HERSLEY:
dude I'm a girl. N D girl blatantly lied. U better open ur eyes else we use u like trash. Wen dealing with us, u av to be a bit aggressive n mean. Stop being too soft.

quejho:


the right one is here o

quejho:


the right one is here o

Allisonrichy:
Bro you are not on this one alone oh I also suffer the same fate as u the one wey cure me pass na this week own oh
I was just going on my own jeje oh when I saw this cute damsel I decided to approach her and when I did I got the worst response of my life dis gal look me from head to toe and she told me I wasn't good enough to even stop her talk more of requesting to be her friend my brother I nearly wept
Like say that one no do just yesterday on Monday I dey my own one of my female friends I've always loved called me and told me she was bored and she wanted to come visit me I was extremely happy I prepared nice rice and stew after some time I called her and she said she didn't have enough money to come over and she said I should come pick her up out of excitement I go dis girl house only for me to get the biggest humiliation of my life this girl told me she can no longer come to my house that she no longer see me as her perfect match
For my front that night this girl called another guy and the guy asked her to come over she quickly wear her clothes leave me for her house go another guy house that' yesterday night I look myself from up to down but I no recall any word wey I go use describe myself
So my guy we plenty wey dey dis kind boat oh
As for me I've never really believed in sex but true love and understanding but it seems get such girls is really difficult

Kenshinmunac:


Hahahaha bolded one kill me with laf, na WA o. Pele

Allisonrichy:

My guy no be laughing matter oh
I serious oh

Kenshinmunac:


But why all this girls they do like this na.

Later them go say all men are the same.

Kenshinmunac:


Wow really, where is she based?

chccho:

OP u dey hear so? This same thing happened to me years ago in fact in my case I called before I left my house for hers,I called while I was on my way like twice and when I eventually got to her house this girl wasn't home. She came back like 50mins later and started telling all sort of lies she even cried sef but guess what ? even with all those tears the truth is that she was in her Ex bfs house and had to rush back home to fake tears to me..Girls are skilled in manipulation and very powerful at it too. U have to be wise and man up when things like this come up don't be stupidly soft.maybe she is a play girl and still wants to mess around n u are here calling her wife material.Ok u better wake up

hotwax:
Op. How old are you?

Go for mature ladies. Thousands of them out there ready for marriage. They will even beg you for marriage (talking from experience)

But these under 21 and under 22 girls have many suitors. Everyone want to quickly have a taste of hot bread before its cold. That lady will be serious with you at age 29. She will come back to you by then, but it will be too late.

I dont go after under 26 ladies. The only time I give them attention is when I need to release some akamu. They do not worth the effort.

But mature ones are easy, intelligent, less stressful and marriageable (At least 60% of em).

NuFarma:



So you know about Briffault's law? You know about the red pill ?

majorbravo:


Yeah I know about the red pill. Not exactly sure I subscribe to the entirety of this stance, but I sure know 80% of reality shows ladies are what it says they are, at least when they are a lot younger.

NuFarma:


It depends on how you're applying the red pill knowlege. I don't know anything about you but, I guess you're using the knowledge for game

The red pill exposes the true female nature- regardless of age. You should try reading from married & divorced red pill men.

Beey:
My dear, what you need to do right now is completely get your mind off marriage and serious girl bla bla bla.Because the moment you attach yourself do strongly to that idea, you don't realize it but you begin to look and sound desperate.When you are desperate, you'll take any rubbish that's thrown your way.These people smell desperation very quickly and they'll be treating you like you are just a thing, not even a person.Some are opportunists who will be after you for money and other things.You'll just be in a parasitic relationship because they'll be there to milk you dry.So put on your big boy pants, get yourself busy.Hit that gym and look good, take an extra class and build your academics, work overtime and make some extra cash.Whatever it takes for you not to wallow in self-pity, do just that.You'll realize that you were probably dating someone whose goals are very different from yours.You are seeing marriage, they are in it for fun.You cannot force love.Improve yourself and trust me at a time when you don't even expect it, true love will come your way!

Jbond:
I don't really know how this issue relates to milking someone dry according to a lady's comment previously, people tend to tag gold digging and all that to a relationship if one party is financially stable than the other even when the person really loves the financially stable partner. Anyway ma niggy just do your thing and keep yourself occupied with positive vibes and the right lady will come along.

majorbravo:


game? Not at all. I'm a realist if you must know. All I do is ensure I know what I'm getting into before I actually get in. The fact I know so much about something doesnt mean I'd take it for granted. That's why I said 80%. The full red pillers are mostly in it for fun. I use it for knowledge cos I'm a knowledge freak. But of course you dont know anything about me.

