Pranaya:
And who says you have to depend solely on a guy to eat, look nice, wear good clothes, e.t.c. If he doesn't have, a lady should think of a way to assist and bring something to the table. It shouldn't be 'bout the guys alone and if like you he decides to stay off women, all well and good.

RadicallyBlunt:

You have the right mentality for marriage dear. Keep it up. Mature as married. I actually thought you were

BTW where do you reside?

sweetjude:
but life demands from us , u have to eat look nice , wear good clothes these things need money na , when i was broke i stayed off women because i will be wasting my time , if you no fit provide for the girl leave her , dont suffer her , Nobody come this world come suffer , people wen dey enjoy love and money no get two heads

makydebbie:
I hate girls with this mentality. Work hard and make money too. If you help him grow financially, you won't die.

Sweetheart make we hear word ojae
Help who grow financially? And what's your gain doing that? is he helping her grow financially?
let's not even broaden this subject.
So a guy should be akagum in the name of she should have her own money ni?
A relationship without money is dead on arrival, it is better they both have something doing,and he appreciates her in his own capacity likewise she do same for him.

Say no to Stingy guys
Say no to broke guys.
They don't worth the trouble of relationship

I'm not here for likes and praising comments tonight,so make no ediot quote me .

makydebbie:
I hate girls with this mentality. Work hard and make money too. If you help him grow financially, you won't die.

Berbierklaus:

Sweetheart make we hear word ojae
Help who grow financially? And what's your gain doing that? is he helping her grow financially?
let's not even broaden this subject.
So a guy should be akagum in the name of she should have her own money ni?
A relationship without money is dead on arrival, it is better they both have something doing,and he appreciates her in his own capacity likewise she do same for him.

Say no to Stingy guys
Say no to broke guys.
They don't worth the trouble of relationship

I'm not here for likes and praising comments tonight,so make no ediot quote me .

makydebbie:
Thanks, Accra.

Berbierklaus:

Sweetheart make we hear word ojae
Help who grow financially? And what's your gain doing that? is he helping her grow financially?
let's not even broaden this subject.
So a guy should be akagum in the name of she should have her own money ni?
A relationship without money is dead on arrival, it is better they both have something doing,and he appreciates her in his own capacity likewise she do same for him.

Say no to Stingy guys
Say no to broke guys.
They don't worth the trouble of relationship

I'm not here for likes and praising comments tonight,so make no ediot quote me .

makydebbie:


You dey look for gain
Business woman

Relationship that might still end at the end of the day, or the one that he will still cheat on you?
See a lot of guys won't spend on their gfs but will have sex with prostitutes_ and pay huge sums,or help that girl in the office buy a new phone,or give his sister's friend huge amount of money while visiting her in school etc,my sister who lose?
The Gf will be forming wife material and not get shishi,for what?

I'm all for being real,we should be able to help each other out without asking,give gifts,and money for petty things like haircut and hair do,pay for meals on dates can even be rotated,that brings out the fun in a relationship.
My point is it should be vice versa and if he is cool with her not spending fine.
Forget all this help him grow bullshit,he should help her grow too.
So nobody loses at the end of the day
A relationship where he doesn't spend is dead on arrival.

I no be wife material,bite me

danbrowndmf:
your numbers ain't going through...

Berbierklaus:

Sweetheart make we hear word ojae
Help who grow financially? And what's your gain doing that? is he helping her grow financially?
let's not even broaden this subject.
So a guy should be akagum in the name of she should have her own money ni?
A relationship without money is dead on arrival, it is better they both have something doing,and he appreciates her in his own capacity likewise she do same for him.

Say no to Stingy guys
Say no to broke guys.
They don't worth the trouble of relationship

I'm not here for likes and praising comments tonight,so make no ediot quote me .

RadicallyBlunt:

OK. You're a Ghanian? Quite a distance from Lagos.

Berbierklaus:

Relationship that might still end at the end of the day, or the one that he will still cheat on you?
See a lot of guys won't spend on their gfs but will have sex with prostitutes_ and pay huge sums,or help that girl in the office buy a new phone,or give his sister's friend huge amount of money while visiting her in school etc,my sister who lose?
The Gf will be forming wife material and not get shishi,for what?

I'm all for being real,we should be able to help each other out without asking,give gifts,and money for petty things like haircut and hair do,pay for meals on dates can even be rotated,that brings out the fun in a relationship.
My point is it should be vice versa and if he is cool with her not spending fine.
Forget all this help him grow bullshit,he should help her grow too.
So nobody loses at the end of the day
A relationship where he doesn't spend is dead on arrival.

I no be wife material,bite me

makydebbie:
Yea I'm a Ghanaian. Its a eight hour journey by road and fourty five by air.

Are you for real?
My friend said it takes a whole day by road,scared the sh!t out of me,coz I'm making it next year
Now I feel better

Tajbol4splend:


Maybe she's hopeless, someone hopeless to befriend a broke dude? No

makydebbie:
Yea spicy, you help each other grow. A relationship shouldn't be one sided. That's why we should go for a MAN and not a fvckboy.

It is one sided when he is stingy/broke

As long as he is a male adult he is a MAN.
no sugarcoating say it as it is.

say no to broke guys,
say no to stingy guys

BluntMadmoiselle:
Some Broke guys tend to be more dedicated in a relationship. They get into wealth, their real attitude becomes perceptible.

Berbierklaus:

Changed lines a long time ago,you know where else to get me

Berbierklaus:

Are you for real?
My friend said it takes a whole day by road,scared the sh!t out of me,coz I'm making it next year
Now I feel better

Berbierklaus:

It is one sided when he is stingy/broke

As long as he is a male adult he is a MAN.
no sugarcoating say it as it is.

say no to broke guys,
say no to stingy guys

makydebbie:
Better change your mind

Nigerian border just killed the whole thing, check points every two minute drive. Last year, I got to Nigeria early but it took me four hours to get to Lagos (yaba). But use idiroko when coming don't use the normal route that's if you ain't using those ABC buses because that one e sure me you go late

Berbierklaus:

Thanks for these tips.

My adventure loving friends will appreciate it

makydebbie:
They can grow together. Dangote didn't become rich overnight.

danbrowndmf:
check ur mail

makydebbie:
They can grow together. Dangote didn't become rich overnight.

ItsQuinn:
Especially calabar men and afonjas

ItsQuinn:
And now he's fvcking a lot of biitches

makydebbie:
Na you talk am

Berbierklaus:

check your mail.

BluntMadmoiselle:
What if the guy travels, thereby forgetting about how they started and going for someone better than her. Abeg try to consider the what ifs. Understand her fear before judging.