TrapQueen77:


Ooh dear... The best thing u will do is to confront her with all the messages u read.. U need proof so u better screen shot them juz in case she will delete..

U better talk to her before this introduction happens sha...

dollyjoy:
A 36 years old lady keep over 15 sex partners? a beg make una dey lie small small abegi.

Op I guess you must be over 40+. sighs.


So what kind of advice do you want? we should give you reasons to stay or you are not wise enough at your age to borrow legs with the ones you already have to run? If possible FLY!!!!

SexyNairalander:
booked



bros chop and clean mouth then tell her bye bye

SexyNairalander:
sit her down? was she under jazz when she was sleeping with those guys. . .abeg let's be real here



and she knows his intention of getting married to her

SexyNairalander:
sit her down? was she under jazz when she was sleeping with those guys. . .abeg let's be real here



and she knows his intention of getting married to hecr

Wolenice:


I trusted this lady due to the fact that I see her as a devoted Christian. She is very soft spoken and shy too.

Sexxkillz:
LOL. . . Mugu.

She was never your babe. You were in love with a corporate Olosho. Blame yourself. She did nothing wrong. You were just another "business". . .

Next thread pls.

Wolenice:


I trusted this lady due to the fact that I see her as a devoted Christian. She is very soft spoken and shy too.

ogologoamu:
Girl of this generation can't be that foolish to give you her phone and travel for xmas knowing very well the massages in such phone.

OGOLOGOAMU cannot be deceived.

ogologoamu:
Girl of this generation can't be that foolish to give you her phone and travel for xmas knowing very well the massages in such phone.

OGOLOGOAMU cannot be deceived.

TrapQueen77:


But still he needs to confront her no matter what.. What do u want him to do? Run away?

Wolenice:
There is this babe Ive been dating since first week of October. She lives alone and she works as a sales rep with a company.

The first thing I noticed was that the first time I went to her house, she allowed me to sex her. Although I couldn't get erection for reason not known to me. I saw this as a bad omen because this has never happened to me before. This lady is already 36 years old fair in complexion and I love her so much.

Her mother is a devoted Christian and my babe attends a leading Pentecostal church in Lagos.

She celebrated her birthday last week and as usual, we hang out and we ended up having sex. But what baffeled me was that she never allowed me to kiss her that day. Although we used to kiss before.

One of her phones got bad and she gave it to me to help her fix it. She traveled outside Lagos to celebrate Xmas with her mum. This is a lady I love so much and we are already talking marriage.

The shocking revelation came two days ago when I charged up the phone she gave me to fix and fortunately, d phone came on and I just playfully checked some of her watsapp messages. Ommggg!!!

I discovered my babe is the definition of waywardness. More than 15 sex partner both single and married men. I'm even suspecting she had sex with one of them who happened to be her ex the morning of her birthday before she came to me based on the chat she had with him that I read.

I'm totally heartbroken. I'm expecting her back in Lagos tomorrow and she is going to spend the new year holiday at my place. she is not yet aware of what I know.

I'm already talking with her mum on how I will visit her in January for introduction. Guys, wat do I do? Why are women like this? Please, let's someone out there advise me on the best way to handle this issue. Thanks.

SexyNairalander:
let's do it this way. . .you have are engaged to a guy and maybe next month you guys will tie the knot buh you found out he has multiple sex partner what would you do? move on with the marriage or run for your dear life

stan241:
Oga, don't know what other advise you seek again except maybe you are telling us fabu cus i am not understanding how a 36yr old lady can have that many sexual partners.

Oh also close out the year by running a series of tests on yourself.

mumumugu:



she gave you the phone for a purpose knowing fully wel that you would check the message. She wants you to know the other side of her

optimusmind:


Classically, love, they say is all you need, but to me, love is never enough and can't sustain a marriage.
I believe the way is
1. Check your self for STD, you might be a carrier
2. Stop sleeping with 36 years old ladies that let's you in the first day ...

3. If you love her confront her about it and tell her hkh thinking marigage
4. Her past is her past, if she is ready to settle, and you can afford to marry a borehole, then overlook it and marry her.
5. Tell your mom and let her know your wife to be has 15 Sexual partners but you must marry her cuz of love.



N. B. THERE IS A CHANCE SHE GAVE YOU THE PHONE KNOWING THAT YOU WOULD GO THRU THE CONTENT ASA WAY TO SHOW YOU HER REAL SELF.

TrapQueen77:




I will confront him first that I don't want to go further with him.. At least we have this closure.. And I am setting myself free from all these "what if" thingy sha..

I think this is proper since her mom is already involve in planning...