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. by Hector09(m): 1:21am On Dec 27, 2016
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Re: . by Nobody: 1:29am On Dec 27, 2016
Although this seems like a good opportunity, it won't work. If your friend has abused the girl, then encourage her to let him go. How can you show your face around him and his family again if you date her? It may even lead to your death. Park well and never think about dating your friend's girlfriends.

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Re: . by ikp120(m): 1:31am On Dec 27, 2016
First of all, I bend down low, you should unfriend that thing you call your friend, except you're just like him.

Then if you love the girl, go ahead and date her and get her to promise never to reveal that you guys are dating until at least 2 years.

There is nothing wrong with dating your friend's ex, so long as the relationship is truly over between them.

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Re: . by sleeknick: 1:32am On Dec 27, 2016
Ma nigga..

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Re: . by Ferruccio(m): 1:36am On Dec 27, 2016
Go ahead and date her
Re: . by Nobody: 1:42am On Dec 27, 2016
Why some women allow themselves to be mistreated so badly like this by a man is beyond me. I just don't get it why tolerate it?

Poster the girl should be strong enough to break the realationship with that beast. Don't start anything with her unless she break up with him first. You need to encourage her to break up with this guy before he kill her.

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Re: . by pinkycute(f): 1:51am On Dec 27, 2016
She's urs now.... But first!
Don't you have a girlfriend ?

If Yes" don't go for her...

If No" you can cheesy

But don't do anything behind your friend back. Just be straight forward and let your friend know your plan toward his Ex girlfriend... By doing that, you can gradually distance yourself from your friend.... Because I feel, He might come back and start disturbing you guys in the nearest future grin
( just my thinking ) well, I wish good luck on that.... cheesy
Re: . by sleeknick: 1:58am On Dec 27, 2016
pinkycute:
She's urs now.... But first!
Don't you have a girlfriend ?

If Yes" don't go for her...

If No" you can cheesy

But don't do anything behind your friend back. Just be straight forward and let your friend know your plan toward his Ex girlfriend... By doing that, you can gradually distance yourself from your friend.... Because I feel, He might come back and start disturbing you guys in the nearest future grin
( just my thinking ) well, I wish good luck on that.... cheesy
Rachel grin
Re: . by marshalcarter: 2:58am On Dec 27, 2016
sum go sch but cannot speak...sum can speak but no go sch...we go sch nd we can speak..glory be to the oh LORD....




ayaf forgoted the remainings of those fuji....epp me to coman true it if you remembergrin grin
Re: . by sisisioge: 6:08am On Dec 27, 2016
Pls fair head, leave your friend's gf alone...I hope the gf leaves the abusive bf alone too. Your clique sounds insane!

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Re: . by chigoziri2403(m): 6:39am On Dec 27, 2016
it's infatuation not love

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Re: . by bamirotola: 7:27am On Dec 27, 2016
Are you an arsenal fan? Or r u related to carzola? U r a real gunner!

First of all work on ur tenses, then go for her if u love her....

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Re: . by firstking01(m): 8:05am On Dec 27, 2016
Hector09:
Let me go straight to the story..i have a friend who is from imo state...thou he is staying in my community in my uncles house to be precise and he has a girl frnd who always comes around to pay him visit..This girl is an angel she has everything as a woman...but the issue is that this friend of mine always mistreat her, beating her using knife on her and the worst of it is that he always call other girls via his phone in the presence of this girl..i have been talking to him to resist from this act but he always told me that he luvs the girl very much which i can not understand.,.i have been talking to the girl that everything we be better..but the girl told me that she is tired of the relationship..anytime am alone with this girl she we start asking me questions like who is ur dream girl when i told her that i dont luv any girl she we say something like hmmm even me so u dnt luv me too that she always taught that i we always be there for her.... When the boy started beating her yesterday i rushed to the house to know what the problem is...when i saw the girl crying i ask her what the matter is and she told me that her boy frnd being my frnd beat her and used knife on her and she started packing her belongings...when she is abt to leave she told me that she hope the i we not forget her that she luvs me alot and that she knows that i luv her too which is true...bt the issue is that both families are of the relationship..i.e the boy parents and the girl parents are aware of the relationship...secondly my frnd trust me alot...am confuse because the girl told me that she is accepting my call and that i should told her what she wants to hear
Simple task to accomplish...
Make her break free with that your lycan beast of a friend.
After she has broken free from him, let your friend know her intentions towards you but not immediately after the break up, wait for atleast a month so it won't look asif it was planned.

