Toks2008:


When I write stuffs like this we must understand that a 25year old guy in the euphoria of love will show you to his entire family yet may not know what he wants...but at that point in time will be so carried away by the feelings he has for u.

It's a different ball game when a guy in his 30s does same.

Toks2008:


If you are reasonable you should know this is one hubby I love...writing....some value my write ups while some see it as trash.

Toks2008:


There is always a first and at worst second time but as a strict person my son dares not bring a lady to me today and another tomorrow..I will tell him bluntly in the girl presence if he is sure. .I'm a no nonsense person.

darkmarky:
you see why I said you need a hubby ( partner) your brain is melting. you don't know the difference between hubby and hobby?

Toks2008:


Lol....see your life..please check my dp and you will know you are the one who needs a brain reset lol! abeg I'm not gay..

darkmarky:
i am seeing an old man what's your point?

TheSonOfMark:


Toks : Kunle, you brought another girl home? What about Cecilia? She seemed nice when we met.

Kunle: Dad, forget that girl. You should thank the heavens I didn't marry her. That girl has had countless abortions! I found out through a close friend that she tumbles beneath the sheets with random men too.

Toks : For real?! What's wrong with the women of your generation?! Thank God for you. So, how was your journey?
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Toks2008 , how would you know your son isn't playing you? He obviously knows how to pull your strings.

Benita27:
I beg to differ Tok!.

Some guys have masters degree in showing girls off to their parents and friends while the ulterior motive is to get in-between her legs as much as possible.

A friend of mine met a guy, same week he took her to his mum as wife, smashed her, dumped her weeks later... after all the marriage talk.

truthsayer007:


Its always a friend of yours hahaha !

Benita27:
No guy can deceive me with marriage.

Benita27:
That's what you would've done if in their shoes, but how many parents will call out a child in public?.

As someone will always say...if a guy wants to marry you he should go with his parents to see yours, you need not see his first.

titi4fola:
Great article .Thank you for caring and sharing.

Toks2008:


Keep bragging..

Justmiiiii:
Yea u're kinda right though but.... Some mothers actually encourage their sons to be a so called "ladies man"... I'm sure the likes of those moms won't mind meeting different ladies every now and then...
#justsaying

Toks2008:
justmiiiii sorry if I may ask are you ebere the

Justmiiiii:


No... I'm not.

dingbang:
Lol even if we invite them to know our families, it doesn't guarantee them answering our last names.

dingbang:
Lol even if we invite them to know our families, it doesn't guarantee them answering our last names.

dingbang:
Lol even if we invite them to know our families, it doesn't guarantee them answering our last names.

Toks2008:
Many ladies get carried away when a guy lavishes them with gifts and use sweet words in the bedroom or when they are alone together but the truth is that these words may just be mare sweet talks.

The simple truth is that men are very possessive and jealous.If a man truly desires you,he will do so many stuffs to prove it but most importantly would want to know your parents and entire family as well as show you off to his parents and family members because a man will hardly want to know your family or introduce you to his family if he is not truly interested in a possible future with you.

In-fact he would want everyone to know you belong to him so he will introduce you as MY lady,MY fiancee to anyone who cares to know and those who don't.But If all he does is call you Honey,baby,Bae,sweet chocolate honey sharwarma pie.....then you are on your own.

If you are a lady of marriageable age dating a mature guy for a year or two and he has not met your parents or introduced you to his parents as his fiancee then you need to start having a rethink...it is either he is not sure yet or not really interested in a possible future with you.

My opinion.

enitey:
But some date for a long period of time.....say like 7years and still end up marrying


So having a rethink after two years or so does not apply to everyone o

Lizzdeb:



Shuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu.....Food for thought!

Benita27:
No guy can deceive me with marriage.

Benita27:
No guy can deceive me with marriage.