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Heart Broken by Missp111: 10:46am On Dec 22, 2016
My fellow landers please I need you honest advice on this,a family friend introduced me to his long time friend. just around December 2nd, so we started talking everything was cool we agreed on how and where to stay and all that. the sad story is that he is back in nigeria" the excitement is not there , I have made all the moves but all I hear is am waiting for my luggage and he finally got the (luggage) and then all I hear is where do u say you live again let me see you on my way out this wasn't what I expected atall so I told him that sorry I cant see him before this I have called his friend to tell him and he said he is suprised and disappointed by his act what do I do please
Re: Heart Broken by falconey(m): 10:47am On Dec 22, 2016
I don't get a thing from your post.
Re: Heart Broken by CplusJason: 10:55am On Dec 22, 2016
Though i find this very difficult to comprehend, i'll advise you to talk with TheCOB.

www.nairaland.com/TheCOB
Re: Heart Broken by dingbang(m): 10:58am On Dec 22, 2016
CplusJason:
Though i find this very difficult to comprehend, i'll advise you to talk with TheCOB.

www.nairaland.com/TheCOB
even thecob will not understand.

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Re: Heart Broken by Nobody: 11:04am On Dec 22, 2016

Well, if he doesn't wanna meet with you. his loss. just don't pressure him anymore. Have some dignity. Your boy's Probably A Phony undecided



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Re: Heart Broken by CplusJason: 11:04am On Dec 22, 2016
dingbang:
even thecob will not understand.
Lol, she can be of help to Missp111. cheesy
Re: Heart Broken by HIScraziness(m): 11:05am On Dec 22, 2016
Who understands the op perfectly??



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Re: Heart Broken by Nobody: 11:08am On Dec 22, 2016
The guy is a player grin grin
Re: Heart Broken by TheCOB(f): 11:09am On Dec 22, 2016
dingbang:
even thecob will not understand.

Lolz
Re: Heart Broken by falconey(m): 11:10am On Dec 22, 2016
HIScraziness:
Who understands the op perfectly??




anyone with a pussy would.
Re: Heart Broken by TheCOB(f): 11:10am On Dec 22, 2016
CplusJason:
Though i find this very difficult to comprehend, i'll advise you to talk with TheCOB.

www.nairaland.com/TheCOB

Presently present boss!

Are you who I think you are? wink
Re: Heart Broken by CplusJason: 11:17am On Dec 22, 2016
TheCOB:

Presently present boss!
Are you who I think you are? wink
Sure. Jayson.
Pleasant morning to you. cool
Re: Heart Broken by dharay99: 11:19am On Dec 22, 2016
I read that bullshiiit up there twice
buh guess wah? Ahm not understandinq.

Neeeexxxxt...
Re: Heart Broken by TheCOB(f): 11:20am On Dec 22, 2016
Missp111:
My fellow landers please I need you honest advice on this,a family friend introduced me to his long time friend. just around December 2nd, so we started talking everything was cool we agreed on how and where to stay and all that. the sad story is that he is back in nigeria" the excitement is not there , I have made all the moves but all I hear is am waiting for my luggage and he finally got the (luggage) and then all I hear is where do u say you live again let me see you on my way out this wasn't what I expected atall so I told him that sorry I cant see him before this I have called his friend to tell him and he said he is suprised and disappointed by his act what do I do please

I think every Female has at least one time in her life when she has had similar experience.

The spark online is perfect, the flow is rhythmic and you've already painted Disney images of how the meeting would look like....
And whaoala! You finally get to meet each other....... And it's a disaster! shocked

Sorry about it dear. Just ignore that tiny-weenie part of your head that may be saying you probably did something wrong. ItsALie... It just didn't click.

Just be yourself... If he tries to reconnect with you online though don't rebuff him. Since he's already here in Nigeria, who knows if the online spark reconnects, a second meeting might not be so bad.

But take note - Don't double guess yourself. If it didn't click, then it didn't click. You'd meet someone better.

********
On the flipside though......

What if he was just tired from the long trip? He just wanted nothing else other than to go straight home. In fact what if he was actually asking where you stay so that he could meet up with you when he's in a better mind frame? At least he didn't completely ignore you
Even dating couples have some 'off-days'.
Could it be that day was one of his?

Watch out how he responds to you subsequently after this your meeting.... If you still feel cold shoulders, maybe it's just a case of #NoConnection that happens when online pairs meet in real life.
But if he gets back to normal.... Well, I mean everyone including you sometimes have a bad day..

In any case, his subsequent behaviour has all the answers you seek wink

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Re: Heart Broken by TheCOB(f): 11:21am On Dec 22, 2016
CplusJason:
Sure. Jayson.

Pleasant morning to you. cool

Lol okay good to have you back cheesy

Fine morning boss
Re: Heart Broken by CplusJason: 11:27am On Dec 22, 2016
TheCOB:

Lol okay good to have you back cheesy
Fine morning boss
I see you've started work already. cheesy
Though the Op question was askew but i believe you. wink
Re: Heart Broken by TheCOB(f): 11:29am On Dec 22, 2016
CplusJason:

I see you've started work already. cheesy

Though the Op question was askew but i believe you. wink

Thanksabunch smiley smiley
Re: Heart Broken by CplusJason: 11:33am On Dec 22, 2016
TheCOB:

Thanksabunch smiley smiley
You welcome. cool

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Re: Heart Broken by oyenibi123(m): 12:17pm On Dec 22, 2016
and then all I hear is where do u say you live again let me see you on my way out this wasn't what I expected atall so I told him that sorry I cant see him before this I have called his friend to tell him and he said he is suprised and disappointed by his act what do I do please

Can't analyzed this part
Re: Heart Broken by Sexxkillz: 1:37pm On Dec 22, 2016
You've known someone for only 20 days, and you're talking of heart broken? Were you even in a relationship in the first place?

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Re: Heart Broken by firstking01(m): 1:48pm On Dec 22, 2016
Mehhhn, couldn't grab a thing from your post i swear angry
Re: Heart Broken by Splinz(m): 2:13pm On Dec 22, 2016
Damn! This post is nothing but mental torture...

Re: Heart Broken by Nobody: 3:49pm On Dec 22, 2016
Missp111:
My fellow landers please I need you honest advice on this,a family friend introduced me to his long time friend. just around December 2nd, so we started talking everything was cool we agreed on how and where to stay and all that. the sad story is that he is back in nigeria" the excitement is not there , I have made all the moves but all I hear is am waiting for my luggage and he finally got the (luggage) and then all I hear is where do u say you live again let me see you on my way out this wasn't what I expected atall so I told him that sorry I cant see him before this I have called his friend to tell him and he said he is suprised and disappointed by his act what do I do please

Are you for real? Heartbroken over a guy you are just introduced to? You guys aren't even in a relationship. You sound a tad desperate. Get a grip.
Re: Heart Broken by sexymoma(f): 3:53pm On Dec 22, 2016
darknez:


Are you for real? Heartbroken over a guy you are just introduced to? You guys aren't even in a relationship. You sound a tad desperate. Get a grip.
she don fall even before the guy enter naija..
Re: Heart Broken by DaisyII: 4:05pm On Dec 22, 2016
Sexxkillz:
[font=tempus sans itc][color=#000030][size=11pt]You've known someone for only 20 days, and you're talking of heart broken? Were you even in a relationship in the first place?
Maybe,in her head.

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