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Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by TheArchangel(f): 1:59pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
Henrypraise:Oh, Really. Fearmongering? Huh. And what will he be doing.? Wanking |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by Chicybez: 2:39pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
Try to have a heart to heart talk with Him in a respectable manner, make your room environment romantic enough and above all, Pray for him. It shall be well |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by Drdreyy: 2:49pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
TheArchangel: Actually you are the one that is ignorant and needs to research well. @the boldened, for the case of prostitution, i have encountered a lot of guys who used it as an argument but what you all fail to understand is that majority, of these ladies are into prostitution because of abject poverty, and NOT BECAUSE OF SEXUAL URGES. I have read comments from guys here who narrate their experience with those so called prostitutes, they say most of them just lie down like a log of wood, showing no interest and hurry the guy to be fast about it and leave so that they can attend to another customer. This bluntly shows lack of interest in the act, but just in the money. Leave the case of lesbianism out of this issue, we are talking about heterosexuals. Homosexualism is an abnormality and cannot be used for a valid argument in this case. As for the case of di*d*o, it cannot be used as a valid argument as well. I urge you to read about FGM practice & it's effects on Sexuality. (Female Genital Mutilation) which is very common in Nigeria/Africa. It seems you are ignorant of the practice and it's effects that's why you are arguing with me. If you had foreknowledge on FGM you will not come here and counter my post with irrelevant argument. Because the issue of FGM has Rubbished all your assertions. |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by amanikondo: 4:30pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
sexymoma: Like 200 was from me. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by TheArchangel(f): 5:55pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
Drdreyy:You still don't make sense. FGM is more common in women born before the late 70's. Younger women of nowadays that constitute the bulk of women of childbearing age with FGM are in minute numbers. I know this because I am in the system and have seen enough vaginas to make my assertions. Our mothers may not be into sex because of the mutilations but the younger ladies born from the 80's downward are more sexually active even more than the men. Take it or leave it. Female genital mutilation has degrees. The rarest form of it which is the 3rd & 4th degrees may affect sexuality by causing dysparenuia and insensitivity during sex but the commonest ones 1st and 2nd degree has no effect on sexuality. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by Drdreyy: 6:23pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
TheArchangel: You are not serious! you think i just lay claims without concrete backups? I must say here that you are not current. Recent studies puts the prevalence rate @70%. I have a study conducted in 2010 by the federal ministry of health in conjunction with the ministry of women affairs in the 36 States of the federation and the prevalence rate is alarming. I was in Osun State last year and i witnessed several organised campaigns by the Federal Government against FGM. Osun is among the states with the highest prevalence rate of about 70%. They still do it in Osun and many other states. So what are you talking about? Do you want me to post screenshots? You can even go online and update your self and stop displaying your ignorance here. And who told you type III and IV are rare? Infact they are the most common in Africa. Types I and II also affects a woman's sexual life. |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by apatheticme(f): 6:28pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
buygala: Best nairaland comment of the year. U just made ma day. Nigerians are so hypocritical and unfair towards women. U rock! Ciao! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by TheArchangel(f): 6:29pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
Drdreyy:How many mutilated aginas have you seen so that you can juxtapose it with your" studies".? Nigerian half baked studies huh? I wrote that the numbers are now minute to compare with the prevalence in women born in the late 70's and early 80's. Bring the studies on. |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by apatheticme(f): 6:35pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by daewoorazer(m): 6:49pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
apatheticme: Wow wow wow, I'd take it to be that you are hurt or perhaps a feminist, nevertheless, I'm not an advocate of whatever you wrote up there. Intelligence should let you in on d fact that the corresponding situation on the part of d guy should be the man indulging in masturbation (and not d bolded) which of course I'm still gonna discourage.... That also encourages independence. Now I don't know if you are a feminist but whatever you believe in clouded your understanding of my claims |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by Drdreyy: 6:58pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
TheArchangel: Now, this should shut you up. Pay close attention to all the details in the screenshots
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Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by Drdreyy: 7:00pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
TheArchangel: More
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Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by TheArchangel(f): 7:12pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
Drdreyy:What is the premise of your argument here? Mine states clearly that the prevalence of FGM is now minute in women born from the 80' downwards. That it is women born during the high prevalence of FGM which is late 70's upwards that have issues with sex. That greater percentages of women born after the 80's enjoys sex more because of reduction in FGM prevalence. I HAVE SEEN THOSE STUDIES, MANY OF THEM ACTUALLY, BUT THEY ARE NOT IN COGNISANCE TO WHAT IS ON GROUND. THEY ARE HIGHLY EXAGGERATED. I never mentioned anywhere that FGM is no longer being practice but your overwhelming arguments is pointing that Nigerian women do not like sex because they are genitally mutilated. Which is baseless as it lacks premises, it is illogical and not factual. |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by Agozie48: 7:14pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
Rosella1: And I Hope your First to Comment has also added success to your future |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by Drdreyy: 8:51pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
