ITbomb:
From here, I can understand the problem. The wife has stopped taking care of herself and has grown fat, but the man still loves curves.

Apparently the man still loves the wife, so *some text missing*

ITbomb:
From here, I can understand the problem. The wife has stopped taking care of herself and has grown fat, but the man still loves curves.

Apparently the man still loves the wife, so *some text missing*

Shortyy:
This conversation between a wife and her husband's lover has gone viral. I dunno if this is real or someone made it up, but what I'll say is of you're a lady and sleeping with a married man and proud of it, you should get your head checked, in fact you should see a spiritualist. Whether for money, or for pleasure, just STOP. Go out there, hustle, work your ass out, and get paid! And get yourself a man! Your own man.

And as for the men, you have a beautiful wife who loves you, takes care of you and makes sure you don't lack anything, she gives you everything, her body, and even get pregnant and give you wonderful kids. And you cheat on her? God is watching you. And if you don't believe in God, well Karma is there and it's seeing every damn thing. This goes for you ladies too, what goes around def comes around.

Acidosis:
This text is enough to provoke her into beating the life out of the side chick, but if such happens, my dearest Nairaland sisters will condemn an angry wife for teaching a side chick a well deserved lesson.

They'll say: "why can't the wife beat her husband instead?" I didn't know women now beat men... smh for our dearest confused sisters.


The woman obviously married a dog, but the she-dog deserves all the beatings she can get from a superior power

eyinjuege:


Interesting.
So if the she-dog has the upper hand and beats the life out of the pregnant wife, and also causes her to lose her pregnancy, what would you say?
The wife would have started the assault by going to meet the girlfriend and also starting the fight. Starting a physical fight doesn't always mean you'll have a upper hand btw.
"Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never harm me"
Verbal insults can never justify physical abuse/assault. So if your husband's mistress insults you, that's not enough reason to hit her with a stone. If you start the fight, and she has the upper hand you are still to blame.
Is it not better you go and discuss with your husband and resolve your marital issues?
This particular convo seems to have happened on the man's phone, so the mistress never sent a message to the wife.
How can a man be telling his mistress his wife stinks, is fat and all sorts of nonsense? Why won't the mistress have the guts to say rubbish to the wife?
If its not this particular mistress, it will be another for such men that have no respect for their families.
There are men that have mistresses outside marriage, but they've always created boundaries for their mistresses never to cross. Its always been understood that their wives are important to them, and they would never want to hurt their wives by her finding out about their indiscretions.The mistresses have always known that once the wife finds out, that's the end of the amourous relationship with the man. So they behave themselves.
So for any man's mistress to have to guts to confront the wife and say rubbish, the fault is with the man abeg. The wives need to go and sort it out with their husbands who's pledged his allegiance to them.

crackhaus:

What is the true essence of this statement you ladies love to throw around?
Please explain...


The chats are nothing new, I've read much worse exchanges between some wives and their husband's biitch.
The thing about this is, if the wife is not careful, she will just end up pushing her husband further into the warm embrace of this side-chick...such confrontational methods hardly ever work, especially when the hoe already knew the man was married.

pocohantas:

Yeayea.
The man is obviously built like The Rock and the side chick would never get fat when and if she gets married, gets pregnant and births kids.

Always easy to identify an excuse.
Loves his wife? I like this una love, the thing dey do division of labour.
Instead of him to help his wife with the kids for some hours so she can workout, obviously she is managing their home and a business, he prefers to go knock up some chick.

Shortyy:
she gives you everything, her body, and even get pregnant and give you wonderful kids. .

Shortyy:

There's absolutely no excuse for what this so called side chic did, so don't try to defend her In any way! That woman is pregnant ffs! Why not respect her if not for anything but because she's pregnant. You can't be serious!

EfemenaXY:


This is so sick.

Deseo:
God save your children from dogs in husband form.

Amen!

raumdeuter:


What does the quoted mean? Are the kids not hers also? Give her body? Is he not giving his body as well?

EfemenaXY:


This is so sick.

PaperLace:

It's not sick o.
Y'know men are always thinking 'bout sex, their TESTETORONE is shooting through the roof. If they don't have sex they experience physical pain ,become irritable and tensed (no be me talk o, na for here I read_ from a man).

With the frequent threads I see, wives are obviously not meeting up. Let's not forget they're polygamous in nature.

Right now, the best we can do is come with ways every party can coexist in peace. I have some feasible guidelines on how to manage madam and side-chick.

crackhaus:

If I call them sex objects now, they will start having heart palpitations.

raumdeuter:


What does the quoted mean? Are the kids not hers also? Give her body? Is he not giving his body as well?

PaperLace:

It's not sick o.
Y'know men are always thinking 'bout sex, their TESTETORONE is shooting through the roof. If they don't have sex they experience physical pain ,become irritable and tensed (no be me talk o, na for here I read_ from a man).

With the frequent threads I see, wives are obviously not meeting up. Let's not forget they're polygamous in nature.

Right now, the best we can do is come with ways every party can coexist in peace. I have some feasible guidelines on how to manage madam and side-chick.

eyinjuege:


Yes, sick.
It doesn't make it right. That's why I never said -men that "love" their wives.
Oblivion is bliss...

UIA04:

ehen, I know crackhaus will support the motion

PaperLace:

It's not sick o.
Y'know men are always thinking 'bout sex, their TESTETORONE is shooting through the roof. If they don't have sex they experience physical pain ,become irritable and tensed (no be me talk o, na for here I read_ from a man).

With the frequent threads I see, wives are obviously not meeting up. Let's not forget they're polygamous in nature.

Right now, the best we can do is come with ways every party can coexist in peace. I have some feasible guidelines on how to manage madam and side-chick.

pocohantas:


Go meet ashawo to born for you na.
Sex objects indeed.

For some women child bearing is a life and death thing, they tend to say such when issues arise. Doesn't make it right though...

HARDDON:



God save your sons from karashikas inform of ladies.

@ op, total smack down from side chick! Ouch!

Imagine njoying ur thing n still go mockng u!

The wife stands no chance.

The war @ home wit husby over this chat, can only be imagined!

Shortyy:

She's your wife, whom you married for better and for worse, she's being loyal, loving and caring for you. And her whole body changes cos of pregnancy and child bearing, which is probably why you're chasing sexy and curvy girls. Please you people should fear God.

EfemenaXY:


No need to have a war over this.

A smart wife will meticulously play her cards close, get herself a good lawyer and take the bàstàrdo to the dry cleaners and fleece him properly.

After which it remains to be seen if his numerous side chics will find the homeless, penniless bloke half as appealing.

Arrant nonsense.