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Save A Brother!! by Malayy(m): 10:26pm On Jan 01, 2017 |
I am a young guy of 21. I will be 22 next month. I first patronized a prostitute in 2013, then I was 18. I regretted it. I cried. felt bad, and vowed never to repeat it.... I got admission, travelled to school, and stayed away from that life.. 3 years later, 2016, I came back home for IT. and I found myself going to that life. even when I promised myself not to go back there, I still continued. I am sick and tired of living that lifestyle. it doesn't suit my personality. I am a good guy. but I can't control myself. just this evening, I went to that brothel again, after fighting with my mind, my body won. I patronized them again. I am felling bad right now. and I have asked God to take my life, if I dare step my foot in a brothel. now and in the future. please I need your advice, counselling and prayers. because prayers alone can't solve this.. |
Re: Save A Brother!! by Malayy(m): 10:29pm On Jan 01, 2017 |
I am an only son. I can't be living this life. it's too bad for me.. lalasticlala |
Re: Save A Brother!! by delishpot: 10:34pm On Jan 01, 2017 |
Tell your mind it is a battle between good and evil. That way you would make conscious decision to not let the enemy overthrow you. 1 Like |
Re: Save A Brother!! by SuperSuave(m): 10:36pm On Jan 01, 2017 |
Sorry to spoil your party but nothing out of the ordinary will happen to you if you continue to visit the brothel from now till 31st January. Everyone has something they are addicted to, i have mine and I know it. I've made a restitution to forsake that path and I hope to keep to it. What I've learn in the course of life is that "An idle hand is the devil's workshop" addictions can be easily cured when you get busy and find joy/pleasure in other things. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Save A Brother!! by midolian(m): 10:37pm On Jan 01, 2017 |
... Pls just cut that thing! I don tire for ds kain stories 2 Likes |
Re: Save A Brother!! by Malayy(m): 10:37pm On Jan 01, 2017 |
delishpot:It seems I can't control my mind. and the 'ashawo thread' on sexuality section is not helping matters at all. I frequent it. 1 Like |
Re: Save A Brother!! by SuperSuave(m): 10:39pm On Jan 01, 2017 |
delishpot:it's never gonna be that easy, even if your mind tells you that you'll die after doing that thing you'll still do it and if no death comes your heart gets hardened more and more. |
Re: Save A Brother!! by SuperSuave(m): 10:40pm On Jan 01, 2017 |
Malayy:I'm certain you do not have a girlfriend or friends at all, you're probably lonely |
Re: Save A Brother!! by Malayy(m): 10:41pm On Jan 01, 2017 |
SuperSuave:I appreciate your contribution. but I have something doing. I hardly have time to even brush my teeth or rest a little. I even work on Sundays. but when the 'demon' comes, I see myself going there.. 1 Like |
Re: Save A Brother!! by Malayy(m): 10:44pm On Jan 01, 2017 |
SuperSuave:I have few friends. they are far from me. but I have plenty acquaintances. at my work place and house. and about girlfriend, no. I don't have. |
Re: Save A Brother!! by SuperSuave(m): 10:57pm On Jan 01, 2017 |
Malayy:get yourself a gf bro, that might be your escape route. Overcoming addictions isn't easy, I can attest to it as I haven't had much luck either. |
Re: Save A Brother!! by Malayy(m): 11:01pm On Jan 01, 2017 |
SuperSuave:getting a girlfriend will be hard for me. 1)I lose interest in women easily. 2) I am not serious with women 3) I might wake up one morning, and tell her to go her way. 2 Likes |
Re: Save A Brother!! by SuperSuave(m): 11:07pm On Jan 01, 2017 |
Malayy:But you'll probably get married one day so you've got to start from somewhere. I really don't understand why you feel bad about going to a brothel once in a while tho, looks like you don't have much choice here |
Re: Save A Brother!! by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jan 01, 2017 |
Buy a jar of Vaseline, buy 10GB of data and anytime your thing is itching you, visit an adult site and service yourself 4 Likes |
Re: Save A Brother!! by Gpopsicle(m): 11:32am On Jan 02, 2017 |
@op, u have to take charge of ur mind and b n control of ur emotions.from d look of things Ure a good guy with a gud heart trying to make amends.. first off, burn dose bridges.. u said u frequently visit d 'ashawo thread' on Nairaland, stop it. secondly engage urself in something very productive and mind tasking. d last Buh not d least, u pray kos it's not easy dealing with addiction. u need d help of God to help u get through ds... hope to hear better from u |
Re: Save A Brother!! by Malayy(m): 7:01pm On Jan 02, 2017 |
Gpopsicle:thanks bro, I appreciate. |
Re: Save A Brother!! by Gpopsicle(m): 10:52pm On Jan 02, 2017 |
Malayy:Ure welkum brother |
Re: Save A Brother!! by johnime: 8:42am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Malayy: |
Re: Save A Brother!! by Malayy(m): 9:29am On Nov 20, 2017 |
[quote author=johnime post=62541902][/quote]What ? |
Re: Save A Brother!! by NairalandSARS: 4:40pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Op take FLUOXETINE 80mg daily.
It will kill your preeq and sexual desires completely.
Thank me later. |
Re: Save A Brother!! by Malayy(m): 9:02pm On Nov 23, 2017 |
NairalandSARS:What I need right now is anti depressant pills ... Do you know any ? |
Re: Save A Brother!! by NairalandSARS: 10:06am On Nov 24, 2017 |
Malayy: Fluoxetine is an antidressant. You can also ask for sertraline/zoloft or amitriptyline |
Re: Save A Brother!! by AWONEYAN(m): 11:10am On Nov 24, 2017 |
My brother, if you are sincere in your heart...help is coming your way. Am praying with you. But if, while we seek to be justified by Christ, we ourselves also are found sinners, is therefore Christ the minister of sin? God forbid. For if I build again the things which I destroyed, I make myself a transgressor. For I through the law am dead to the law, that I might live unto God. I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me. I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain. Galatians 2:17-21 KJV https://bible.com/bible/1/gal.2.17-21.KJV It's not by struggling, but trusting in Christ's finished work. Also please find a dependable Christan Brother to confide in and submit for discipleship. I pray with you receive grace to lead a life above flesh |
Re: Save A Brother!! by Malayy(m): 6:31pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
NairalandSARS:But you said something about fluoxetine killing my sexual urge and preek.. Are you serious about that ? |
Re: Save A Brother!! by NairalandSARS: 6:37pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
Malayy: Yes I am serious; it is a side effect, although not permanent |
Re: Save A Brother!! by Malayy(m): 10:06pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
NairalandSARS:I just researched about the drugs.. Man, I am not going near it.. I can even lead to death if taken with a sleeping pill/ drugs.. I am a careless person. I might take the wrong dose and get myself killed or mess up my mind... 1 Like |
Re: Save A Brother!! by NairalandSARS: 7:18am On Nov 25, 2017 |
Malayy:No, Fluoxetine 80mg won't kill you. You need to take a dose up to 1600mg befoRe it can harm you |
Re: Save A Brother!! by bomasek(m): 11:32am On Nov 25, 2017 |
Malayy:U r mad,idiot like u,na ashewo thread make u dey fork ashewo,foolish fool. If u r idle,go find labourer work n do 2 Likes |
Re: Save A Brother!! by Funjosh(m): 12:36pm On Nov 25, 2017 |
Malayy: Avoid drugs, don't beat yourself too much on this everybody got one or two things he or she doesn't like and wish to stop so you are not alone just with different case. My advice is engaged your mind in positive thinking by reading some good books. It is well with you. |
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