Only God knows what happened in the marriage.

Okwu nkasi obi! No matter what, a failed marriage doesn't worth it!

kilode100:
Amu Ubi, move on already abeg. Haba! This chick obviously detest you.


I hate sissy men.

Sometimes, I tend to want to believe guys on nairaland who think ladies don't know what they want. They keep ranting about how they want a man who loves them more than they love him. They find one, and start complaining about how he is a sissy. Loving someone with all of you, is one of the hardest things to do and when you eventually do, it's difficult to suddenly start unloving them. I've been in that shoe, and I know how it feels. Hopefully, he would eventually get over it. I started getting my head straight, when I heard the words "I don't even think about you"...lol. I think he might get over it when he hears something like that. One thing is sure and that's the fact that in life, we'd never find too many people who would love us endlessly and selflessly. Let the man rant; someday, he'd get over it.

Dude should get a gun and kill himself.

most lilians i know are easy goig, friendly, money loving, social and a bit quiet with a good heart, how do i know this? My immediate younger sister is named Lilian too....she's very forgiving and emotional, i don't know what Ubi did to his lovely wife Lilian but for peace sake i beg the 2 of u 2 come back n shame ur mockers....i love u both n wish u happy come back

Make una hold this guy o
Bros there's much to life

marshalcarter:

ray.....SMH....you won't understand

must view
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GihpQotg5uM

Marriage sha. Sometimes you begin to wonder why people get married if they cannot even live for a year. Lord have mercy!

Situations like this make me fear getting married. What's the point in getting married and breaking up? What's the point really? I only wish them the best but this is definitely heartbreaking

chronique:



Sometimes, I tend to want to believe guys on nairaland who think ladies don't know what they want. They keep ranting about how they want a man who loves them more than they love him. They find one, and start complaining about how he is a sissy. Loving someone with all of you, is one of the hardest things to do and when you eventually do, it's difficult to suddenly start unloving them. I've been in that shoe, and I know how it feels. Hopefully, he would eventually get over it. I started getting my head straight, when I heard the words "I don't even think about you"...lol. I think he might get over it when he hears something like that. One thing is sure and that's the fact that in life, we'd never find too many people who would love us endlessly and selflessly. Let the man rant; someday, he'd get over it.

I never knew people still love senselessly " Reading your post took me back to my junior secondary school days.

A lot of you are still trapped . For this Nigeria and the world at large in general is where a supposedly grown adult is still trusting a "person " with his/her heart matters? I can't understand it.

I have never really loved any man in a man in my life. The first Guy I pretended to love, sells cosmetics and provisions for his boss, I pretended to love him so much that he gave me all his oga's money till the shop was empty... His Oga locked him up before eventually sending him back to the village o... The fool came back to Lagos without a dime and wanted us to continue from where we left off....


I told him where to get off ojare.. No one is capable of loving another human like that . Ubi obviously lacks love, his wife can't give him that. He needs to find love within himself.

This open display of childish and mumu love will alienate his wife from him.

This guy had money but no sense




A girl who publiclythrew you under the bus is the one you're hailing






Ode

This guy should shut up n move on with his life or face his business.....

A letter indeed to a son that cant read

agrovick:
Dude should get a gun and kill himself.

Lol

Ndman:
You cannot be beating your wife at home and apologizing in the public. Say no to domestic violence.

It's Not The beating jor. I personally enjoy to be beaten and banged afterwards. She hates the Guy.

NkayTiana:
Make una hold this guy o Bros there's much to life

abi?? tnx jawe

kilode100:




I never knew people still love senselessly " Reading your post took me back to my junior secondary school days.

A lot of you are still trapped . For this Nigeria and the world at large in general is where a supposedly grown adult is still trusting a "person " with his/her heart matters? I can't understand it.

I have never really loved any man in a man in my life. The first Guy I pretended to love, sells cosmetics and provisions for his boss, I pretended to love him so much that he gave me all his oga's money till the shop was empty... His Oga locked him up before eventually sending him back to the village o... The fool came back to Lagos without a dime and wanted us to continue from where we left off....


I told him where to get off ojare.. No one is capable of loving another human like that . Ubi obviously lacks love, his wife can't give him that. He needs to find love within himself.

This open display of childish and mumu love will alienate his wife from him.

I wish you could hear yourself out. You've never really loved a man? That explains where you're coming from. You can't give what you don't have. Your story about your cosmetic guy, just buttresses what most men think about women,as just being materialistic. You pretended to love him and allowed him do all of that cos your greed wouldn't allow you walk away... Anyways, that's not even N issue. What's an issue is that, you're not qualified to mediate in issues like this cos you definitely don't have what to give them. Only those who have been in love, can understand their plight.

angelTI:
I think the guy truly love his wife. Lilian should forgive him and come back because the way the guy is ranting on social media is something else

Like kilode100 said, he is a sissy. The guy should move on.

chronique:



I wish you could hear yourself out. You've never really loved a man? That explains where you're coming from. You can't give what you don't have. Your story about your cosmetic guy, just buttresses what most men think about women,as just being materialistic. You pretended to love him and allowed him do all of that cos your greed wouldn't allow you walk away... Anyways, that's not even N issue. What's an issue is that, you're not qualified to mediate in issues like this cos you definitely don't have what to give them. Only those who have been in love, can understand their plight.

I am not the person that battered your emotions and bruised your ego Ogbeni Loverboy! You did all that by yourself and now, you must deal with it.


