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Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 9:27pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
It is common to fail in relationships. There is nothing wrong in failing. It is important to learn from your mistakes in order to move further in your life.But at the same time, it is good to realise why we fail in relationships. When you look back, if you see any corrections to be made to your behaviour, go ahead and do so. This will help you avoid future relationship failures.Pain, hurt and depression are common reactions after a breakup. But soon after that small stage is over, it is better to rejoice.Here are some reasons why to be happy after a breakup. Reasons why to be happy after a breakup are: 1.You Can Start Life Afresh: Remember that a breakup is a good chance to start everything again from scratch with a new person. This means that you can commit less mistakes this time as you have some experience. 2.You Can Learn From Your Mistakes: Treat it as an opportunity to learn what you have done wrong. In your future relationship, ensure that you don’t repeat mistakes. 3.You Can Do Well In Your New Relationship: Relationship experts say that those who generally have experience from past relationships tend to do well in future relationships as they tend to be more careful. 4.You Will Become Stronger: After you overcome the pain of a breakup and loneliness, you tend to be stronger. This will help you deal with many other ups and downs of life. 5.You Can Make Better Choices: The chances of making wrong choices will greatly reduce after a failed relationship. You tend to tread carefully after a miserable experience. 6.You Will Never Get Carried Away: Even if you come across the most attractive partner who promises the heaven to woo you, you won’t get carried away easily. 7.You Will Learn To Change Or Adapt: This is a very important quality to learn. We all must learn to be flexible to others around us and failed relationships teach us such qualities. 8.You Will Be Grounded: Some relationship failures tend to ground us a bit. Flying in clouds isn’t healthy. Dreaming of ideal relationships isn’t realistic. So, staying grounded is better. These are the reasons to be happy after a breakup. mynd44 lalasticlala 35 Likes 10 Shares
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Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by dingbang(m): 9:30pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Story 8 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by kinginvagina: 9:31pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
op you have a vagina brain. 16 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 9:34pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Most times we look at a closed door so long that we refuse to see an open one, When you try to find good in every evil, advantage in every disadvantage, appointment in every disappointment. Then you are on the path of becoming immortal 16 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Bluezy13(m): 9:36pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Alondra: Most times we exaggerate immortality 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Draei: 9:36pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Past tense, things have changed. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by ClassCaptain(m): 9:38pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
U can finally say goodbye to the have you eaten question.. Have u eaten, a 5 unit course in every Nigerian relationship 75 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 9:38pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Bluezy13:Immortality is living above it all 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by haywire07(m): 9:40pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
All dis ones na just story to console yaself. . You can't be happy especially if u love the ex but with time u will get over it Op and d mod dat pushed it to Fp.... 19 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by AntiWailer: 9:40pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
he easy ? you spend the good part of ur life with a basttard and they walk away and you think bullet points can help you heal ? My dear Op, iz like your head iz paining you. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by cocoberry(f): 9:40pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Been trying, in fact trying soo hard, I still can't get over TJ there is nothing to be happy about breaking up with him 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Ask4Info: 9:41pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
I will be very HONEST to you, Break ups are ONLY pleasant when you are still young, naive and with less pressure. Believe me, for both Men and Women Break-Ups are no longer funny or something to just conclude from age 28years and above. Sitting here under my chilling A/C while scrolling between tv stations with my take away Fries, Chicken and chilled Bottle of Pepsi and guess what? (for no particular reason) the thoughts of my exes popped up. I started to think of what i could have done to have made some of those relationships work. I allowed some of the most loving people who loved me to the end of the world and back slip away. Maybe some because of youthful exhuberance, ego and fear of uncertainty. But in all, i have realized i made very terrible mistakes. Unfortunately, even if i have the opportunity to turn back this hands of time as R.Kelly sang, only this time i will be with either a divorcee, widow, or women with child or children. They are No longer the same. My advice to the youths even though i know they won't listen: Look for True love while you are still young and struggling because the older and richer you get all that will come your way are opportunist and marriages of convinience or benefits. Don't worry, if you don't understand what i wrote above, you will in some years from now. 151 Likes 27 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by garlicrey(m): 9:41pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
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Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Twaci(f): 9:41pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
It's not easy you know, easier said than done. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by saintTim(m): 9:42pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
U mean Happy? |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by dhope001(m): 9:42pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
1 Corinthian 13 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by neahyo(m): 9:42pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Easier said than done. 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Teespice(f): 9:42pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
valid points. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by MuyiRano(m): 9:43pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
My nigga really love dis girl bt she broke up wt him in 2014-15... My friend was heartbroken but he moved on. He gat himself another chic earlier dis year and dey're still rolling 2geda. But what baffles me dis former girl has been disturbing my nigga dey com back 2geda & start rolling again. She even confronted him in d presence of dis new babe telling him dey should start from where dey left it cos her bf dey deny her d care,, time & affection my guy dey give her b4 ...Imagine, what nonsense! Even a girl dat told me she's no longer interested in dat care & affection I showered her some years back has been the one doing the calling now, even when i don't think I've called her up to 5 times dis year, stylishly wanting to come back. But I've already moved on... I pick her call now anytime I feel like. She think my life dey revolve around her fine face? Some girls/ladies are just confused 30 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by ichidodo: 9:43pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
c You get to upgrade to a tall,fair damsel...who speaks five languages and respects the place of your PlayStation 4 in the house. 7 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Abeeni: 9:43pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Nairalanddss is lala's alt I guess 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Beatzmaker: 9:43pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
...You only feel like you are better after the first few months....so cut the crap 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Philinho(m): 9:43pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
depends on what caused d breakup .....when cheated on ur guy n he dumps u, you've no excuse to give 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by curvilicious: 9:43pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Reasons and why (tautology) 4 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 9:44pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by martineverest(m): 9:44pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
the truth is dat i feel very happy when i break up.its show that d lady isnt wife-worthy and not the right person for me 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Beatzmaker: 9:45pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
curvilicious: lol...Our Nigerian English can cause headache 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Jodforex(m): 9:45pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by shammah1(m): 9:45pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Nawa o |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by drizzymtbee(m): 9:45pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
A girl visited her boyfriend. After entering his room, the girl greeted and hugged him. After about 30 minutes, the girl unzipped her clothes, removes her clothes and she was left with only bra and undies nearly naked. Then the following discusions took place: GIRL: darling pls make love to me. BOY: No dear. I wont make love to you pls. GIRL: Am I not sexy enough? See. I am half naked. Pls make love to me. I beg you. BOY: Yeah u are sexy but pls put on your clothes pls I dont want to have sex pls. GIRL: (She removes her bra): darling pls na I beg you. Have sex with me. BOY: No. Put on your clothes. I am in the mood but I wont make love to you. GIRL: Why? Dont u love me? BOY: yeah I love you so much. Pls I want to wait till our wedding night. Put on your clothes. Let us wait till our wedding night before we will have sex. I love and respect your body. Then the girl puts on her clothes back without any sex taking place... DO SUCH MEN EXIST? YES & NO . 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by martineverest(m): 9:46pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
curvilicious:thats is a subject of deliberation in modern english.....its the only tautology that is 'accepted' by english gurus 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by fijiano202(m): 9:47pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Werey ni op sha .. Too much american movies dey worry you..nothing to be happy abt a break up with a lady you love.. Guy u will feel like the walls are closing in and finding someone better will seem hard 4 Likes |
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