i met a girl 9month ago in my place of work. we became friends and we decided to go into a relationship. while i was trying to know more about her especially her past relationship, she didnt open up to me. what she told me about her sexul life is that she was rape and i felt so pity for her. i tried as much as i can to comfort her. i told her all will be fine. so, we were having a nice time together and i fell in love with her. i also saw that she likes or perhaps love me too through her body language.

after some month, she travelled to see her parent and i called her just to check on her. i was sulprised after the called she sent me text that ''dom, i am sorry we cant go into a relationship because i have a fiance''. i was shocked when i read the text becuase she never told me this when i ask about her past relationship.

when she came back from her travelled, i asked her why didnt she tell me this, why is it now that i have fallen in love with you. she said they just stop communicating for months and she he saw her wen she travelled..i decided to ask her if she love the guy and she said yes. i also asked her how long she has been engaged and she said 2yrs. i just laugh at it because i knew the guy was trying to hold her with the engagement. i aslo went went further to ask her about her sexual life and she said she only had sex with the guy apart from the abuse of rape. i trusted her words but told her i will let her be since she said she loved the guy.

i just dont know what hapened but we became close more than ever. each time when i visit her appartment, i see different guys even married men coming to visit her as well. at first i overlooked everything but later when i told her if we must be together, then you need limit all this visitation and she said they are just friends.

to cut the long story short, she said so much lies to me which i digested. but what killed my trust for her was when she was flipping through her diary, i decided to checked the diary since she allowed me to flip through it.what i saw in her diary brough cold into me. can you guys beleive she has slept with almost ten different guys in the past when she claimed to have slept with just a guy including her sexual abuse ''rape''. i was very angry with her and i asked her why didnt you tell me this all this while..she said she never wanted me to think bad of her and beiside she slept with this guys before we met. i forgave her but i ws not just comfortable with her sex history because my mind told me she was lying.i was indeed trouble and i asked her to tell me the truth. i asked her to tell me how many guys she slept with behind my back while we were dating, and she said two guys at diffent times. i was emotionally down and i had to travelled because she has betrayed my trust, our love, my time, my attention and my effort in other to make things work.

after some weeks, she told me she was pregnant and was planning to abort the pregnancy. i got her attention because of the pregnancy and i told her not to abort it. i decided to call her frequently becuase of the preg.i am confused because i dont no if she is actually preg. or maybe she is just trying to get my attention. and if she is pregnant as she said, there is 80% assurance that i am responsible for the preg while 20% shows i may not be responsible due to her infidelity. when i ask her questions about the preg, she is not always direct instead she change the subject.i have tried several times to know but she is not sincere. i cant see her to confirm d preg because i travelled. i play different tricks just to no how serious she is but she is not just open with me.because i was very angry, i sent her text that '' if you cant be open wih me, then dont call my line again and moreover do whatever you want to do. i cant continue wasting my time around you''. pls someone should advise me.

Is this how you want to start 2017?

It's just too early in the year for this kinda poos, abeg dump her and move on, she's a liar and a cheat

let her be, she has too many baggage. ..

all i can say is you sent the right text message.

Guy, she not pregnant for u jor. Same thing happened to my friend.

This ur matter is very strong. That ur babe is the grand mother of liars.
Only God knws what else she's being hiding 4rm u cos her closets are filled with dirty secrets. My advice is that u leave her to be 4 nw. If truely she's pregnant, only time will tell that nd if she is, then get ready for a paternity test whn the child is born.
For nw, stop all sexual relationships with her. No sex man cos that girl is cunning, she desperately wants to use pregnancy to tie u down.
U don't need all these emotional baggages nd garbagges this new year.
Let her be nd let her suppose pregnancy develop bt be prepare 4 paternity test incase it's true.

You are in a big sh**t?

Are you BABA IGBE?

kinibigdeal:
Is this how you want to start 2017?

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I jst wander hw u guys stayed long in dis kind of relationship.
I turn does kind of girls to side chick

Your not just in a big poo,your going to continue being in that poo for a long time...

You got yourself into this mess...

Now first things first is you realise shez a no good cause i don't think you have...

You need to get back and go together to a hospital of your choice...don't let her know till you come back..

Thirdly if she truly is pregnant, you let her know you cant marry her but you will keep the child...

Fourthly,if shez not then you dump her ass quickly and move on..

Dont be a fool..

I dont think shez pregnant...she needs a good guy..

Shez a sure definition of a LovePeddler...
Married men as friends that comes to her house?
pheww....

Lies everywhere...
She's not pregnant joor she just wants you around,you know that friend zone thing
Why not tell her to take a pic of herself and send to you.

She has too much drama. Are u even sure she was raped. Move on

How you cud see all her obvious red flags and still proceed to not only date but fūck her w/o protection is mind boggling.

Dude, never stick your dīck in crazy.

Rape rape rape is a normal story for galz.................u don't need any advice .......jst forget abt her,she is an harlot in disguise.... Flush from ur heart to toilet .. yes yes to d toilet

Op u bebe mvmu dazzol

after all the lies u still stick around,nd now u asking for epp,u need brain,take it or leave it

Never knew women write down all past sex mates in diaries o. So op flipped through and saw every entry about her sex life from even before they met? And she knowing the details in that book gave him to flip through? Rape story may be true many naija girls are sexually exploited as kids and many are still being abused even today. Judging by the amount of news about babies and young females being rapped daily. And that is just the few we hear about o. So e nor shock me

ERCROSS:
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Oga warrisdis

Never ask a girl about her sexual pass or even pass boyfriends because whatever she told you will be too much for you.

kinibigdeal:
Is this how you want to start 2017?

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kinibigdeal:
Is this how you want to start 2017?

i dont waste my time advising some dudes...its a waste of time!!just like in this case.

delishpot:
Never knew women write down all past sex mates in diaries o. So op flipped through and saw every entry about her sex life from even before they met? And she knowing the details in that book gave him to flip through? Rape story may be true many naija girls are sexually exploited as kids and many are still being abused even today. Judging by the amount of news about babies and young females being rapped daily. And that is just the few we hear about o. So e nor shock me

I agree with you.
Most women who would keep a diary of such details are either on a revenge of some sort. i.e. Maybe distributing sexually transmitted diseases.

I'm sorry for you sha. You got yourself involved with a chronic liar.

Estharfabian:

I think I had An eye infection just Reading that...

Choi!
wear protection next time

Pictures of the poo or

moiaimi:
She has too much drama. Are u even sure she was raped. Move on

damn so you are smelling what iyam smelling too huh