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Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Fuqman(m): 9:38pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
I feel like my generation (25 or more) is borderline impossible to have a successful relationship. Take for instance, I'm a guy and my last two relationships have been unsuccessful. It's not just me though, I see if everywhere people are constantly breaking up, tons of single moms plus dads as well. Is society just too selfish for relationships now? I feel like no one wants to work through the hard times that naturally happen in relationships. Your thoughts? |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by dingbang(m): 9:47pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
The best relationships are those that are challenging, because at the end. They stand the test of time |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by taiocol: 9:48pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Just two and you are complaining |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by makydee(f): 9:48pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Here to read comments |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Cause a lot of people are selfish. No one wants to sacrifice for the other. And when one partner is always giving without getting anything in return apart from sexxx,which in return leads to pregnancies there will breakup wiithn a month or there will be streams of baby mama and baby daddy's. |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Fuqman(m): 9:55pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
taiocol:You have been in tons of relationship I suppose? |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by bitchcrafts: 9:55pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
No reason for your question. Ask another one pls |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Doctorfitz: 9:55pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Bros no b only u oo. This night I just weak..... Girls are cruel...
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Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Fuqman:You feel so because of our easy access to information via social media. Our fathers and grandfathers era consisted of breakups and bad relationships too, just that they didn't have access to twitter to tweet about it. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 10:01pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Amelian: You are smart ![]() BTW... What is baby daddy ![]() |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Nobody: 10:03pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
BiafraBushBoy: Smiles thanks ![]() Baby daddy is an unmarried guy with a kid or several kids from either one woman or from different ladies.. One can call them single dads too. |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 10:06pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Amelian: Yo remember me? ![]() Not a good history ![]() But all the same... I am sorry ![]() |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Lotsa people go into relationships for the wrong reasons.
It's always about the sex or the money.. |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
BiafraBushBoy: Hmm nope.. I don't remember and why sorry? ![]() Have we Met before? |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Fuqman(m): 10:12pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Nma27:In the days of our fathers, it was indeed an abomination to divorce or for an unmarried woman to get pregnant. I think they had the best moment when it comes to relationships and marriage. They value potentials and true love. |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by LordIsaac(m): 10:12pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Fuqman:Lack of sincerity, inordinate affection and erosion of core values! |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 10:13pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Amelian: Don't worry.. have a nice night... lol |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Nobody: 10:15pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Monalisa185(f): 10:17pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
here to read comments...... #dazzal ![]() |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Fuqman(m): 10:17pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Amelian:Honestly, love is kinda cliché and its funny when people throw around that word love like it is a market place. Trading and negotiating to get what they want. Perhaps, I've been making the wrong choices or relationships aren't meant for me. |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:30pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
It's end time, remember? |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Fuqman: Relationships are meant for you and every other person you there. But trust me, a lot of people don't know what love is all about and they wil profess it even before meeting up with u. And one wonder , what the heck does this guy know about me that makes him love so quickly.. And as weeks progresses into month . Just one single test, mehn he scrams like kilode. But if I may ask what type of ladies do u go for? |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Fuqman(m): 10:38pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Amelian:Typically extremely beautiful ladies with a little bit attitude. I made a wide and unjust choice and I will adjust to the average or mostly bookish ladies or maybe I need to care more. why did you ask? its quite unusual for me to pour out my feelings online. Am somewhat discreet. |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Nobody: 10:50pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
[quote author=Fuqman post=52374435] Typically extremely beautiful ladies with a little bit attitude. I made a wide and unjust choice and I will adjust to the average or mostly bookish ladies or maybe I need to care more. why did you ask? its quite unusual for me to pour out my feelings online. Am somewhat discreet.[/quote Awwww. Sorry about the confessions ![]() Am like this, as in people confide in me a lot, be it bad or good ![]() One of my. Magical powers I would say ![]() But don't worry u are in safe hands. And inbetween your new choices in females could work out. Try it out and see Are u the one on your profile pic? |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Fuqman(m): 10:57pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
[quote author=Amelian post=52374760][/quote] You gotta be a great magician and I like to know the magic secret. Yeah I am the one and hopefully it doesn't bother anybody... |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by FreeSpirited: 11:16pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
There's is a paradigm shift of how a relationship should be compare to those days, and its now entirely unrealistic, cos its sheer materialism, unending fantasies and pleasure being promoted and absorbed from social media. Sadly, this is the mental picture of how we think a relationship should be........whereas, long lasting relationship is built on reality 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Nobody: 12:12am On Dec 30, 2016 |
Fuqman: Lol.. If I tell you the secret? Then hey! It's no longer a secret. ![]() So don't worry bruv! It's a secret I intend taking to my grave. So help me God, amen. Nope your pic doesn't disturb anyone. U are gud! |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Fuqman(m): 9:11am On Dec 30, 2016 |
![]() Amelian:Love only grows by sharing. You can only have more for yourself by giving it away to others. Give me a fresh start, because knowledge shared can give you immortality. . Don't you think so? |
Re: Why Are Relationships So Difficult These Days? by Nobody: 10:07am On Dec 30, 2016 |
Fuqman: Lol.. Not in this case ![]() |
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