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How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by Vaxt(m): 11:43am On Dec 30, 2016 |
It’s More Than Sticking Your Finger In And Out It’s not what you put in, it’s what’s on the outside that counts. Specifically, we’re talking about the clit. One point echoed throughout the study was that the kind of “fingering” that actually brings women to orgasm is rubbing of the outside area around the clit. In fact, that’s how most women masturbate, because it’s what actually feels the best. For the vast majority of women, penetration is nice, but it’s kind of like rubbing your balls: Pleasant, but not going to make you come. Different Women Like Different Things There’s no “one move fits all” technique that’s going to do the trick — and anyone who tells you differently is lying. The women who participated in this study went as far as to say that the guys who think they have “the move” are usually worst at giving pleasure. The mentality of “one move to finish them all” makes sense to men, since moves like stroking and sucking work for almost all guys — and if there’s lube, just about any rubbing is going to feel good to some degree. But for women, it’s truly different strokes for different folks. The clit is so sensitive that some strokes can feel really uncomfortable or even hurt certain women. Meaning, if some move felt really good for your ex-girlfriend, that doesn’t mean it’ll do the trick for your next girlfriend. Most Agree That ‘This One Move’ Doesn’t Do It Porn that shows women getting rubbed out typically portrays a hard and fast back and forth motion — aka the “DJ” move. According to the OMGYes study, that kind of super fast cadence and pressure directly on the clit only feels good for 1 in 48 women. For the rest, it either doesn’t feel great or actually hurts. To put it into perspective, imagine someone taking your dick and rubbing the tip really hard with their palm as fast as they can. It’s a sharp painful tickle, and you want it to stop. For the vast majority of women, it’s not a good move — even if women in porn are pretending to like it. Fingering Isn’t Just For pre-intimacy It’s a true fact that very few women get off by way of penetration alone. In the study conducted by OMGYes, 72% of women said they need their clit stimulated during intercourse in order to reach orgasm. Meaning, lending a helping hand to your lady’s most sensitive part during intercourse is going to lead to more orgasms. In fact, the resounding sentiment from the study was that the clit gets attention paid to here and there, but most women would prefer to have it touched throughout the act. OK, so now that we’ve covered the big learnings from this study, you’re probably wondering where you should go from here. To really understand the different patterns and ways of touching that feel best for your lady, you have to try them out. Start By Touching EverythingExcept The Vagina Lots of guys go straight for it, the way they wish women would go straight for their dick. But for most women, the more anticipation that’s built upthat’s built up before touching the vagina, the more aroused they become — and the more pleasure she’ll feel once you do start to touch her down there. The women who were surveyed said that kisses on the lips, neck, shoulders and arms usually do the trick, as well as gently, slowly stroking their stomach, legs and thighs. Be A Tease Approach the crotch area, but keep passing around it — as if it doesn’t exist. One woman from the study likened this tactic to playing with a cat. If you reach right for it, it runs away. If you tease and don’t stroke it — it comes to you. Another woman described a method she calls the “fake- out.” To do it, you move your fingertip down your woman’s body from her neck to her breasts to her stomach — but instead of landing at her crotch, veer down her leg. Then, on the way back up, move your fingertip in another path that misses her crotch too. These moves build anticipation and help awaken arousal. Many women love this kind of withholding, and will eventually move their crotch toward your finger or tongue as it passes by — a good sign that the clit is ready. to be touched. The more awake her body is, the more pleasurable it will be when you finally touch her. Source Passion Bleep
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Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by Ayodeleseyi65(m): 12:36pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
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Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by Vaxt(m): 12:40pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Ayodeleseyi65:African mentality |
Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by Pritypussi(f): 1:10pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
your fingers can't do shii to me |
Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by Vaxt(m): 1:15pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Pritypussi:should I give it a try? |
Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by ndujekwu(m): 1:21pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Pritypussi: Saaaanu, bobrisky |
Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by Melahou(m): 2:55pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Vaxt: your whole body will sink inside...bro please dont try it |
Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by wtfCode: 3:37pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
God have me the perfect fingers similar to a dick. Just go in n out slowly, change hears slowly with tha clit n U're good to go. OMG,I think I'm getting old 4 this |
Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by FreeSpirited: 5:08pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Pritypussi:We all know why.....what will a finger do in the middle of a well....that's the way we see it... |
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