firstking01:
My bad ...

Cc toks2008.

Please kindly ignore her...

lefulefu:
And that's why when Africans get married to western foreigners for green card and papers dey dump such partners as soon as they get abroad.That's why ladies who get married to rich old men still cheat on them with younger men.No sane individual would want a partner who wants to be with him or her cos of his/her money or the political connections the individual has.i do believe in our hearts of hearts we want someone who has genuine love for us even if we don't want to admit it here.We are humans afterall.

That is the point but then have you not seen two nationals marry till death? have you not seen the poor marry the rich till death do them part?

Please wake up from your illusion and face reality.

Toks2008:


Please kindly ignore her...

Nope, the allegation is to huge to ignore sir...maybe you have some explanations to do, don't you think so?, and more over i 've heard something like this about you before, and that further butress my curiosity

firstking01:
Nope, the allegation is to huge to ignore sir...maybe you have some explanations to do, don't you think so?, and more over i 've heard something like this about you before, and that further butress my curiosity

As I wrote...ignore her.

If you read through the thread you will see where I mentioned that nairalanders and baseless presumptions are like bread and butter..trust me,I'm enjoying it which is why I played along .

Same way some concluded that I'm seeing jadekitana. . a lady I have never seen in my life.

So please just ignore.

Toks2008:


That is the point but then have you not seen two nationals marry till death? have you not seen the poor marry the rich till death do them part?

Please wake up from your illusion and face reality.

illusion in what way? By the way how many rich ppl actually get married to poor ppl? Bianca was never frm a poor family when she got married to ojukwu and Zahra buhari just got married to a rich guy as well.The rich will always get married to the rich and if u happen to see otherwise it could be one of the partners is contributing something to the relationship. If u just married a woman just cos of her fat azz only ,u will dump her for another woman with a fatter ass and if a woman married u for ur money only, she will dump u for a richer guy.

lefulefu:
If u just married a woman just cos of her fat azz only ,u will dump her for another woman with a fatter ass and if a woman married u for ur money only, she will dump u for a richer guy.

It does not always work out that way dude.

As I wrote..95% or even more of the marriages we see are scam marriages cos it is usually borne out of selfish interest.

Toks2008:


As I wrote...ignore her.

If you read through the thread you will see where I mentioned that nairalanders and baseless presumptions are like bread and butter..trust me,I'm enjoying it which is why I played along .

Same way some concluded that I'm seeing jadekitana. . a lady I have never seen in my life.

So please just ignore.

Ok

Toks2008:


It does not always work out that way dude.

As I wrote..95% or even more of the marriages we see are scam marriages cos it is usually borne out of selfish interest.

and that is why such marriages collapse when they stand against a little challenge.u can imagine a marriage were a lady married a man cos he was earning 950k a month during d Jonathan era and and he lost his job during d buhari recession era....how would such a marriage then survive if she is into d money..lol.

lefulefu:
and that is why such marriages collapse when they stand against a little challenge.u can imagine a marriage were a lady married a man cos he was earning 950k a month during d Jonathan era and and he lost his job during d buhari recession era....how would such a marriage then survive if she is into d money..lol.

See dude just try to forget all the talks of marrying someone for who he is...it's a charade.

Even if a guy is so broke and a lady is all over him..just check well and it will amaze you that there is still something the lady sees and in the absence of that thing she will leave or not go into it at all.

My point is very clear. .every reason for marriage is valid enough as long as there is a reason no matter how ackward it sounds.

Toks2008:


I destroy every monitoring spirit on and offline following me upandan by fire in the name of yeshua.

Just no die on top my matter.

I don't dislike you. I just didn't want you to continue being hypocritical. I pray that the Lord blesses you in all ways.

FortuneTeller:


I don't dislike you. I just didn't want you to continue being hypocritical. I pray that the Lord blesses you in all ways.

Hypocrisy! oh my not again.

Why can't you just be straight with me and stop all these yabara act.

In what way am I been hypocritical? you have made several unfounded accusations and I practically begged you to come out blunt but you refused.

Biko free me...

Let me ask you..if you have a brother that is so good in a business that thrives better outside the country and he happens to be single will you not advice he finds a good lady outside the country to marry? at least that will give him the chance to boost his business.

How does that translate to scam? are there not sweet looking Good mannered ladies in U.K or in the states? how does it automatically become a scam marriage if a Nigerian guy or lady decides to marry a foreigner? or I guess it is OK if the foreigner is from Ghana,Togo or Cameroun but if the person is from U.K,U.S,Canada...it automatically becomes a sinister move..

This is absurd.

Toks2008:


Hypocrisy! oh my not again.

Why can't you just be straight with me and stop all these yabara act.

In what way am I been hypocritical? you have made several unfounded accusations and I practically begged you to come out blunt but you refused.

Biko free me...

Let me ask you..if you have a brother that is so good in a business that thrives better outside the country and he happens to be single will you not advice he finds a good lady outside the country to marry? at least that will give him the chance to boost his business.

