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| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by daPretender: 10:56pm On Jan 14, 2017 |
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| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 11:00pm On Jan 14, 2017 |
YES YES me and my girl argued last week..... then we did 3seconds fisting and player |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by delishpot: 11:07pm On Jan 14, 2017 |
When Nigerian pastors lie and devieve their followers that their wives never for once dissagree with them? |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Godsate: 11:07pm On Jan 14, 2017 |
bamisepeters: Lord Jesus, you are the one that make my mariage of thirteen years free of disagreement. Please, countinue to reign in my home. I still can't believe why some people believe that it's impossible to have marriege without disagreement. Though, my mariage is arranged by God Himself. 2 Likes |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by delishpot: 11:09pm On Jan 14, 2017 |
Godsate: Disagreement does not mean war. Don't tell me your partner agrees 100% with every thing you say, every idea you bring and every step you want the family to take? No single disagreement on any issue that you guys later resolved? Did you marry one of the chibok girls? Cos only a sex slave would live with you without any disagreement. When no be corpse you marry. Abeg look well before you call Gods name in a lie. 6 Likes |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 11:12pm On Jan 14, 2017 |
I need serious relationship this 2017, toasting women can be a serious distraction. |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jan 14, 2017 |
Atiku2019:hausa can't be the next president,, It's be America drop a nuclear bomb here and clear the whole of Nigeria than for an hausa goat to be a president  |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by iampeTer(m): 11:34pm On Jan 14, 2017 |
This is so true ..you're blessed |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by tobloj(m): 11:35pm On Jan 14, 2017 |
First major disagreement after years of being together and she left.... |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by 2tek: 11:45pm On Jan 14, 2017 |
yes, i agree. disagreement is good but amicable resolution of conflicts/disagreement is very vital to the survival of the relationship. 2tek replies an MMM ANTAGONIST----maclantunji The following are my questions to the subscribers to MMM popularly called Mavrodians. here are the answers from my understanding. 1. Where do you think the money you are collecting through MMM is coming from? MMM claims not to be a business and not an investment, so where do you think the 30% return which excites you so much is coming from? ANSWER:the 30% comes from traffic generated from the website,money donated by new members, money re-donated by old members and help from other countries. it is ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE for ALL these 4 conditions not to occur. MARK ZUCKERBERG, the owner of Facebook is the 5th or 6th richest in the world and one of the ways he gets his money is through traffic generated by Facebook. MMM is currently in over 120 countries of the world with over 200 million of participants. 2. Do you know what a Ponzi scheme is? I have to ask this question because of those who defend MMM with the claim that they have made money from it. To be the clear, a minority will make money from Ponzi schemes being the early adopters that help to create the exponential growth. However, the latter subscribers are the ones that lose greatly. If you understand this, you will not present this argument as evidence for MMM not being a fraud. ANSWER:BIG LIE.The early adopters will pay the newcomers. the next set of newcomers will pay the early adopters and it continues like that. its a circle that will never end. Money is redistributed among member of MMM on the principle of gratuitousness, benevolence and reciprocity. MMM members donate FREELY to each other. Nobody was forced to join MMM. 3. Where did you get the money you invested in MMM from? You could not use that money in any legitimate business? I ask this question because many MMM subscribers behave as if they were incapable of earning money before MMM came. ANSWER:A good number of MMM subscribers are gainfully employed and have normal businesses. Remember, There is nothing wrong in having an alternative source of income. Remember, we have DANGOTE CEMENT, DANGOTE SUGAR, DANGOTE RICE FARM and now in the pipeline - DANGOTE REFINERY. 