firstking01:
Move on sis, move on...shits like this are inevitable in life.

Estharfabian:


Can't You See that he's NOT interested? Like he doesn't want you! Biko, He's showing no affection towards you. he doesn't call you, You're always the one to initiate a chat, He only calls you when he needs an escort. bottom line's bobo is Not interested.


Please, do yourself a favour and delete his number. and all memories of him from your head. Biko! don't call him again! The next thing he'll do is have steaming sex with You and You'd start wailing. leave when it ain't too late.

Eneofall:

Thanks

TrapQueen77:




Is he ur first love?

That's normal girl.. Most of us experienced this but thank goodness I get over it..

Don't force urself to heal but let the time heal u instead.. Help urself to move on.. Never give up and never lose hope. Remember.. What doesn't kill u, will make u stronger..

lytech1:
At first,delete his number(it will be better if you dont know it offhand).
Give your self a task,divert your attention on how to accompnish the task...
Before you know it,You are back to your normal self

sexymoma:
one thing about me
if a guy is hurting me
i'll find one weekend, just a day, think about him, sit and think, sleep nd think, eat and think, bath and think, sh1t nd think about the same guy.
then have a deep sleep... omo if i go wake the guy nor go exist for my memory ooo.. it'll look as if i formatted my brain ni

i'll ignore him to the core
ignore the fool my dear, ok jos sit and imagine if you've mistakenly gotten married to him and he behaves this way, what would you have done..divorce him?
my dear guys doesn't worth all these stress.. they don't worth it at all...

firstking01:
Ifa hear...

sexymoma:
one thing about me
if a guy is hurting me
i'll find one weekend, just a day, think about him, sit and think, sleep nd think, eat and think, bath and think, sh1t nd think about the same guy.
then have a deep sleep... omo if i go wake the guy nor go exist for my memory ooo.. it'll look as if i formatted my brain ni

i'll ignore him to the core
ignore the fool my dear, ok jos sit and imagine if you've mistakenly gotten married to him and he behaves this way, what would you have done..divorce him?
my dear guys doesn't worth all these stress.. they don't worth it at all...

sexymoma:
nor be only ifa, u nor sabi amadioha

Ewilonco:
it's obvious he is hiding something from u... before u guys met face to face, has he seen ur full pictures.. u know most of u girls really miss endowed on social media, whereas in reality, you really just the opposite (no offence intended)



open, just be patient, he might realize what he is missing.. but if he doesn't, please move on.. there are better guys out there....goodluck dear

ikp120:
***Dancing alingo***

Bad baddo baddest!


That's a guy that knows this game very well... I guess that guy has learnt
some stuff from experience.


Oya

ActOfWar:
obviously u are still a kid.

Eneofall:

What kind of experience do you think he has learnt? I want to know

Nomfanelo99:
cry as much as u can . curse if u hv to .get mad at him . ask yourself this ...Is this way I want a guy I love to treat me ? you deserve so much better . focus on healing . the right guy will come along when u atleast expert it . U a Queen n deserve to be treated like one

ikp120:

You mean you don't know what the average girl does to guys who give them attention?


Girls must have dealt so badly with him because he tried to be the "nice guy" who is always there like a jobless guy; always chatting her up, calling her, et al, while she sits there enjoying all the attention... So he doesn't wanna repeat that same mistake with you.

The more girls deal with guys that way, the more they are gonna harden and become harder to deal with. Your guy has been hardened. He doesn't care if you jump into River Niger or River Bauchi or River Kano .

In summary, he has learnt not to give any girl who really loves him too much attention; just be dropping the attention every once in a while.

skylane:
Take a trip,take urself out,go to the cinemas.treat yourself well, the answer will naturally come on its own

Eneofall:

Thanks dear

Eneofall:

Yes dear, he saw my full pix, I'm not the take that over make up before taking pic or edit pic before posting. Besides love shouldn't be based on beauty or physical appearance.

Ewilonco:
don't get yourself worked up over it... next time look very well before u leap...