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How To Read Body Language Of Opposite Sex Correctly by ENGOLEE(m): 12:15pm On Jan 02, 2017
Did you know that the body language of both males and females will change dramatically when in the presence of the opposite sex? For instance, a man will automatically straighten up his body, stand a little taller, and avoid all those various slumping or slouching postures.

When a man is in the company of a woman he's interested in, he will try his best to appear more dominant by pulling in his stomach and expanding his chest out.

Let's say coincidentally the woman he likes here shares the same interest and is taking a fancy to this man; she will also automatically display herself being submissive by gestures like turning and exposing her wrists, tilting her head a bit, and touching her hair.
The interesting thing is the gestures of this man and woman were delivered subconsciously in an automatic response mode. Well, there are of course those intended and coordinated attraction and flirting gestures that were made consciously.

What Type of Attraction Gestures Men Use

Men do not have an extensive inventory of attraction and flirting gestures compared to women. When a person is interested in a female, he will just focus his gestures to display his masculinity and the macho-man image. His gestures usually will begin with patting his hair into place, smooth and straighten his clothes, adjust his tie if he is wearing one, and often thrust his chin forward. At the same time, he will extend out his chest, straighten his back, and draw in his stomach as mentioned earlier.

A man usually will display his masculinity and dominance by tucking his thumbs into his belt and pointing them at his crotch. This, in fact, a very common sight of men using gestures to emphasise on his manhood.

What Type of Attraction Gestures Women Use

On the contrary, when a woman is interested in a guy, she will blast out tonnes of signs and signals to notify him of her feelings. Unfortunately on the downside here is that many men are totally oblivious to these signs and signals. Making things worse, women sometimes unintentionally send out mixed signals when trying to manipulate the people into displaying their feelings for her. Very often this will end up with the men confused and result with them avoiding and not approaching her.

In a room, when a woman finds the man she is attracted to, she will regularly gaze at him until she seizes his attention and thus forming the first visual contact. She will then hold on to this eye contact for two to three seconds before looking elsewhere. Subsequently, she will further display other gestures to express her interest in this particular guy.

One of the gestures most commonly used by a woman around a man she is attracted to is the hair flicking gesture. What happens here is that the woman will flick her hair away from a face or over her shoulder in a sensual way. Surprisingly, this gesture is also performed by many women with short hair.
When a woman slowly and suggestively caresses her neck or thigh, she is implying to the man that he might be able to touch her in these ways too if he can captivate and mesmerise her to her delight. This is the self-stroking gesture which is frequently used by women.
Another gesture to watch out for is the droopy wrist gesture. This gesture is often utilised for the maximum effect when handling a cylindrical item. Women like to use this gesture to make a guy feel that he could have full control of her. This droopy wrist gesture is perceived by many men as a submission signal.

A similar seductive gesture used by women to draw in the puts will be the neck-baring gesture. This is another submissive gesture seen by people in the same way as the droopy wrist gesture. As for how it is suggested here, the woman will bare her neck to the man by tilting her head to one side of her shoulder.

Is He/She Already Seeing Someone Else?

See the complete gist at http://www.engolee.com/2017/01/reading-body-language.html
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Re: How To Read Body Language Of Opposite Sex Correctly by semasir: 12:24pm On Jan 02, 2017
Okay..... Let me see what gesture the bae below will show so I respond well to it
Re: How To Read Body Language Of Opposite Sex Correctly by ENGOLEE(m): 12:42pm On Jan 02, 2017
semasir:
Okay..... Let me see what gesture the bae below will show so I respond well to it
smiles...... kiss
Re: How To Read Body Language Of Opposite Sex Correctly by ENGOLEE(m): 11:42pm On Jan 29, 2017
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