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Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by ladyverere(f): 5:22pm On Dec 22, 2016
Then stop giving her money no matter how hard she complained or how aggressive she becomes. Harden ur heart and maintain ur stand for a few months. If she was giving d money to d needy I would understand she's giving from her Christian heart but she is not. She's been hoodwinked and brainwashed by these con artists and you and ur siblings must take a stand now! Deny her for a while and let's see if she will come to her senses. And these charlatans once they discover there are no more freebies they must surely move on to some other easy targets.

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Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by pchukwudi: 5:24pm On Dec 22, 2016
Give your mum what you think she's worth as your mum, and forget what she does with her money.

It's not in your place to lecture her on how to spend her money.And by the way, making sure your mum is always happy with you (yes, including giving her money willingly because you love and appreciate her as your mother and not because of what people would say) is to your own good.

It's an insult to tell a WORKING woman what not to do with her money, when you are not her husband. Even her husband will have to negotiate on such a thing.

WARNING: Those telling you to mistreat your mum (just because she chose to be generous) may be sending you to an early...

You may not know what your mum is worth or how much spiritual cover she gives you and your sibilings until you really piss her off or lose her altogether.


thelish:




We ve done all that. Even the one that permanently took her car was bashed by me to return it.
My mum called to say she has disowned me for telling a man of God to return her car. In fact it was serious war.
we even went to threaten them at home, to stay away from her. But all to no avail
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by intruder15(m): 5:25pm On Dec 22, 2016
EgusiSoup:

go to the church and do the needful to the pastor. undecided
LMAO. pls what's the needful?

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Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by dapsonlou(m): 5:26pm On Dec 22, 2016
thelish:




We ve done all that. Even the one that permanently took her car was bashed by me to return it.
My mum called to say she has disowned me for telling a man of God to return her car. In fact it was serious war.
we even went to threaten them at home, to stay away from her. But all to no avail

My guy its serious o, that's how one pastor convinced my 55year Old Aunty that she's pregnant he moved into her mansion and Control all aspects of her life. 9months no baby , he now told her that my grand mother who is her mother is tying the baby in her Womb. She didn't speak to my gm and my mother for two years. After she got broke the pastor left. My mother finally convinced her to go to UK for check up. It was fibroid all along.

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Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by intruder15(m): 5:29pm On Dec 22, 2016
thelish:



My dear, u really understand d scenario. she doesn't listen to anyone. whatever a pastor says is final. And they ve so much know her to be a free giver, so they invite each other to come and scam. Some even call her to change their car tyres for them. The one she bought wine for, told her to buy carton, that he is bigger than a bottle of wine. see race she carry go buy carton of wine.

like seriously
as in seriously
this is serious...

Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by Funkybabee(f): 5:31pm On Dec 22, 2016
don't give her a money Again collect housemaid and made sure you buy all necessary food and other's thing u think she maybe in need and also get a driver who will be driving her any where she wish to go but don't let that driver give her a key to drive herself even that driver will be the person who is going to take that car to his home

if u can do that nop let her use her money to do what she wish
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by eezeribe(m): 5:31pm On Dec 22, 2016
thelish:




We ve done all that. Even the one that permanently took her car was bashed by me to return it.
My mum called to say she has disowned me for telling a man of God to return her car. In fact it was serious war.
we even went to threaten them at home, to stay away from her. But all to no avail

You are handling the pastor with kid gloves...
Send boys to beat him up and then give him the last warning, he would be rejecting money from your mum.
Trust me, it works. I once did it to a troublesome relative.

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Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by HomeOfMe(f): 5:34pm On Dec 22, 2016
bennyrazz:
is she giving her money to the Pastor or paying the money to the church as seed or offering? Well I think you should thank God she is not using it to pay medical bills and I also think you should thank God she's not giving it to herbalists
gbam.
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by Aystarz: 5:40pm On Dec 22, 2016
thelish:
Will you still be encouraged to give your mum money when you know she won't be using it, instead it will be given to pastors we know so well that they are just scamming her.
When we told her we will stop giving her money if she continues, she said she is not forcing us to. That her God will provide. At d same time felt bad like we are neglecting her. Though she is a govt worker with good salary but always complaining of hunger. And if we don't give to her, people might see it that we are not caring.
What do I do?

