Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by OLAFIMIX(f): 9:17pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
That hand na punishment, if it isn't the KOKO it can't be like the koko. sunvick: Does she really need to inform him about intimacy gadgets? Notifying him of getting a toy will kill his ego and the (I'm not man enough line will always suffice). I think she should go ahead and get a Love Machine to help herself pending when they agree to see a therapist which will also remove her mind from cheating. You stayed a virgin before marriage and even in the marriage you are still sex starved. Op, you can as well use your hand to help yourself. Life is to short to suffer in a sexless marriage.
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Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by thelish(f): 9:49pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
pcguru1:
You're forgetting data is cheap so everyone has access to internet by everyone I mean even teenagers hahahaha |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by sisisioge: 10:08pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
Omg! I sincerely sympathize with you! About premature errecction, isn't it a condition where the guy comes quickly because it's so comfortable down in the female Virgo? I think the guy loves being in there too much ni. Maybe you should spike his drink with a blended Viagra on one of these days. Don't kill him o,do it only a handful of time Good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by sisisioge: 10:14pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
pocohantas: Sadly, this is what some Nigerian women go through. When they complain, people accuse them of being fat or tell them to focus on their kids. I can count the Nigerian men that are actually that good-looking physically, yet they still demand the sex as their right it is na. No one has asked them to go and work-out.
*You can keep convincing him to see a therapist. *Get a sex machine, only you can work that vagina like you want. You'll be amazed at how he'll become invisible after you achieve just one orgasm from a sculptured dil.do. Yea baby...I thought I'm the only one who thinks physically fit guys are like seeex machines. Do you know Idris Elba? That guy juuuuuust tooooooooo haut! Biko stop the seex machine advice... That's like still cheating on her husband. |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
No wonder he went to look for virgin to marry.
The guy no dey try abeg, he should go to the hospital and stop frustrating his wife, refusing to go is plain selfishness and wickedness it has nothing to do with ego issues.
If it was a man in op's shoes he for don marry second wife by now. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by yedidiah(m): 10:36pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
No matter what, cheating is not an option. It has never solved the problem of marriage, and will never give you satisfaction. Instead, you will be filled with guilt, regrets and insatisfaction.
Talk to your husband again and make him see how starved you are. But don't argue or make statements that will threaten his ego. He may misunderstand you there.
If you have an older couple that guide you (which I believe you should. It is important all young couple attach themselves to an older couple one of experience and wisdom) take the matter to them to guide you.
Your spiritual head too: but you don't paint your husband bad before anybody for any reason. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by montezz(f): 10:41pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
buygala: There are two possibilities here:
He just developed the sex issues recently and is yet to come to terms with that fact..
Or
He has always had those sex inadequacies. ..but he arranged himself with some sex enhancers in the early stages of the marriage, because he wanted to take your virginity like a boss, and enjoy the tight ermmmm...ermmm while the tightness lasted
And there is the possibility that having used all those burantashi on you, and kids having been produced and your vagina having expanded significantly, he no longer sees any reason to continue risking his overall health just to satisfy you ... in any case, he may think since he married you a virgin, you wouldn't know any better and will see his 2-minute sex stunts or no stunt except kids are needed as normal for married peeps
My advice:
Please cheat on him so that your sanity can be maintained .... being starved of sex is worse than being starved of food...it messes up the mind in a million ways... ..... and no, hoping and praying won't help you ... You have to take the bull by the horn and help yourself ...at your age, your sex hormones are still pretty strong. ..it would be courting disaster to unreasonably resist them.
Ignore him, get some good sex outside since he doesn't even want to acknowledge there is a problem with his abuna, much less take steps towards solving the problem and fulfilling his conjugal duty towards you
And no..getting some good sex outside won't make you a worse mum...as for being a worse wife to your hubby, he deserves it anyway....but if You can help it, still be a good wife ...but please find a way to cheat incognito. ..many are doing it and still have functional families who have no idea of what is going on kileleyi bayii? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by sunvick(m): 7:31am On Jan 06, 2017 |
Buh its better than nothing nah. Just imagine nah, 5 years of marriage not more than 10times of sex. Its really worrying for a young lady of 25. OLAFIMIX: That hand na punishment, if it isn't the KOKO it can't be like the koko. |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by newdawn2017(f): 11:16am On Jan 06, 2017 |
buygala: There are two possibilities here:
He just developed the sex issues recently and is yet to come to terms with that fact..
Or
He has always had those sex inadequacies. ..but he arranged himself with some sex enhancers in the early stages of the marriage, because he wanted to take your virginity like a boss, and enjoy the tight ermmmm...ermmm while the tightness lasted
And there is the possibility that having used all those burantashi on you, and kids having been produced and your vagina having expanded significantly, he no longer sees any reason to continue risking his overall health just to satisfy you ... in any case, he may think since he married you a virgin, you wouldn't know any better and will see his 2-minute sex stunts or no stunt except kids are needed as normal for married peeps
My advice:
Please cheat on him so that your sanity can be maintained .... being starved of sex is worse than being starved of food...it messes up the mind in a million ways... ..... and no, hoping and praying won't help you ... You have to take the bull by the horn and help yourself ...at your age, your sex hormones are still pretty strong. ..it would be courting disaster to unreasonably resist them.
