Here are reasons to run from the sweet-talking big boys from the west: 1.They are serious players.Based on my encounter with them and the strange stories I've heard from their fellow Nigerians,I can advise that soft-hearted girl to not even try dating one.If you can't deal with the thought of discovering a secret wife and children or condoms, hotel receipts and multiple online accounts,then you are better off on your own than with a Naija man.Run or he'll play you like a pack of cards. 2.They hold on to some traditions that make them feel entitled to have a final say in every matter.As a woman, you are to be seen and not heard.Their word is law and they'll control you like a puppeteer controls the strings of a puppet.They believe that the place of a woman is the living room, kitchen and then the other room. 3.They will treat you like an after thought and not a priority.Don't dare try to get his attention while he is watching a match with his crowd of fellow skirt chasing,heavy drinking friends.You'll very quickly realize that sports are the dearest thing to him after a heartbeat.Yes, you'll have to pet him like you pet a dog in an attempt to create friendship before you can gain access to a home. 4.They are opportunistic.These men are like a lion in search of prey to devour.Always on the lookout for the weak in the flock in order to prey on her.Be very careful to entertain them when you are vulnerable.Their tongues are sweeter than honey from out the comb.They will lead you like a sheep before it's shearer to your poverty after having milked you dry of everything valuable you had if you are not cautious.They hardly marry foreigners because they do not want a girl who cannot kneel down for their momma.So if he is promising you paradise and you have not spoken and met with any of his family members, honey he is taking you for a ride like a potential buyer test drives a car only to end up not like it and then returns it back on display after taking a ride in it.If you meet this kind, sweetie, Run like mad in the opposite direction!

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[quote author=KissChrix post=52236510]Beey


You don carry your wahala come romance section abi [/quote You know am like Madea,can't stay out of trouble.

KissChrix:
Dafuq is this?

Yes,just agree.

I totally disagree wt d op. So far dat u ar opportuned 2 date d bad and d baddest guys dat treated u lik a shit or poo, doesn't mean all Nig guys or men ar lik dat. D way u present urslf matas. Som ladies av don worst or treated guys badly and dat doesn't mean all ladies ar d same. Change ur orientation and mentality abt Nig men or u keep faln into wrong hands dat wil treat u lik a LovePeddler.

tee59:
I totally disagree wt d op. So far dat u ar opportuned 2 date d bad and d baddest guys dat treated u lik a shit or poo, doesn't mean all Nig guys or men ar lik dat. D way u present urslf matas. Som ladies av don worst or treated guys badly and dat doesn't mean all ladies ar d same. Change ur orientation and mentality abt Nig men or u keep faln into wrong hands dat wil treat u lik a LovePeddler.

Simply ask her if she dated a Nigerian, and if she caught him cheating or doing stuffs bad, or if she came to Nigeria and the guy dint have her time or introduce her to his family.

Who cook chicken ooo,e dey hungry me.I wan buy chicken yesterday but na only live one dey and i cant afford It.can only afford for the one in coma.

I hope it wasn't Toks2008.

"Avoid nigerian men" yet u are on a nigerian forum.
Why not avoid everything "nigerian" all together?
Mgbeke feeling posh. Who's foolin who.

Get d fvck outta here before....

Iranu

Presh9OO:
LOL... This one's heart is in pieces.. Sister Beey stop crying the Lord has heard your cries, bath with Groundnut oil and Black Soap twice daily in an open place and your appointed Husband will find you!

You need to know that lessons in life are learned in different ways, from personal experiences, other people's experiences, advise from Nigerians, work experience etc.So me sharing this, doesn't mean that am the one that was directly affected by this.My writing is based on all data collection from all what I just listed.

durentchigozie:
"Avoid nigerian men" yet u are on a nigerian forum.
Why not avoid everything "nigerian" all together?
Mgbeke feeling posh. Who's foolin who.

Get d fvck outta here before....

Ma niggy, you're mouthed.

hmm.. what could possibly happen to you, to make you think like this?
and where are you from?

[quote author=durentchigozie post=52244954]"Avoid nigerian men" yet u are on a nigerian forum.
Why not avoid everything "nigerian" all together?
Mgbeke feeling posh. Who's foolin who.

Get d fvck outta here before....
If my memory serves me right, this website is not owned by Nigeria, it's owned by Seun Osewa & I don't remember seeing tu listed as a co-owner.So please, if it pains you so much, why not open your own forum and ban me from accessing it?Otherwise till then, it would be wise to take a chill pill coz you and I are both visitors here.You don't own this website.

