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Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by Nobody: 9:37pm On Dec 28, 2016
A wedding is the most important day for a man and woman. For many women, their wedding day is the most important day of life. Women generally fantasizes about their big day from a very early age and this includes dreaming about the wedding dress, venue, decor and even the food.There are some brides who get so caught up in the hysteria of planning a wedding that they tend to forget about the most important part of a wedding the ‘marital relationship’.

In every wedding you have the wedding vows which symbolise an oath you are going to take with your partner. These wedding vows which is said in front of friends and family and in front of God will give you a feeling which is out of this world. Our dailies carry a number of love stories which end in heartbreak and disaster. So if you want to avoid just another heartbreaking story, you need to think about your relationship and your future.Here are some reasons why you should wait for marriage
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Reasons why you should wait for marriage are:

1.Marriage involves a lot of expenses. Be it a small wedding or a big one, it involves a lot of money. If you are not financially stable in your career, you should wait for the right moment and not rush into a marriage. One of the main reasons as to why you should wait for marriage is because if you splurge on a big fat wedding, you will feel the pain in your wallets. You would feel worse if your marriage fails.

2.One of the biggest joys about dating is being swept away in the excitement of getting to know a special someone. The reason why you should wait for marriage is because you need to learn where your partner stands related to important life and family issues.

3.There are a number of couples who rush into marriage as they feel it is the only solution to heal a rift in the relationship. Here, the reason why you should wait for marriage is, you need to first sort out the rift in your relationship before you head into the big bond, marriage. Yes, planning a wedding is a good distraction from petty fights and issues but even after the vows have been exchanged, the problems will still exist.

4.No one will deny that a wedding is romantic. You have the honeymoon, and the glow of your wedding day stays around for a while. But when reality hits, you realise the honeymoon is over. This is never a problem for couples who are prepared for it and understand the commitment they have made to each other. But for those who are unaware of this, this is a strong reason why you should wait for marriage.

5.If you love the single life, you should not consider getting married anytime soon. Marriage comes with mutuality. You have to share salaries, divide the bills and above all compromise on your shopping allowances. So if you are not ready for this kind of a life, this is a reason why you should wait for marriage.

These are the reasons why you should wait for the marriage.


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Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by Splinz(m): 9:52pm On Dec 28, 2016
Op will they hear you
Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by Divay22(f): 11:24pm On Dec 28, 2016
I hear you
How long do we wait undecided
Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by George22016(m): 8:00am On Dec 29, 2016
For girls that cheat and not loyal they can wait till 35

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by mysticgal(f): 8:00am On Dec 29, 2016
Idunno why people kill them selves over wedding parties. I don't know whether the paparazzi will feed them or solve their differences.
Go to court and wed jor. Please, i am not trying to say that having a big wedding might mean a failed marriage.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by Acidosis(m): 8:21am On Dec 29, 2016
This thread is bad news to an average Nigerian woman.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by Nobody: 11:52am On Dec 29, 2016
mysticgal:
Idunno why people kill them selves over wedding parties. I don't know whether the paparazzi will feed them or solve their differences.
Go to court and wed jor. Please, i am not trying to say that having a big wedding might mean a failed marriage.

MISS YA..
Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by Nobody: 3:28pm On Dec 29, 2016
Wedding lasts a day, Marriage a lifetime. Let Marriage be the inspiration for wedding and not the other way round. smiley

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by mysticgal(f): 4:21pm On Dec 29, 2016
NairalandDSS:


MISS YA..

shocked shocked you know me before
Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by Nobody: 4:30pm On Dec 29, 2016
mysticgal:

shocked shocked you know me before

YAP ..AND YOU know me
Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by mysticgal(f): 4:33pm On Dec 29, 2016
NairalandDSS:


YAP ..AND YOU know me
Oya, come, come, tell me.
Who is You? ,gimme one or two you know tips
Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by Nobody: 4:35pm On Dec 29, 2016
mysticgal:

Oya, come, come, tell me.
Who is You? ,gimme one or two you know tips
Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by mysticgal(f): 4:39pm On Dec 29, 2016
NairalandDSS:


You got good relationship tips you know. Sooo proud of you.
Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by Nobody: 4:41pm On Dec 29, 2016
mysticgal:

You got good relationship tips you know. Sooo proud of you.


hmmm.. thanks bae ... wink kiss how hv you been
Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by mysticgal(f): 4:46pm On Dec 29, 2016
NairalandDSS:


hmmm.. thanks bae ... wink kiss how hv you been

Am good oh, anything for the girls embarassed
Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by Nobody: 4:47pm On Dec 29, 2016
mysticgal:


Am good oh, anything for the girls embarassed

wah you want .. i hv alot of things wink jus mention baby
Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by mysticgal(f): 4:50pm On Dec 29, 2016
NairalandDSS:


wah you want .. i hv alot of things wink jus mention baby
I need a job, i am serious oh

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by Nobody: 4:51pm On Dec 29, 2016
mysticgal:

I need a job, i am serious oh

HAHA
Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by Nobody: 4:52pm On Dec 29, 2016
DUNNO if you cn do it smhw stressful .. pls pm me.. mysticgal

tomiwajimoh@gmail.com

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by mysticgal(f): 4:56pm On Dec 29, 2016
NairalandDSS:
DUNNO if you cn do it smhw stressful .. pls pm me.. mysticgal

tomiwajimoh@gmail.com
I would now
Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by Nobody: 4:57pm On Dec 29, 2016
mysticgal:

I would now

ok
Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by Nobody: 5:22pm On Dec 29, 2016
mysticgal:

I would now


cnt find your email.. cn you send it now
Re: Reasons Why You Should Wait For Marriage by mysticgal(f): 5:24pm On Dec 29, 2016
NairalandDSS:



cnt find your email.. cn you send it now
I am.... Thanks tho

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