How does that translate to scam? are there not sweet looking Good mannered ladies in U.K or in the states? how does it automatically become a scam marriage if a Nigerian guy or lady decides to marry a foreigner? or I guess it is OK if the foreigner is from Ghana,Togo or Cameroun but if the person is from U.K,U.S,Canada...it automatically becomes a sinister move..

This is absurd.

of course its a sinister move if a 26 yr old nigerian man gets married to a 78 yr old white American woman.the is doing for green card.why is it that most of such guys dump such old women as soon as they get to the states and hook up with their long term younger girlfriends.lets call a spade a spade.

lefulefu:
of course its a sinister move if a 26 yr old nigerian man gets married to a 78 yr old white American woman.the is doing for green card.why is it that most of such guys dump such old women as soon as they get to the states and hook up with their long term younger girlfriends.lets call a spade a spade.

Guy even the 78 year old woman knows it's a charade from the onset but the feeling of having a young schlong in her makes her overlook the red flag.

But you know the funny part? if the 78year old knows how to keep that young guy, she just might be with him till she passes on or even be with him while allowing him to catch his fun if he so desires.....REALITY OF LIFE

Toks2008:


Hypocrisy! oh my not again.

Why can't you just be straight with me and stop all these yabara act.

In what way am I been hypocritical? you have made several unfounded accusations and I practically begged you to come out blunt but you refused.

Biko free me...

Let me ask you..if you have a brother that is so good in a business that thrives better outside the country and he happens to be single will you not advice he finds a good lady outside the country to marry? at least that will give him the chance to boost his business.

How does that translate to scam? are there not sweet looking Good mannered ladies in U.K or in the states? how does it automatically become a scam marriage if a Nigerian guy or lady decides to marry a foreigner? or I guess it is OK if the foreigner is from Ghana,Togo or Cameroun but if the person is from U.K,U.S,Canada...it automatically becomes a sinister move..

This is absurd.

You wan compare lady from Ghana vs lady from US? Which one will you choose? Why did you talk with a lady from Canada and my associate from the US if the Ghana woman was free? I think you are a great writer, but when it comes to matters of the heart, you have been deceptive. You defended the scammer in the other thread and I only wanted to point our your hypocrisy. Your runaway wife is not my concern. I only brought her forth to show you my knowledge of who you are. I will let this matter rest. Biko you are free!

FortuneTeller:


You wan compare lady from Ghana vs lady from US? Which one will you choose? Why did you talk with a lady from Canada and my associate from the US if the Ghana woman was free? I think you are a great writer, but when it comes to matters of the heart, you have been deceptive. You defended the scammer in the other thread and I only wanted to point our your hypocrisy. Your runaway wife is not my concern. I only brought her forth to show you my knowledge of who you are. I will let this matter rest. Biko you are free!

Yawns!

First get this for the last time...it is a man's choice if he decides to marry a Gambian or an American which is the same way a lady chooses between a struggling guy and a made guy and this should never be considered as a scam.

Secondly please be mature and stop this silly talks of runaway wife cos it's kinda childish...did I tell you I was married? I only played along with your unfounded allegations.

And for the records..get this straight..a guy can talk to 100ladies from the same compound as long as he is single and searching and has not found one that says YES to his approach.

Toks2008:


Yawns!

First get this for the last time...it is a man's choice if he decides to marry a Gambian or an American which is the same way a lady chooses between a struggling guy and a made guy and this should never be considered as a scam.

Secondly please be mature and stop this silly talks of runaway wife cos it's kinda childish...did I tell you I was married? I only played along with your unfounded allegations.

And for the records..get this straight..a guy can talk to 100ladies from the same compound as long as he is single and searching and has not found one that says YES to his approach.

Are you now denying your wife? If so, that means you lied to the lady, which would imply you were trying to scam her.

FortuneTeller:


Are you now denying your wife? If so, that means you lied to the lady, which would imply you were trying to scam her.

How I wish I even know this imaginary lady you are talking about.

You need to cut the chase and be more reasonable...In Africa no man can lay claim on any lady unless a bride price is paid on her and that I have not done on any woman ever. Whatever any one told you asides this is a misconception and i guess she must have told you I also said my imaginary wife ran away...yeye dey smell.

Now have i not proved to you over and over again that im 100% legit? if i actually told your imaginary friend I was married does that not show how plain I am? which is more convinient to tell a lady you are wooing? I rest my case.

For the last time..stop this childish thing and stop using that SCAM word...it's sickening ..

Toks2008:


Yawns!

First get this for the last time...it is a man's choice if he decides to marry a Gambian or an American which is the same way a lady chooses between a struggling guy and a made guy and this should never be considered as a scam.

Secondly please be mature and stop this silly talks of runaway wife cos it's kinda childish...did I tell you I was married? I only played along with your unfounded allegations.