Guys/ Girls, stop reading mills and boons biko. It kills esteem because you can never measure up!!


Most of you have daddy/mummy issues. They probably abandoned you guys when you were still little and as you grew up, you still feel that void and emptiness... No man can fill that except Jesus Christ and if you come to me looking for love, I'm going to take your money and then leave you high and dry...


These are the hard facts of love. No other human can love you more than you love yourself (not even your kids)....


Life is cruel. I have my own issues and I'm walking through them so the last thing I need is a sissy ass man waiting for me to 'Love' him so that he can feel 'alife' Don't get get wrong o... I'm willing to do and more if he has money!!

Culin:
Hmm the lady is done with you just leave her jare. I dislike men who refuse to breakup with you even after you've broken up with them. Some will still be dating you without your consent, calling you 'babe' and uploading your pics on social media.. Move on!

Yh he shud move on even tho he can later come back like Scott disick

Someone should please talk to Nurse.Titi she shouldn't just quit her marriage just like that,its for better for worse for Christ's sake,some Nigerian celebrities needs to be re-orientated about marriage.

What's with all these notes you both been dropping here since ontop one small matter?
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jaxxy:


Yh he shud move on even tho he can later come back like Scott disick

Lol ure not serious.

Nigga move on

Tha bitch dont want you

If u like do a teebillz

She no send


Move on nigga

Ariel20:
Situations like this make me fear getting married. What's the point in getting married and breaking up? What's the point really? I only wish them the best but this is definitely heartbreaking

hmmm..No need to fear jare..There are still shinning lights in the dark paths.Encourage and inspire yourself with the ones that are working fine..leave this break up stories in the trash where they belong to.. our case is different..

kilode100:




I am not the person that battered your emotions and bruised your ego Ogbeni Loverboy! You did all that by yourself and now, you must deal with it.


Guys/ Girls, stop reading mills and boons biko. It kills esteem because you can never measure up!!


Most of you have daddy/mummy issues. They probably abandoned you guys when you were still little and as you grew up, you still feel that void and emptiness... No man can fill that except Jesus Christ and if you come to looking for love, I'm going to take your money and then leave you high and dry...


These are the hard facts of love. No other human can love you more than you love yourself (not even your kids)....


Life is cruel. I have my own issues and I'm walking through them so the last thing I need is a sissy ass man waiting for me to 'Love' him so that he can feel 'alife' Don't get get wrong o... I'm willing to do and more if he has money!!

Now, this is a whole lotta bullshitte and gibberish you just spilled. Me reading mills and boons; for what? Something I didn't even read as a teenager. Self esteem killed? Naah! If you don't know me well, I'd pass as Mr cocky and arrogant to you. My self esteem has only one movement and that's "all the way up". Talking about daddy/mummy issues, I just can't help but laugh and at the same time, ask you to take your brain to a mechanic workshop for diagnosis and repairs...lol. I was shown a lot of love and that's the reason why I know how to love, and what love actually means. On the contrary,people like you who do not know what love means, are actually the ones with daddy/mummy issues, who weren't shown love. It's the only reason why you can't love; you can't give what you don't have. You're willing to do more for a man if "he has money"? Is the money worth your soul? If yes, then your soul must be pretty worthless cos the best things of life are freely given. I have seen some of the best of casanovas fall in love ;coming to the internet to form hard girl, is just a bloody waste of time. But then again, what social class do you belong to? I asked cos the only example you gave us as regards someone loving you, was a sales boy who took his oga's money and gave to you... If that's the category of people whose money you eat, I think it explains your thought process...

HarveySpecter1:


Like kilode100 said, he is a sissy. The guy should move on.

Question you should ask is "how long have they been apart",that everyone is asking him to move on and stop being a sissy? Secondly, I hope you realize they were married and not just dating. No responsible person quits his/her marriage just like that, without doing all within his/her power, to salvage things. Y'all should understand that he was bleeping married before all these. Wanting the wife back, might not just be because he loves her, but might just be to keep the family together so the son doesn't grow without one of both parents.

bigerboy200:

hmmm..No need to fear jare..There are still shinning lights in the dark paths.Encourage and inspire yourself with the ones that are working fine..leave this break up stories in the trash where they belong to.. our case is different..

Our case is truly different. Winner spotted

chronique:


Question you should ask is "how long have they been apart",that everyone is asking him to move on and stop being a sissy? Secondly, I hope you realize they were married and not just dating. No responsible person quits his/her marriage just like that, without doing all within his/her power, to salvage things. Y'all should understand that he was bleeping married before all these. Wanting the wife back, might not just be because he loves her, but might just be to keep the family together so the son doesn't grow without one of both parents.

Bro, I understand your point of view. What you wrote is the ideal thing but what happens if she doesn't want to go back to her home? The babe seems to be enjoying the attention of being a nollywood star. There is a solution to every problem in life and in this case,it isn't crying and begging her on social media. He should move on. She would come around after tasting the things wey dey hungry her. They always do.

HarveySpecter1:


Bro, I understand your point of view. What you wrote is the ideal thing but what happens if she doesn't want to go back to her home? The babe seems to be enjoying the attention of being a nollywood star. There is a solution to every problem in life and in this case,it isn't crying and begging her on social media. He should move on. She would come around after tasting the things wey dey hungry her. They always do.

Sure, he would move on, but not so soon. I understand how things like this work. It would take a little time.