Let her breaking free from him be a mutual and consensus agreememt between the both families...

During this period usain bolt yourself away from the both families but still keep a close tab with your friend...

After she has successfully broken up with him, take things gradually...try asking your friend what he things abt another guy dating her, esp the guy that he knows or his friend, whatever answer he gives you at this point would determine how he will feel if you date her.

Truth is, it might jeopardise your friendship with him if you date her but who cares anywayundecided
Re: . by benurch(m): 9:54am On Dec 27, 2016
ikp120:
First of all, I bend down low, you should unfriend that thing you call your friend, except you're just like him.

Then if you love the girl, go ahead and date her and get her to promise never to reveal that you guys are dating until at least 2 years.

There is nothing wrong with dating your friend's ex, so long as the relationship is truly over between them.

Bro you are completely wrong....
Even when she has become an ex, its never cool to date your friend's ex except you want to break a long existing relationship because of a gurl u just known overnight...your friend would never be happy with you...

Inasmuch as the dude's attitude toward the bae is bad, you think the only way to help her is to snatch her from your friend

Wrong!!!
Re: . by benurch(m): 10:02am On Dec 27, 2016
Seriously why is everyone advising the guy to go for his friend's bae? Its totally wrong....that's not the best way to interfere in such matter because you are about breaking a friend's trust all for a gurl you just known overnight...

Even if the gurl decided to leave, all you have to do is to encourage her and not taking advantage of her....
Re: . by Beamborla(f): 10:02am On Dec 27, 2016
She should break up with him for her own good.

it's normal for people to get attached to those who treat then well and listen to them. You both can't be sure just yet that what you have for each other is indeed love.

After her break up, you two should give it time. Allow her heal, spend time away from each other so you can sort out your feelings. If the fire is still there, go for it.


Things will never be the same between you and your friend.

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Re: . by ikp120(m): 10:25am On Dec 27, 2016
benurch:


Bro you are completely wrong....
Even when she has become an ex, its never cool to date your friend's ex except you want to break a long existing relationship because of a gurl u just known overnight...your friend would never be happy with you...

Inasmuch as the dude's attitude toward the bae is bad, you think the only way to help her is to snatch her from your friend

Wrong!!!

He ain't snatching shiit dummy... I said if the relationship is over for fvcking sake mehn.
Re: . by drnoel: 10:35am On Dec 27, 2016
Hector09:
Let me go straight to the story..i have a friend who is from imo state...thou he is staying in my community in my uncles house to be precise and he has a girl frnd who always comes around to pay him visit..This girl is an angel she has everything as a woman...but the issue is that this friend of mine always mistreat her, beating her using knife on her and the worst of it is that he always call other girls via his phone in the presence of this girl..i have been talking to him to resist from this act but he always told me that he luvs the girl very much which i can not understand.,.i have been talking to the girl that everything we be better..but the girl told me that she is tired of the relationship..anytime am alone with this girl she we start asking me questions like who is ur dream girl when i told her that i dont luv any girl she we say something like hmmm even me so u dnt luv me too that she always taught that i we always be there for her.... When the boy started beating her yesterday i rushed to the house to know what the problem is...when i saw the girl crying i ask her what the matter is and she told me that her boy frnd being my frnd beat her and used knife on her and she started packing her belongings...when she is abt to leave she told me that she hope the i we not forget her that she luvs me alot and that she knows that i luv her too which is true...bt the issue is that both families are of the relationship..i.e the boy parents and the girl parents are aware of the relationship...secondly my frnd trust me alot...am confuse because the girl told me that she is accepting my call and that i should told her what she wants to hear