Ashually the OP is Kenyan by birth so am not suprised

Beey:
You need to know that lessons in life are learned in different ways, from personal experiences, other people's experiences, advise from Nigerians, work experience etc.So me sharing this, doesn't mean that am the one that was directly affected by this.My writing is based on all data collection from all what I just listed.

Your fact and finding are totally wrong.Pls stop giving people wrong orientation about Nigerian men have been to different countries especially african countries when I was in Ghana immediately knew that I was a nigerian the women made friends with me even wanted me to date them but I refuse. Later , I tried to find out why from most of them they told me Nigeria me are hardworking, loving , and also generous than most African men , take note so I dont knw where you got this wrong finding from.

joceey:




Your fact and finding are totally wrong.Pls stop giving people wrong orientation about Nigerian men have been to different countries especially african countries when I was in Ghana immediately knew that I was a nigerian the women made friends with me even wanted me to date them but I refuse. Later , I tried to find out why from most of them they told me Nigeria me are hardworking, loving , and also generous than most African men , take note so I dont knw where you got this wrong finding from.

Girl,I didn't expect different from you.Because we all support our own.However, there are 3 people you cannot deceive.Yourself,God and the devil.I know what I've seen here in the US and heard.I work with them so this is not gossip.

Beey:
Girl,I didn't expect different from you.Because we all support our own.However, there are 3 people you cannot deceive.Yourself,God and the devil.I know what I've seen here in the US and heard.I work with them so this is not gossip.

Judging Nigerian men with the few ones you've met doesn't make your assertion valid. It's like boycotting Cars because you've once had a car accident. Simply say you've not been able to meet Nigerian man that soothe your taste

Neyoor:




Judging Nigerian men with the few ones you've met doesn't make your assertion valid. It's like boycotting Cars because you've once had a car accident. Simply say you've not been able to meet Nigerian man that soothe your taste

But when we apply the law of probability, based on those I know and stories I've heard, probability is high that the rest of them are extremely similar in mannerisms.Afterall, birds of a feather flock together.

tee59:
I totally disagree wt d op. So far dat u ar opportuned 2 date d bad and d baddest guys dat treated u lik a shit or poo, doesn't mean all Nig guys or men ar lik dat. D way u present urslf matas. Som ladies av don worst or treated guys badly and dat doesn't mean all ladies ar d same. Change ur orientation and mentality abt Nig men or u keep faln into wrong hands dat wil treat u lik a LovePeddler.

Maybe they need to change the picture the present to the outside world.Everywhere Nigerians go, they can't stay out of trouble.Impression counts.

Jbond:
Ma niggy, you're mouthed.

Huh, like you , I've even heard that they are serious stalkers.They'll be following you like your shadow

Another heart has just been used hammer on, sorry sister but on behalf of the so called Naija men, we ain't give a fu ck about how you think about us. Got it?

SirJeffry:
Another heart has just been used hammer on, sorry sister but on behalf of the so called Naija men, we ain't give a fu ck about how you think about us. Got it?

I know you do care and that's why you took time to respond.You sound like you are all the above, hence the hearts attack .Sorry,Hope you get CPR soon before you run out of breath.

Beey:
But when we apply the law of probability, based on those I know and stories I've heard, probability is high that the rest of them are extremely similar in mannerisms.Afterall, birds of a feather flock together.

How about the aphorism that states that "Never judge people from afar". You might obviously being coerced to hold a certain belief against Nigerian men based on your encounter and what you've heard but that still doesn't change the fact that there still exist many Nigerian Men that are compassionate, hardworking, faithful and extremely caring. Just pray and hope to meet one someday, and your opinion would be changed.


To say birds of a feather flocks together even subscribes to the notion that you will always find someone of your type. If you are straightforward and transparent, you will always meet your type and if other wise, reverse is your case.

Neyoor:




How about the aphorism that states that "Never judge people from afar". You might obviously being coerced to hold a certain belief against Nigerian men based on your encounter and what you've heard but that still doesn't change the fact that there still exist many Nigerian Men that are compassionate, hardworking, faithful and extremely caring. Just pray and hope to meet one someday, and your opinion would be changed.


To say birds of a feather flocks together even subscribes to the notion that you will always find someone of your type. If you are straightforward and transparent, you will always meet your type and if other wise, reverse is your case.

Gbam.

Beey:
Huh, like you , I've even heard that they are serious stalkers.They'll be following you like your shadow

Yes stalking is my hobby, bite me