Ignore him, get some good sex outside since he doesn't even want to acknowledge there is a problem with his abuna, much less take steps towards solving the problem and fulfilling his conjugal duty towards you
And no..getting some good sex outside won't make you a worse mum...as for being a worse wife to your hubby, he deserves it anyway....but if You can help it, still be a good wife ...but please find a way to cheat incognito. ..many are doing it and still have functional families who have no idea of what is going on ve said it all my dear. I ve stayed without sex 4 2yrs & 6mnths; so I well knw what it means as one would't be able 2 think straight anymore. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by thorpido(m): 12:03pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
newdawn2017: ve said it all my dear. I ve stayed without sex 4 2yrs & 6mnths; so I well knw what it means as one would't be able 2 think straight anymore. What happened to your partner? |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by thorpido(m): 12:09pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
Your husband clearly has a medical and(or) psychological issues.
Op,you shouldn't cheat on him.You need to find a way to get him to see a doctor.If you have a family doctor,talk to him,he will find a way to invite your husband.
Some men and nonsense ego. |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by thorpido(m): 12:12pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
yedidiah: No matter what, cheating is not an option. It has never solved the problem of marriage, and will never give you satisfaction. Instead, you will be filled with guilt, regrets and insatisfaction.
Talk to your husband again and make him see how starved you are. But don't argue or make statements that will threaten his ego. He may misunderstand you there.
If you have an older couple that guide you (which I believe you should. It is important all young couple attach themselves to an older couple one of experience and wisdom) take the matter to them to guide you.
Your spiritual head too: but you don't paint your husband bad before anybody for any reason. The bolded is important but a lot of young people nowadays just meet,start to fvck.......it's so sweet,let's get married.They don't have a structure. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by pocohantas(f): 12:57pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
sisisioge:
Yea baby...I thought I'm the only one who thinks physically fit guys are like seeex machines. Do you know Idris Elba? That guy juuuuuust tooooooooo haut!
Biko stop the seex machine advice... That's like still cheating on her husband. Idris Elba is a hunk! How many of such do we have in Nigeria? Yet we don't see women using looks as an excuse to cheat, maybe other excuses but not looks. She should get a very big dil.do. Something that would fill up all the spaces her husband couldn't. It's better than nothing. Can't you see he's hurting his wife with his useless ego? Can a woman do this and get away with it? Ordinary 9mths pregnancy, we see them opening thread, asking how they'll cope. Then their kinds arrive with the side-chick advice. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by yedidiah(m): 1:50pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
thorpido: The bolded is important but a lot of young people nowadays just meet,start to fvck.......it's so sweet,let's get married.They don't have a structure. spot on! without structure, no matter how love or sex shacks the head, it will soon lose its spark and excitement. No wonder why our parents that only know missionary Position, stayed in their marriages. |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by olureignforever: 3:18pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
Acidosis:
I don't understand..
What it used to be? 10 times in 5 years is what it used to be? I for say too. Those statements are contradictory. |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by ovographix: 10:31pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
lol |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by tomdon(m): 10:31pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
Eeya |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by bettercreature(m): 10:32pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
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Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by Nobody: 10:37pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
sexymoma: try watching some kamasutra with him my sister jos download some in your phone, since you guys do stay together most times relax on his chest then jos play it... if he says "what is this" tell him you are learning some skills he s your hubby not a stranger... act anyhow. tell him some sexy words even before night comes like.. babe my nipples itches , my boobs looks fairer than my face u go hear "let me see"
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Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by oochi123(f): 10:38pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
So sad. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by emymeeky: 10:40pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
sexymoma: try watching some kamasutra with him my sister jos download some in your phone, since you guys do stay together most times relax on his chest then jos play it... if he says "what is this" tell him you are learning some skills he s your hubby not a stranger... act anyhow. tell him some sexy words even before night comes like.. babe my nipples itches , my boobs looks fairer than my face u go hear "let me see"
Chai. . God please give me a romantic wife . See seduction. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by Greedgod: 10:41pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
estyvino: Not good
He need to see a doctor as regards to weak erection, but for the quick ejaculation!!!
Alomo bitter popularly known as aloski will see to that
Remember to thank me later! the same general bitter or any bitters wil do ? |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by eolafao: 10:42pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
Buy him Jedi With Opa Eyin, or Alomo bitters....
Herbal Mixture from a Yoruba certified Iya Agbo... That is where u will see what I said above.. .. .
You will thank me later...
Testimony
I told one of my friend.... Now is a partial drunkard of Jedi |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by Lagusta(m): 10:42pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
estyvino: Not good
He need to see a doctor as regards to weak erection, but for the quick ejaculation!!!