TheArchangel: You are not serious, if you even want to talk about a slight reduction, then it should be now or some few years ago. Not as far back as in the 80s I have shown you a study that was carried out in 2010 and you are still talking about the 80's. That's extremely ridiculous from you. Can't you see how high those prevalent rates are? Incase you don't understand, let me explain:-Those born recently, those born in the 80's and before 80s constitute the 70% of the total number of women that are mutilated in Nigeria. In short, regardless of when you were born. The fact remains that 70% of women in Nigeria have been mutilated. (but for the exception of new borns) And did you say exaggerated? What else do you want to believe? You can believe whatever you like, it doesn't change the fact. TheArchangel: Yes, FGM is the main cause. You saying it's illogical and not factual has fully exposed your ignorance on the subject of FGM. you don't know anything about FGM. Pls educate yourself on FGM and it's effects and stop displaying your ignorance here. When you do, then we can talk further. |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by TheArchangel(f): 9:13pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
Drdreyy:Stop throwing figures around for good news sake. How did you arrive to your 70% of women being genitally mutilated? Come on!! And please if you want to argue intelligently, please enough of your subtle insults. I have delivered babies and have assisted in delivering of babies for more than 15 years in both the eastern, western and presently in the northern part of this country, and I can categorically state that.... I have seen only five cases of vaginas with FGM and in that five, three are above forty while two are below thirty five years of age. 1:180 women is circumcised in my years of experience, so what happened to the others who are not circumcised. Are you telling me that they hate sex too, just fr the sake of nothing? Your premises are still illogical and faulty. FGM IS THE MAIN CAUSE WHY WOMEN HATE SEX I GIVE UP ON YOU. FROM ONE BASELESS ARGUMENT TO ANOTHER. SEEM YOU JUST NOTICED THIS WORD FGM NOW. I STILL MAINTAIN THAT WOMEN BORN AFTER THE '80's enjoys sex more BECAUSE IN THEIR GENERATION, THE RATE OF FGM HAS REDUCE SIGNIFICANTLY UNLIKE IN THE '70's when it is seen as a cultural and religious norm. |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by Drdreyy: 9:58pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
TheArchangel: Oops, how i arrived at 70%? it's a shame you are asking this question & it exposes your daftnes in mathematics, if you can't compute the average of those percentages, then I can't help you. But Google is always there to help you. You may Check out other studies, with a fairly large sample size (N) and you will see its roughly 70%. The higher the value of N, the more accurate it is. You want to conclude based on your own sample size? That's laughable. Your sample size is too small to draw any conclusion. Forget your 15yrs or so experience, we are talking about statistics from the Federal ministry of health where over 148K women were studied. Now you are talking about a minute number of women you have personally encountered and you want everyone to take you serious? With all your years of experience I doubt if the total number of women you have encountered are upto 5K. and that is completely insignificant when compared with the sample size the Federal Government worked with. I still insist FGM is a major reason why women hate sex in Nigeria/Africa. The main reason for the practice is to suppress a woman's sexual urge so that she won't be promiscuous thus keep her virginity for her husband. I don't want to delve deeply into the topic because I don't have the time. But It has been medically established that FGM makes sex a painful experience for women, lack interest, less enjoyable, inability to achieve orgasssmm, etc because most of the sensitive organs are tampered with, especially the clitt. Have you ever wondered why white women like sexx and are willing to have sexx more than black/African women? The answer is simply because whites don't practice FGM. they are more enlightened/educated on the health hazards of FGM. |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by Drdreyy: 7:02am On Jan 08, 2017 |
TheArchangel: Here is another study, if you are still skeptical about the percentage. now, five States have been selected here, and it shouldn't bore you much to compute the Ave for the 5 States here since you couldn't handle that of 36 States. See the screenshot below
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Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by apatheticme(f): 9:11am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by daewoorazer(m): 10:17am On Jan 08, 2017 |
apatheticme: Copied! Grandma |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by daewoorazer(m): 10:35am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by apatheticme(f): 10:49am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by daewoorazer(m): 11:00am On Jan 08, 2017 |
apatheticme: Hello narcissist, you have the necessary equipment to blow urself up. Frustration, anger, and hurt.... Write your memoir before u self-destruct so that others who are existing d way u are will learn #zanga |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by apatheticme(f): 11:10am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by daewoorazer(m): 11:16am On Jan 08, 2017 |
apatheticme: Two spontaneous ways of self destruction 1. Running mad 2. Suicide At this point, your kinS should be contacted asap |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by apatheticme(f): 11:21am On Jan 08, 2017 |
daewoorazer: |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by daewoorazer(m): 11:25am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Repeating the above quotE the second time is sure of a choice, your body chose option 1 Yabaleft emergency! *Runs* |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by TheArchangel(f): 2:52pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
Drdreyy:You don't get the premise of my argument and I as sure as hell don't get yours. Sincerely, with your post riddled with insults and condescending innuendos, I didn't bother to read your long epistle, which from my mere perusal has nothing to do what my subject of discourse. |
Re: My Husband Only Sleeps With Me When We Need To Have A Baby by Drdreyy: 3:52pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
TheArchangel: I knew you would eventually flare-up. Now you are trying to run away by falsely claiming that i didn't get the premise of your argument & you didn't get mine, what a shame. Look here woman, I can sense you are no longer a young lady judging by your unverifiable claim of 15 yrs working experience. Go and update your self, and stop displaying your gross ignorance here. |
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