And for the records..get this straight..a guy can talk to 100ladies from the same compound as long as he is single and searching and has not found one that says YES to his approach.

You and fortuneteller share a lot in common, why don't you just desist from the obvious pretense and do the needful...you gat my back

firstking01:
You and fortuneteller share a lot in common, why don't you just desist from the obvious pretense and do the needful...you gat my back

My guy I tire o...till this moment I'm still cracking my head to decipher that friend of hers and I'm beginning to think she made it up.

I still wonder how a lady will preempt a scam marriage just because the man in question is a Nigerian and she is an almighty American abeg does that not sound dumb?
people are talking about getting scammed of millions of dollars and this one dey worry herself about scam marriage all because the lady is an American ....

How is America dollar greater than the euro used by many chengen countries? are there no hot chics from European nations?

This is why many countries detest united states because their citizens see other nationals as second class citizens.

I'm single and ready to mingle and even settle down so if I like I go for a village girl,city gal Brazilian togolese french or Cambodian lady my headache my choice.

Please help me tell fortuneTeller to leave me alone o...if she likes me let her open up and stop dancing around and if she has a sister or friend who wants a sincere guy she should consider such lucky if she has someone like me.

I'm too old for scam marriage..at my age the most important thing is to widen my horizon and settle down in a purposeful marriage...why will I be foolish to start paying child support with the money I ought to be investing in Naija.

Madam fortune biko count me out of your presumptive scam thing...I'm too focused and clean for that shit.

Merry Christmas Nairalanders..just in case you haven't got your meat contact me for live goat (around Ajah)
Check my profile for more details.
Thanks for the patronage so far.

Toks2008:
[s]This piece is written as a result of the misconception many people have when it comes to tagging a marital union a scam or potential scam.

Many guys and ladies are still single at very ripe age because they still believe that their intending spouse should love them for "real"(whatever that means) so they always want to be too careful and in the process fall into worse hands..

The stark truth is that there will always be a reason for anyone to be with another regardless of how selfish,lame or wicked it may sound but at the end it is still a legitimate union and the couple could be together till death if the conditions remain favorable so what is the fuss about?

In essence,whatever reason you choose to marry that person is your choice..whether it is because of parental pressure,beauty,sex,money,nationality,fame,power and so on,it remains a valid reason and the other party should either take the risk or back out.

- An unassuming guy woos a rich lady and she says he only wants her money.

-A rich guy sees a lady who wants him and he says it's about his money.

-A Nigerian guy or lady chooses to marry an European or American and they say it's for a green card.

-Even a broke cocky guy will say a lady does not really want him but just love his bedmatics.

Conclusively I will say there is really nothing like scam marriage because most marriages are as a result of selfish interest from both party.

My opinion.[/s]

Christmas bonus from SEUN by making this shitt hit front page

OMG Please are you for real?

Toks you can say that again

I already knw...but some morons will still say "i want a man/woman who will love me unconditionally"...

Op you dey find trouble..

some layabouts wey by chance see man marry go soon come for your head.. na their own life achievement you don rubbish so

Toks2008:
This piece is written as a result of the misconception many people have when it comes to tagging a marital union a scam or potential scam.

Many guys and ladies are still single at very ripe age because they still believe that their intending spouse should love them for "real"(whatever that means) so they always want to be too careful and in the process fall into worse hands..

The stark truth is that there will always be a reason for anyone to be with another regardless of how selfish,lame or wicked it may sound but at the end it is still a legitimate union and the couple could be together till death if the conditions remain favorable so what is the fuss about?

In essence,whatever reason you choose to marry that person is your choice..whether it is because of parental pressure,beauty,sex,money,nationality,fame,power and so on,it remains a valid reason and the other party should either take the risk or back out.

- An unassuming guy woos a rich lady and she says he only wants her money.

-A rich guy sees a lady who wants him and he says it's about his money.

-A Nigerian guy or lady chooses to marry an European or American and they say it's for a green card.

-Even a broke cocky guy will say a lady does not really want him but just love his bedmatics.

Conclusively I will say there is really nothing like scam marriage because most marriages are as a result of selfish interest from both party.

My opinion.

Christianity and Islam have destroyed the cultures of African along with their beautiful traditions.

All I can say is mteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

So sad some Marriages nowadays are like MMM.

firstking01:
Nope, the allegation is to huge to ignore sir...maybe you have some explanations to do, don't you think so?, and more over i 've heard something like this about you before, and that further butress my curiosity

make una face una front now..why una carry anoda person matter for head?..that's the problem of social media...no privacy!!!!..jeez!!

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It depends on your location.

In US, it is a contract enforceable by the government. Marriage has destroyed many men in America. A closer look at the details will show that it is a scam against men.

But in Nigeria, it is a whole new ball game.

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I wonder how some topic make fp, after writing all this trash,I wish the op dies a bachelor o,cos it won't be right if you partake in a scam