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Relationship Advice!!!! by Jpierre: 9:03pm On Dec 21, 2016
A girl I love so much, the day I introduced her to my kid brother, he told me he was in the same house when his friend had s''x with her...... should I still marry her?
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by Nobody: 9:04pm On Dec 21, 2016
i dey come make i ask ifa
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by Aniker(f): 9:04pm On Dec 21, 2016
of course' only.if you love her though
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by omega25red(m): 9:05pm On Dec 21, 2016
Jpierre:
A girl I love so much, the day I introduced her to my kid brother, he told me he was in the same house when his friend had s''x with her...... should I still marry her?
have you ever had sex before?
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by Nobody: 9:07pm On Dec 21, 2016
omega25red:
have you ever had sex before?
op come and answer the question
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by Mhris: 9:09pm On Dec 21, 2016
If you truly love her it shouldn't matter. Everyone has a past.
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by barapistis(m): 9:09pm On Dec 21, 2016
op sounds like a saint.√goat√
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by dingbang(m): 9:10pm On Dec 21, 2016
Pls don't marry her.. ur have to marry a woman dat ur younger ones will look up to and respect.. not some used up package. Pls never make dat mistake, not even if a gun is pointed at u

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Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by Jpierre: 9:10pm On Dec 21, 2016
omega25red:
have you ever had sex before?
Haaaa! Yes
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by HARDDON: 9:10pm On Dec 21, 2016
N how do u think ur younger bro wud respect her?

If he cant, then ur whole fam wudnt. Ripple effects
Your younger bro can even bed her while u r maried!
A gurl that ws so razzz as to go naked n hv it infront of a third party is a..........?
Fil in d blank space

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Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by Jpierre: 9:12pm On Dec 21, 2016
HARDDON:
N how do u think ur younger bro wud respect her?

If he cant, then ur whole fam wudnt. Ripple effects
Your younger bro can even bed her while u r maried!
A gurl that ws so razzz as to go naked n hv it infront of a third party is a..........?
Fil in d blank space
]t same house not the same room
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by ikp120(m): 9:13pm On Dec 21, 2016
Guy you must be a virgin o.
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by HARDDON: 9:16pm On Dec 21, 2016
Jpierre:
]t same house not the same room

My responce was 3 thong

U igonred d first two
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by realBliss(m): 9:16pm On Dec 21, 2016
Jpierre:
A girl I love so much, the day I introduced her to my kid brother, he told me he was in the same house when his friend had s''x with her...... should I still marry her?


guy that question pass me
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by Sexxkillz: 9:19pm On Dec 21, 2016
That you are asking total strangers a weighty question as this only means that you have made up your mind not to marry her. For one thing, your younger brother, and by extension, everyone in your family already knows about her past way of life.

You obviously cannot live with what people say about you and about her, and trust me, they must talk. So the best thing you do, is not marry her. If you marry her, you'll not be able to forgive her, and you'll always make references to her past any time you both have a slight misunderstanding.

I also have an issue with her not telling you about her past. Everyone has a past. It's one thing for you to expect me to forget your past, it's another thing for you to ask me to forget a past I never even knew you had. In order words, I hate deception. You don't deceive me from the onset, and expect me to pat you on the head and say "well done, you're forgiven" anytime I hear about your past from someone else.

Today, she slept with your kid brother's friend. Tomorrow, you'll also hear that she had an abortion for the guy she has been introducing as her uncle to you. . .

How long will the circumlocution of lies continue?

Do yourself a favour, walk away.

-_-

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Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by Warhawk(m): 9:26pm On Dec 21, 2016
...WTF!!
Niqqa.. Drop that girl immediately!! She an retired 'hoe
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by Mimzyy(f): 9:42pm On Dec 21, 2016
If the tables were turned, the comments would have been:

"Your sister is a jealous b**ch!!!"

"You don't love him enough"

"Every guy has a past, leave the past where it is"

"Were you expecting him to be a virgin when you met him"

"You're a greedy girl, you probably have seen another guy and you just need an excuse"...

Our men and their double standards...Oh well.

Op, please do the girl a favour, let her go now so you don't cause her so much heartache later. The fact that it's become a bother for you is enough red flag that you cannot live/deal with it.

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Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by omega25red(m): 9:46pm On Dec 21, 2016
Jpierre:
Haaaa! Yes
So sharrrrrrap grin
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by Nobody: 9:55pm On Dec 21, 2016
The fūck was he thinking dating a girl from his kid bro's social circle in the first place.
I bet his bro and his friend's friends have all had their share, next the bītch.

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Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by bitchcrafts: 10:50pm On Dec 21, 2016
If u feel betrayed for that and don't have enough balls to look past that, isnt marriage pointless?
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by Jpierre: 2:14pm On Dec 22, 2016
CorGier:
The fūck was he thinking dating a girl from his kid bro's social circle in the first place.
I bet his bro and his friend's friends have all had their share, next the bītch.
] Are u currently dating ur age mate?
Re: Relationship Advice!!!! by Jpierre: 2:17pm On Dec 22, 2016
Sexxkillz:
That you are asking total strangers a weighty question as this only means that you have made up your mind not to marry her. For one thing, your younger brother, and by extension, everyone in your family already knows about her past way of life.

You obviously cannot live with what people say about you and about her, and trust me, they must talk. So the best thing you do, is not marry her. If you marry her, you'll not be able to forgive her, and you'll always make references to her past any time you both have a slight misunderstanding.

I also have an issue with her not telling you about her past. Everyone has a past. It's one thing for you to expect me to forget your past, it's another thing for you to ask me to forget a past I never even knew you had. In order words, I hate deception. You don't deceive me from the onset, and expect me to pat you on the head and say "well done, you're forgiven" anytime I hear about your past from someone else.

Today, she slept with your kid brother's friend. Tomorrow, you'll also hear that she had an abortion for the guy she has been introducing as her uncle to you. . .

How long will the circumlocution of lies continue?

Do yourself a favour, walk away.

-_-
nice one dear...... not really easy but will try....

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