Are you my sister? I mean this is sooooo my mom!
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by potent5(m): 5:45pm On Dec 22, 2016
Splinz:


Simply do your job of providing for her. Whatever and however she chooses to spent what you've given to her is non of your business- you've played your own part.

That's mum for you. I can't just help but love them all the same irrespective of what I think may be their mistakes.

You must be one of these scammers from the way you dey yarn opata. ole buruku.

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Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by potent5(m): 5:47pm On Dec 22, 2016
bennyrazz:
is she giving her money to the Pastor or paying the money to the church as seed or offering? Well I think you should thank God she is not using it to pay medical bills and I also think you should thank God she's not giving it to herbalists
Seriously? scammers beraran herbalists? You are one of them scamming men of god too.

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Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by Splinz(m): 5:52pm On Dec 22, 2016
potent5:


You must be one of these scammers from the way you dey yarn opata. ole buruku.

Who's this slowpoke
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by potent5(m): 5:55pm On Dec 22, 2016
Splinz:

Who's this slowpoke
I am your nemesis, dimwit.
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by Splinz(m): 5:58pm On Dec 22, 2016
potent5:
I am your nemesis, dimwit.
Kikiki... Demented fool.
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by luciangelymail(f): 6:12pm On Dec 22, 2016
thelish:


When d said pastor told her there was spirit of accident in d car?

There is spirit of accident and he hasn't crashed since he started using it? Or he can't pray for the spirit to be defeated so mumsy can take her car back? Thief in pastor's clothing.
Since u said she lives with dad, I think u should buy her necessary household items as someone pointed out, then give whatever money u wish to give her to ur dad, let ur dad be d one to be giving her small cash from there from time to time, when there is need, then tell mumsy that she can channel her charity to less privileged, take her to orphanages, old people's homes, open her eyes to see the real needy people, its less heart breaking and more rewarding if she can channel her resources to helping the poor other than constantly giving it to these thieves who are already rich....e pele

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Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by Edipee(m): 6:32pm On Dec 22, 2016
Idydarling:
I have nothing to say
See as you fine

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Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by Stephen4me: 6:34pm On Dec 22, 2016
First, Let's Thank God for your life because you have something to always give, in assisting your Mom.

I don't think it would be fair to heap the whole blame of your Mom's generosity on her Pastors because giving is a good virtue, though from the way you sounded it appears She might be taking it beyond the limits.

I would advise you to continue playing your role in assisting her regularly as you can Since God has also been faithful in the following areas.

1. Keeping her alive and in Good health. There are thousands of millionaires that might be willing to swipe positions with u.
2. The Funds were not spent in buying Caskets to burry you or any member of your Family.
3. There is an abundant supply of material resources in your Family, because it's only those that have a means can provide for themselves and help their aged parents. There are millions of Youths that are still living on their parents even after graduation.


Having said that, I would suggest you do the following

1. Get the involvement of a senior family member/ trusted Mom's Friend or even an elderly Pastor to assist in advising her.
2. Its better you purchase those things that you think she might need than giving her cash.
3. Lastly, don't be discouraged in helping your Mom, because one day, You might be in her shoes and do things that your Children might not understand.
The law of sowing and reading has never been broken since the World became.
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by sekem: 6:35pm On Dec 22, 2016
Why not introduce your momsie to MMM?