How old are u?
U see a potential woman beater and want to fall into that hand. Have fun but write ur will first.
Re: . by benurch(m): 10:35am On Dec 27, 2016
ikp120:


He ain't snatching shiit dummy... I said if the relationship is over for fvcking sake mehn.

I think you are the dumb one here..for crying out its obvious you are not mature enough to comprehend life on the large scale...go ahead and convince her to break up with ur friend cos of ur selfish interest, against the wish or ur friend...it will definitely be a nice story!!!
Re: . by vicstar(m): 10:36am On Dec 27, 2016
• u better tempt that temptation back undecided •°•
Re: . by badassdude: 10:42am On Dec 27, 2016
Op your are "Tempt" to date your "friend" fiance ba? issoryt...


but, ahn ahn!!

Re: . by ikp120(m): 10:52am On Dec 27, 2016
benurch:


I think you are the dumb one here..for crying out its obvious you are not mature enough to comprehend life on the large scale...go ahead and convince her to break up with ur friend cos of ur selfish interest, against the wish or ur friend...it will definitely be a nice story!!!

Hey man, I ain't the op. He ain't convincing her to do shiit mehn. Did you read the shiit he put up there? He's done his fvcking best to convince an asshole to become a dick hole. Babe came for dude because he saw some nice shiit in the dude, and you are here whining shiit. They ain't married for fvcking sake mehn. That dude is also poisonous mehn. Can't you see the shiit.

By the way, I don't even keep male friends because of the shiity mentality most male folks have.
Re: . by Divay22(f): 10:57am On Dec 27, 2016
sleeknick:
Ma nigga..
Do you beat ladies undecided
Re: . by Deetosin(m): 11:02am On Dec 27, 2016
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Re: . by benurch(m): 11:07am On Dec 27, 2016
ikp120:


Hey man, I ain't the op. He ain't convincing her to do shiit mehn. Did you read the shiit he put up there? He's done his fvcking best to convince an asshole to become a dick hole. Babe came for dude because he saw some nice shiit in the dude, and you are here whining shiit. They ain't married for fvcking sake mehn. That dude is also poisonous mehn. Can't you see the shiit.

By the way, I don't even keep male friends because of the shiity mentality most male folks have.

Shiit, fvck.......now I give up!!!!
Re: . by Olasco93: 11:13am On Dec 27, 2016
Dear OP, please be informed that Attraction is Emotional, not Logical.
Re: . by sleeknick: 12:31pm On Dec 27, 2016
Divay22:
Do you beat ladies undecided
I don't. They beat me cry
But seriously guys who hit women are arse-holes.
The best treatment is silence. Works for me. grin
Re: . by Divay22(f): 12:42pm On Dec 27, 2016
sleeknick:

I don't. They beat me cry
But seriously guys who hit women are arse-holes.
The best treatment is silence. Works for me. grin
cool
Re: . by sleeknick: 12:44pm On Dec 27, 2016
Divay22:
cool
Still waiting on ur ig follow tho... @sleeknick_creationz
Re: . by Divay22(f): 12:45pm On Dec 27, 2016
sleeknick:

Still waiting on ur ig follow tho... @sleeknick_creationz
mine is Jewel dolor
Re: . by Fidelismaria: 12:55pm On Dec 27, 2016
undecided


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May I not experience wat u experiencing bro

A b*itch nigga dat d nigga I dont lyk

Find ur own gf
Re: . by sleeknick: 12:57pm On Dec 27, 2016
Divay22:
mine is Jewel dolor
Just followed you. I think undecided
Do ff back. wink

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