Alomo bitter popularly known as aloski will see to that
Remember to thank me later! What of orijin bitters?? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by lifu2016(m): 10:42pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
buygala: There are two possibilities here:
He just developed the sex issues recently and is yet to come to terms with that fact..
Or
He has always had those sex inadequacies. ..but he arranged himself with some sex enhancers in the early stages of the marriage, because he wanted to take your virginity like a boss, and enjoy the tight ermmmm...ermmm while the tightness lasted
And there is the possibility that having used all those burantashi on you, and kids having been produced and your vagina having expanded significantly, he no longer sees any reason to continue risking his overall health just to satisfy you ... in any case, he may think since he married you a virgin, you wouldn't know any better and will see his 2-minute sex stunts or no stunt except kids are needed as normal for married peeps
My advice:
Please cheat on him so that your sanity can be maintained .... being starved of sex is worse than being starved of food...it messes up the mind in a million ways... ..... and no, hoping and praying won't help you ... You have to take the bull by the horn and help yourself ...at your age, your sex hormones are still pretty strong. ..it would be courting disaster to unreasonably resist them.
Ignore him, get some good sex outside since he doesn't even want to acknowledge there is a problem with his abuna, much less take steps towards solving the problem and fulfilling his conjugal duty towards you
And no..getting some good sex outside won't make you a worse mum...as for being a worse wife to your hubby, he deserves it anyway....but if You can help it, still be a good wife ...but please find a way to cheat incognito. ..many are doing it and still have functional families who have no idea of what is going on 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by fathomberry: 10:43pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
buygala: There are two possibilities here:
He just developed the sex issues recently and is yet to come to terms with that fact..
Or
He has always had those sex inadequacies. ..but he arranged himself with some sex enhancers in the early stages of the marriage, because he wanted to take your virginity like a boss, and enjoy the tight ermmmm...ermmm while the tightness lasted
And there is the possibility that having used all those burantashi on you, and kids having been produced and your vagina having expanded significantly, he no longer sees any reason to continue risking his overall health just to satisfy you ... in any case, he may think since he married you a virgin, you wouldn't know any better and will see his 2-minute sex stunts or no stunt except kids are needed as normal for married peeps
My advice:
Please cheat on him so that your sanity can be maintained .... being starved of sex is worse than being starved of food...it messes up the mind in a million ways... ..... and no, hoping and praying won't help you ... You have to take the bull by the horn and help yourself ...at your age, your sex hormones are still pretty strong. ..it would be courting disaster to unreasonably resist them.
Ignore him, get some good sex outside since he doesn't even want to acknowledge there is a problem with his abuna, much less take steps towards solving the problem and fulfilling his conjugal duty towards you
And no..getting some good sex outside won't make you a worse mum...as for being a worse wife to your hubby, he deserves it anyway....but if You can help it, still be a good wife ...but please find a way to cheat incognito. ..many are doing it and still have functional families who have no idea of what is going on What specie of fool are you. I can bet you're not even married. I blame married folks that come here to ask advice from single mofos like you. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by dingbang(m): 10:44pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
SalomonKane: There are remedies he can use. Why don't tell stylishly to see a herbalist?
I for one know the wonders of Agbo. agbo jedijedi? |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by emymeeky: 10:44pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
thelish:
So without perfume, pricckk nor fit stand? every problem in marriage is really from d woman. I forgot. Hahaha hahaha ... But he could be right . Smell can be a turnoff |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by Praktikals(m): 10:45pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
daewoorazer:
But ma'am, logically, are u saying women don't like sex Or that men love sex than women? Someone said even God cant satisfy women. |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by HarveySpecter1: 10:45pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
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Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by masseratti: 10:46pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
Rosella1: Ahhhhhan you crazy in a good way, i like that, Op your hubby has to see a doctor, if he does not want to, do your research on enhancing drugs, two kids is okay, buy him viagra put it in his food and wait for it. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by BarrElChapo(m): 10:46pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
Go and cheat na.. is anyone holding you. Haa gracetie: I am 25 years old and my husband is 32. We have two kids together. our sex life was perfect until after our first baby. My husband doesnt touch me anymore. I always have to initiate sex each time im in dare need of it. He has the problem of weak erection and premature ejaculation too.on one occasion I mentioned to him that we really need to see a doctor he said "are you now saying im not a man again"
I said "'no babe you are a man but in the last 6months we've had sex only once and you didnt last up to a minute, there s no need to blame anyone lets just see a doctor. He cut out the idea and we have been staying like that. I give him good and healthy meals. I dress sexy in the house. I doubt if he s cheating cos i have access to his phone and we are always together. he doesnt keep late nights and doesnts answer starnge calls. I think its a health issue but his ego wont allow him sort out issues.
I have reminded him many times that i am only 25 and he married me a virgin. How can i proudly say that in 5 years of married we have had sex not more than 10 times and lucky two of the times resulted in pregnancies. Please advice on what I should do. I am soo tempted to cheat and satisfy myself. But I love my husband. I wish our sex life can go back to what it used to be. 1 Like |