She'll surely be a super PH, no doubts. wink

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Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by manikspears: 6:36pm On Dec 22, 2016
My advice is to go and report that pastor to a senior pastor or the general overseer of the church. Trust me bro juju may be involved undecided ,and don't forget to always pray for her. Jesus only commanded us to pay our tithe the rest is self induced don't get me wrong I'm not against blessing your pastors with gifts but this has gone beyond that, you said she is complaining of hunger with all her salary and money she gets from the children, does that looks normal to you?
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by buffalowings: 6:38pm On Dec 22, 2016
Wao

This story get as e be o

Chai angry

Sorry op
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by buffalowings: 6:40pm On Dec 22, 2016
bennyrazz:
is she giving her money to the Pastor or paying the money to the church as seed or offering? Well I think you should thank God she is not using it to pay medical bills and I also think you should thank God she's not giving it to herbalists


Scammer na scammer

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Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by buffalowings: 6:43pm On Dec 22, 2016
EgusiSoup:


go to the church and do the needful to the pastor. undecided

Oga o

So many likes

Guess there a lot of idiots on here

Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by potent5(m): 6:49pm On Dec 22, 2016
Splinz:

Kikiki... Demented fool.
I don knock job for u and ur scamming pastors, dimwit.
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by no1madman(m): 6:58pm On Dec 22, 2016
Dis ur mama sef. .if u slap her Dem go say. . . .
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by otemanuduno: 7:09pm On Dec 22, 2016
thelish:




We ve done all that. Even the one that permanently took her car was bashed by me to return it.
My mum called to say she has disowned me for telling a man of God to return her car. In fact it was serious war.
we even went to threaten them at home, to stay away from her. But all to no avail
Gboyee4fun, 4evergod, Felixmor, Kingebukasblog see this

Lishius 16: 15-16
15. And Cuenca said, if this Krista whom they profess is more of a tool of deception than of truth, why then did he have to die at all?
16. For the deception in the name of this supposed son of god is already more than the truth.
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by Splinz(m): 7:13pm On Dec 22, 2016
potent5:

I don knock job for u and ur scamming pastors, dimwit.

Seems "dimwit" is the only English you know... cheesy... olodo... grin
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by Oddsam(m): 7:16pm On Dec 22, 2016
d way d mind of ladies are easily controlled by MOG baffles me.
What do I do? [/quote]
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by otemanuduno: 7:22pm On Dec 22, 2016
Splinz:


If you believe that she's giving out everything and starving, then you can believe anything. I have a mother and know them too well.

I also know exaggeration when I see one. And yes, what were you expecting me to tell op: "stop giving her money"? "threaten the so-called pastor"? You think these kind of advices will solve anything

Well then, go ahead and advice the op.
you sound like dem dem. Scammers everywhere undecided
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by NOETHNICITY(m): 7:28pm On Dec 22, 2016
StOla:


Your mum has been subdued. She is a slave to religion.
she is a slave to the pastor and not any religion.

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Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by Splinz(m): 7:33pm On Dec 22, 2016
otemanuduno:
you sound like dem dem. Scammers everywhere undecided

Is that Otemanuduno the confused clown who goes about spreading bunches of nonsense in the name of one insane REVERAD

Do me a favor, gerara here mehn!

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Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by otemanuduno: 7:37pm On Dec 22, 2016
Splinz:


Is that Otemanuduno the confused clown who goes about spreading bunches of nonsense in the name of one insane REVERAD

Do me a favor, gerara here mehn!
The truth is bitter to the 'dem dem'. 419 everywhere, the truth is gradually coming out and you are fighting against it grin

@Mama, her eyes will eventually open in OTEM'S NAME I PRAY. here's what Cuenca said about scammers like you:

Lishius 16: 15-16
15. And Cuenca said, if this Krista whom they profess is more of a tool of deception than of truth, why then did he have to die at all?
16. For the deception in the name of this supposed son of god is already more than the truth.
Re: When Your Mother Takes All Her Money To Pastors by Nobody: 7:42pm On Dec 22, 2016
Continue to give her money..

Just do your own part, let her do whatever she wants with it..

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