Beey:
It depends on your perspective to my writing Jbond.I don't think one party supporting the other that's not as financially stable is an issue.Problem comes in when they don't have time as the writer was complaining that they had a plan with the girl,and then she went quiet on him.The story of her brother taking her phone doesn't make sense coz I don't get how one can take somebody's phone away without their consent if it's not a case of theft.When there are never ending excuses, it's most likely one is a side dish and there's a main course somewhere.Those who have a forgiving nature will always be quick to forgive a person who doesn't value them and who is having fun with other women or men whichever the case might be , as one might come to learn because where there's smoke, there's fire.That's why my advise to the writer was not to love so much to the point of looking desperate coz once under the mercy of those kind of people, your value and respect go down.If it's love, he won't have to beg for it.

Kenshinmunac:
*sigh* searching and searching for a girlfriend, all to no avail. Young cool fine guy, but very lonely, no girlfriend. I don't think at this point with all this rejection that I will ever get married in life.

I have searching for a gf, met some girls who turned out to be nasty gold diggers, I didn't wanna waste my time on them cause I'm not a flirt, I'm not looking for a short term relationship so having "fun" with all these girls seemed like a waste of time to me as Sex is not my problem, love is.

So I met this girl few days back, we got talking, I fell for her instantly, she looked calm and very honest, she is not all these girls who do kk in chat, she is caring and very simple, hard to come by., we flowed really well chatting and I was very happy I found someone as I quickly asked her out and she said "let's see how it goes"

I said okay, so today being Sunday, normal chilling day, I called her, very eager to see her beautiful face once more, we got talking and she said I should come to her side.

So I said okay by six,

Six reach I entered road straight to her side, 30 mins drive, when I got close I dialled her number twice she didn't pick I thought maybe she was taking her bath or something was patient and kept on going, so when I got there by 7pm, I called and called but she didn't pick up the call and she was expecting me o!

Na so I begin call her, Even send whatsapp message and direct message all to no avail. I got so maddddd and pissed off, I almost cried because I don't know why I'm being treated like this by ladies. Head to toe I complete, face I fine, fashion sense Is great, but yet, my handsomeness and the growing cash I get can't even get me the slightest fly talk less about a lady

*sigh*

By 5 mins past 8 she called me, by then I was already going home, and she began to plead, this where error words.

"please I'm sorry, my elder brother took my phone to share WiFi, I didn't know he would go far"

I asked "didn't you tell him you were expecting someone"?"

She replied" i did na but he did not listen, I can't just come and stand on the road and be waiting for you, please don't be angry"

In my heart I said Chai! What kind of excuse is this?? This girl just told me indirectly that I'm not important.

So painful.

I see guys with their girl very happy preparing for Christmas, me i have none. All I do is admire beautiful couples and wish It could be......

Unfortunately the sad reality greets me in my face.

I begin to lose my self confidence gradually because of rejection.

Smh, all I feel right now is self pity, all I can do is lament.

I don't know if I just dislike women right now self.

Jbond:
Cool anyway, but I was not really cool with the milking dry aspect you mentioned, cos helping someone that is not financially upright simply cos you're in a position to do so does not translate to the person milking you dry, cos I'm sure if the person is in a better position he or she won't be in need of help. And sometimes people end up tagging everything to the money ish and won't even care if the person really loves them or not.

bigerboy200:

haba haba..when u agree on an appointment/date, it's only fair enough to try very hard and keep to it. Yes, some inevitable episodes could come up but maturity demands one calls to applogise and cancel the appointment, however, the excuse the girl in question gave was just too watery and childish. She knew the guy was on his way, so for her to chicken out in d last min without informing him is unacceptable ...... Nice profile pix tho.. #pretty

Aleora:
thanks , Akure

Beey:
I think you did not understand me.Helping someone who needs the help, am all for it.If you are in a position to help someone, please do it.My issue is when love is not reciprocated.You have to chase them time after time and yet they claim to love you?Or they always have a million excuses why they couldn't talk like the guy explained about the girl in question.If that's the case, even if you rendered help with a pure mind, you'll definitely feel used as though the other party was after you for the help you gave and not coz of love.Coz as I told the OP in a previous post, if the love is real, you won't have to beg for it.You won't have to chase after them for proof.When you are loved, you'll know.Because that girl or whoever one is in love with, will answer their calls, they won't be with you and be contacting other men/women , they won't have a million excuses.So the issue of milking dry came in to describe when you genuinely help someone, but at the end of the day you realize they never loved you, but were enjoying the help.Because love is not in all about empty words, but it's words and actions.Hope am clear and you understood my advise for this guy that wrote.

Jbond:
Yeah I get your drift. And the lady in question might be saying the truth about not being with her phone, sometimes we find it easy to make conclusions about other person and tag what they say lies or what they do as deceitful, but want people to believe us when we tell them stuffs. We should try and love without expecting the same in return all the time, love can never be 50-50, the best one can get is 60-40.

Beey:
I think our views are a little different because if I give out of love to someone am in a love relationship with, I shouldn't expect material things but love should be reciprocated.You hold a different view than mine and we could go on and on.But he decision is left for the writer to make.

Jbond:
Ok, but from your point of view seems you ain't a patient lady, if you're in a relationship try not to make hasty decisions aii? Safe.

Beey:
Nawa oh.We completely went off topic because of this your question.Now sounds like this is getting personal.Am out please!