Dear Nairalanders, More grease to your elbow.
I started dating this lady Feb last year, We good for each other, I mean potential couples. She is still in school while myself works with a firm. All of a sudden in the course of the relationship she resist any form of romantic moves either kisses or touches whenever I visit her in school. She rarely say sweet words, whenever I come up with questions like "why do you resist any form of romantic move or why are you so poor in term of saying sweet words? The answer I get is " I know her background and how she was trained, she is not exposed to all those kind of romantic moves and hasn't been in such a serious relationship before now " My problem NLrs, I am ready for marriage but all her attitudes makes me think she is not ready, NLrs could it be that I am been friendzoned? What's the end product of this type of relationship? Should I still keep up with her or move on with my life. Happy Xmas and New Year.

1- Start by changing your moniker because the bad luck attached to that name is already following you


2- Respect her position on abstinence if you feel it's not fake or just directed towards you... but if you feel she is getting the abuna/ emotional satisfaction somewhere else, please do a Usain Bolt .... Love can't be forced

Is she a virgin?, speaking from her background that won't allow romantic moves?.

Merry Xmas to you guys.

buygala:
1- Start by changing your moniker because the bad luck attached to that name is already following you


2- Respect her position on abstinence if you feel it's not fake or just directed towards you... but if you feel she is getting the abuna/ emotional satisfaction somewhere else, please do a Usain Bolt .... Love can't be forced

Epic answer

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Tbillz:
Dear Nairalanders, More grease to your elbow.
I started dating this lady Feb last year, We good for each other, I mean potential couples. She is still in school while myself works with a firm. All of a sudden in the course of the relationship she resist any form of romantic moves either kisses or touches whenever I visit her in school. She rarely say sweet words, whenever I come up with questions like "why do you resist any form of romantic move or why are you so poor in term of saying sweet words? The answer I get is " I know her background and how she was trained, she is not exposed to all those kind of romantic moves and hasn't been in such a serious relationship before now " My problem NLrs, I am ready for marriage but all her attitudes makes me think she is not ready, NLrs could it be that I am been friendzoned? What's the end product of this type of relationship? Should I still keep up with her or move on with my life. Happy Xmas and New Year.

Don't date a student, worst part is you are talking abt marriage huh??...students fantasize alot when it comes to relationship except the ones who are ready for marriage...personally, i can't be working and dating a student...it's either we are both working or we are both students....


Sorry to say but she has one school bf that's fvcking her sily.

Benita27:
Is she a virgin?, speaking from her background that won't allow romantic moves?.

Merry Xmas to you guys.

she was!!!

Presh9OO:
And you have been spending money on her right?? Does "your own background" expose you to spending money on women??

that's why worries because whenever I spend she is ready to take!

Tbillz:
that's why worries because whenever I spend she is ready to take!

Dump that girl ASAP...!! She's just Using you

buygala:
1- Start by changing your moniker because the bad luck attached to that name is already following you


2- Respect her position on abstinence if you feel it's not fake or just directed towards you... but if you feel she is getting the abuna/ emotional satisfaction somewhere else, please do a Usain Bolt .... Love can't be forced

I gbadun dat as answer.. nice reasoning