the sad reality greets me in my face.

I begin to lose my self confidence gradually because of rejection.

Smh, all I feel right now is self pity, all I can do is lament.

I don't know if I just dislike women right now self.

hmmmmmm I just pray you are telling the truth because you guys are very funny these days, some will come here and say this kind of things probably to get a particular girls attention and when something seems good '''''' off they go..
Log in with another username....... You people are really funny sha we are watching you guys in 3D

Tobechuckwu:
Bro u just got to calm down nd check out ursef first!U wan a long term relationship, it'll surely take tym to get a good gurl.So many out dere aren't good enough for wife material.
Relax ur mind cuz if u rush too much u gonna end up with d wrong gurl.
Thank goodness d oda gurl showed dat wen u wanna meet a gurl u don't av to be too happy cuz d tendency dat she has a guy is also high.Kip calm,a good gurl will come.Thx be God u are financially okay

Thanks bro

yomi007k:
Dont worry bro I use to be like u.


When dey get to 28 dey will be loyal but for now, dey will act like dey run d world.

What happens at 28...

Softbamboo:


What happens at 28...

Wait till u go past it.

She's not serious.... forget about her..or better still, don't ever take her serious again. That's the beginning of excuse for her and it will never end. It's a bad attitude to be flaky. So she expected you to be around by 8pm...

yomi007k:



Wait till u go past it.

It's coming next year... So.... Enlighten me

Will I turn into a pumpkin

Softbamboo:


It's coming next year... So.... Enlighten me

Will I turn into a pumpkin

Nop....u jus wait

yomi007k:



Nop....u jus wait

Mxm... Empty threats

U are gonna tell me I'll die alone or something... I'll be Soooo desperate I'll go for any guy like the OP ( no offence)

Softbamboo:


Mxm... Empty threats

U are gonna tell me I'll die alone or something... I'll be Soooo desperate I'll go for any guy like the OP ( no offence)

Jus relax.u wont die.

FreeSpirited:
She's not serious.... forget about her..or better still, don't ever take her serious again. That's the beginning of excuse for her and it will never end. It's a bad attitude to be flaky. So she expected you to be around by 8pm...

No mind her

Softbamboo:


Mxm... Empty threats

U are gonna tell me I'll die alone or something... I'll be Soooo desperate I'll go for any guy like the OP ( no offence)

firstking01:
And you are getting on my nerves the more ba

Yes, what is you gon do?

Kenshinmunac:

Sorry... You seem very sweet but never show that to any woman....

They will walk all over u...

Advice just ignore her... She will come back to you and offer u more than you hoped to get...

It's called reverse rejection... It hurts... When the one you didn't want doesn't want you

Softbamboo:


Sorry... You seem very sweet but never show that to any woman....

They will walk all over u...

Advice just ignore her... She will come back to you and offer u more than you hoped to get...

It's called reverse rejection... It hurts... When the one you didn't want doesn't want you

But I don't understand, if I don't do that. Won't a lady tag me as not romantic, not caring, things like that?? I thought ladies want their man to give them attention. But in reality why do they lie guys who don't give a Bleep and act arrogant?

It just means that I can't really be myself around lady, from what you just said...

Kenshinmunac:


But I don't understand, if I don't do that. Won't a lady tag me as not romantic, not caring, things like that?? I thought ladies want their man to give them attention. But in reality why do they lie guys who don't give a Bleep and act arrogant?

It's a mystery...

Ok think about supply and demand... If a lot of people want a thing but there's limited supply... You can charge more as that thing has value

So if no one wants that thing why should I pay money or also want it

So if u give your GF too much attention she gets bored coz it's oversupply... It implies no one else wants you... Ie she doesn't have anything special ( yawn)

So Imagen that bad guy who doesn't even the time of day for u... U are busy thinking he has an oversupply of girl and you are so lucky to have his attention and as a woman who is insecure your value is validated (sadly)

Kenshinmunac:


But I don't understand, if I don't do that. Won't a lady tag me as not romantic, not caring, things like that?? I thought ladies want their man to give them attention. But in reality why do they lie guys who don't give a Bleep and act arrogant?

It just means that I can't really be myself around lady, from what you just said...

How old are u...

Softbamboo:


It's a mystery...

Ok think about supply and demand... If a lot of people want a thing but there's limited supply... You can charge more as that thing has value

So if no one wants that thing why should I pay money or also want it

So if u give your GF too much attention she gets bored coz it's oversupply... It implies no one else wants you... Ie she doesn't have anything special ( yawn)

So Imagen that bad guy who doesn't even the time of day for u... U are busy thinking he has an oversupply of girl and you are so lucky to have his attention and as a woman who is insecure your value is validated (sadly)

Aiit makes sense. So my Bleep is giving attention.

Noted#

So all I got to do is be a smooth asshole. Lol

But what about marriage is this the same way it will work out?

Softbamboo:


How old are u...

I am more than 20.

Kenshinmunac:


Aiit makes sense. So my Bleep is giving attention.

Noted#

So all I got to do is be a smooth asshole. Lol

But what about marriage is this the same way it will work out?

Lol um... Hmmm I can't tell you about marriage... I don't have the experience yet

But logic tells me that u do not want to try this method with your wife... Coz u technically bought her (or each other) so supply n demand has no impact coz it's too late they married u

I'm not saying be an asshole ... I'm saying be distant and emotionless... It creates mystery... She will come to u to find out if u still care

Softbamboo:


Lol um... Hmmm I can't tell you about marriage... I don't have the experience yet

But logic tells me that u do not want to try this method with your wife... Coz u technically bought her (or each other) so supply n demand has no impact coz it's too late they married u

I'm not saying be an asshole ... I'm saying be distant and emotionless... It creates mystery... She will come to u to find out if u still care

Irony of life sha.

Stupid world.

Lol.

Thanks for the classes.

Kenshinmunac:


I am more than 20.

You are still young... There are soon many girls out there... I'm serious

This is you chance to practice... You won't marry every girl as IV learnt

Aniker:
Yes, what is you gon do?

If i lay my hands on you i'm gon fvck you to stupor trust me

firstking01:
If i lay my hands on you i'm gon fvck you to stupor trust me

Am rolling on the floor in your dreams

Aniker:
Am rolling on the floor in your dreams

Dam, she's tryna bruise my ego ...pray i shouldn't catch you in the beach party

After chatting with her for few days, you fell in love. With her words or what And the girl even apologized to you.