Mimzyy:
You're the main boyfriend. The rest are side chics dudes . You're the 'take home to mama'.


You should of course confront her with your findings and walk away! Or better still, wait until you contract STD .

at least advice him to use condom

ogologoamu:
Girl of this generation can't be that foolish to give you her phone and travel for xmas knowing very well the massages in such phone.

OGOLOGOAMU cannot be deceived.

Abi!

Don't mind the op.. Tell us another lie. Biko

mumumugu:



she gave you the phone for a purpose knowing fully wel that you would check the message. She wants you to know the other side of her

She told me the phone has power problem. It wasnt coming on.

I just charged the phone with my own charger when I got home and it came up.

The power problem still persists sef because after few minutes, it will go off. I'm not interested in fixing the phone again

Wolenice:


Bros, this is not fabu. This lady clocked 36 last week.

I'm totally stunned and confused.

All I need is advise on how best to handle this issue when she comes

Well for starters you literally invaded her privacy by checking her msgs, look my man the truth is deep down,you know the correct thing to do will be to end the relationship because surely you can't marry someone with such a character so sit her down she comes and tell her its over, way better than getting yourself infected with some disease later on in the name of Love.


My 2cents

SexyNairalander:
am not sure this would be your reaction. . .buh the koko na say the girl doesn't deserve him

Believe me, I'm good at it.. And once I'm done, I run away...

Amelian:




Abi!

Don't mind the op.. Tell us another lie. Biko

This is so annoying lady!

How can I cook up such story? To what end?

If u don't believe it, pls u can pass

Kudos my nigga... You see why it is good to go through your partner's phone without notice?

At least you should use your fvcking head to reason right now, and then use your fvcking legs to run away asap.

shurley22:
You've been dating her just three months now and you're already contemplating marriage?
Are you that desperate?

if you were a fruit... you would an apple!!

Fine ghel!!...

my brother very body got a past carry your cross.

wristbangle:




Apt comments though

@Mimzyy, I don't believe so. What if she is exhibiting such scenes to other guys?

I was just being sarcastic. It's not honestly advisable to settle down with her cos in the long run, she's bound to cheat on him with multiple partners if they eventually get married.

Mimzyy:
You're the main boyfriend. The rest are side chics dudes . You're the 'take home to mama'.


You should of course confront her with your findings and walk away! Or better still, wait until you contract STD .

Hmmm...
you meant Sexually Transmitted disease Demons ryt

Wolenice:


This is so annoying lady!

How can I cook up such story? To what end?

If u don't believe it, pls u can pass

Bros, I think she is trying to 'reveal' herself to you, so you don't think you are dealing with a saint or an angel.

Now, I think she knows you will check her phone and she will be anticipating your reaction to what you will see, so you need to pray for wisdom to be smarter than her.

What is her character like, what kind of person is she?

BiafraBushBoy:


if you were a fruit... you would an apple!!

Fine ghel!!...

Tanx

shurley22:


Tanx

MrPresident1:


Bros, I think she is trying to 'reveal' herself to you, so you don't think you are dealing with a saint or an angel.

Now, I think she knows you will check her phone and she will be anticipating your reaction to what you will see, so you need to pray for wisdom to be smarter than her.

What is her character like, what kind of person is she?

This lady is an easy going, very hard working woman. My kind of woman.

She once told me she can never hurt an ant. But how and why she became so promiscuous is what baffled me.

I remember I asked her how much is her monthly take home apart from the commission they pay her when she makes sales and she said 80k.

Although she told me she sends money to her mother every month but I think a well disciplined lady can make do with that amount.

Was the multiple sex partners as a result of money or love for sex? A 36 year old lady to me should not be this promiscuous.

Wolenice:


This lady is an easy going, very hard working woman. My kind of woman.

She once told me she can never hurt an ant. But how and why she became so promiscuous is what baffled me.

I remember I asked her how much is her monthly take home apart from the commission they pay her when she makes sales and she said 80k.

Although she told me she sends money to her mother every month but I think a well disciplined lady can make do with that amount.

Was the multiple sex partners as a result of money or love for sex? A 36 year old lady to me should not be this promiscuous.

As I told you earlier, you need great wisdom from God, so first things first, you need to pray to God and commit the whole affair to Him, and ask for His supreme guidance.

Maybe she has seen her lost compass in you...I don't know or she is trying to discharge you to continue with her life. If the former is the case, my brother then you have to be strict with her, just as with a wayward child, a left hand of strictness and a right hand of pure love. She will have to play completely by the godly rules you will set for her

If she wants you, and you want her, she will have to play by your rules. And you have to be her man of God

Othewise, let go of yourselves.

Wolenice:


This lady is an easy going, very hard working woman. My kind of woman.

She once told me she can never hurt an ant. But how and why she became so promiscuous is what baffled me.

I remember I asked her how much is her monthly take home apart from the commission they pay her when she makes sales and she said 80k.

Although she told me she sends money to her mother every month but I think a well disciplined lady can make do with that amount.

Was the multiple sex partners as a result of money or love for sex? A 36 year old lady to me should not be this promiscuous.

She's a cougar,
She's lost hope in ever getting married so she just decided to sleep around.
This is the type that becomes sugar mommies.
But is like God wants to use you to save her from hell.

MrPresident1:


As I told you earlier, you need great wisdom from God, so first things first, you need to pray to God and commit the whole affair to Him, and ask for His supreme guidance.

Maybe she has seen her lost compass in you...I don't know or she is trying to discharge you to continue with her life. If the former is the case, my brother then you have to be strict with her, just as with a wayward child, a left hand of strictness and a right hand of pure love. She will have to play completely by the godly rules you will set for her

If she wants you, and you want her, she will have to play by your rules. And you have to be her man of God

Othewise, let go of yourselves.

Honestly, to pray about the issue sef dey hard me. I truly love this lady. I won't deny it. It will take me a while to recover if i call it quit which is the option that seems logical for now.

There are so many other ladies giving me green light even outside the country but its like I really have soft spot for this one.

I will definetly pray about it today and confront her with my evidence as soon as she comes. Her reaction and attitude will determine the next line of action.

But I won't blink twice to end the relationship if she tries to play smart or show no remorse.

Thanks all