4. Is it that you don’t understand that governments across the world are duty-bound not to allow a Ponzi scheme started by an ex-convict that has scammed people across the world operate freely within their countries? This one is self-explanatory, Sergey Mavrodi the main brain behind MMM is an ex-convict. He got convicted for scamming Russians with a precursor scheme to MMM. [b]ANSWER: Point of correction-MMM has never defrauded anyone. MMM became so popular in RUSSIA and was controlling one third of the total money in russia at a time, so the government became jealous and decided to loot the peoples money using 17 trucks to carry/loot cash from MMM OFFICES. That is the main reason MMM doesn't have a CENTRAL ACCOUNT where money can easily be stolen.The government of Russia defrauded the participants,not MMM. They claimed SERGEI MAVRODI/MMM evaded tax but MMM/SERGEI MAVRODI stood his ground telling/educating the government oppressors that MMM is not a business that should pay tax. MMM is just a community of people donating/helping each other with their spare cash. DO you pax tax to the government on the spare money you donate to your brother or neighbour or give out as charity? MMM has come to destroy the current unfair and unjust financial world order/institutions, so don't expect the government,CBN,SEC, etc to be happy. MMM has come to liberate people from financial bondage and servitude. The financial APOCALYPSE is inevitable. MMM servers(cloud servers) are not located in NIGERIA, so the government CAN NOT STOP MMM. the same way the government can not stop facebook,youtube,twitter etc[/b] 5. Explain how MMM is a revolutionary idea that commercial banking should be afraid of? MMM subcribers are quick to tag banks as stealing from their customers while MMM is the solution for the masses. Curiously enough, they pay into each other’s bank accounts; curious to say the least. ANSWER:MMM gives 30% every 30days which the banks CAN NOT give. MMM gives 10% referral bonus. NO serious MMM participant will take loan from any bank again. No serious MMM participant will maintain any fixed deposit in the bank again. No serious MMM participant will buy any dubious, non performing shares again. 6. Do you understand that wealth is created based on the value you create not through this system operated by a few people to rob people of their money while leaving them in the lurch? Let us say all of us joined MMM, where would productive output come from? ANSWER: MMM does not stop anyone who is serious from being productive. MMM will in fact assist to provide the financial boost needed for people to be more productive. MANY MMM participants are gainfully employed and engage in various productive businesses and entrepreneurial ventures. 7. Did you anticipate that your ‘investment’ (sorry, your ‘Mavros’) could be frozen without you having any say on what happens next? I am sure many ‘Mavrodians’ did not expect this December debacle, but we are here. ANSWER: PAUSE MODE/FREEZING OF ACCOUNTS is one of the strategies employed by MMM for STABILITY AND SUSTAINABILITY. its not a new strategy, only those who didn't read/research well about MMM will claim ignorance. THe number of participants GHing*(getting help or withdrawing money) from the system should balance with the number of participants PHing*(providing help or depositing money) otherwise a PAUSE MODE is activated which normally lasts from 1-2months. MMM has lasted for 5years in its current form since 2011, and that is one of the strategies adopted over the years. it was adopted in south africa and zimbabwe and the MMM in both countries is doing fine now. Even banks couldn't pay many customers this PAST festive season. ATMs were dried, with no cash in them for people during yuletide season. Is that not a form of PAUSE MODE? 8. Do you agree that as a promoter of the scheme, you are quite dubious because you are seeking to reap bountifully at the expense of others when the scheme crashes? Note I wrote ‘when’ not ‘if’ ANSWER: OGA, MMM CAN NOT and i repeat CAN NOT crash. The worst that can happen is a pause mode. A pause mode is not a crash. my people perish for lack of knowledge. It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of the needle than for MMM to crash. MMM is an ideology. MMM is like religion, religion CAN NOT CRASH. The day an individual dies, his own MMM or religion has CRASHED. Everybody in the world CAN NOT die at the same time.In a pause mode, MMM will manually calculate how much each individual has earned from the system, those who have made 'profit' already will have their old mavros/money frozen and released gradually, but the poor,newcomers or 1st timers will be queued up to be paid first by the system followed by others. thereby ensuring that NOBODY looses money. and the system PH/GH RATIO will balance in time. 9. Do you not worry that you could have a hand in the death or grievous harm happening to people who could lose money from MMM and become suicidal? We already have reports of some people taking poison because their money got frozen this December. ANSWER: MMM is sincere and transparent, hence the WARNING to ALL participants to participate with their spare money. This is CLEARLY WRITTEN on the programs website home page. MMM participants are adults responsible for their actions. 10. Do you understand that you are effectively using time that you could use for productive activity to promote a questionable scheme at best? If you understand that time lost is irrecoverable, why waste it? ANSWER: MMM is not a questionable scheme. MMM is an ideology that is changing lives of millions of people around the world. MMM is bridging the gap between the rich and the poor. If any adult decides to dedicate few hours or days to donate his/her spare money to charity or a neighbour in need, or teach people how to do same, do u consider that wasteful? MMM is helping humanity, that is CERTAINLY NOT WASTEFUL. Your answers and feedback are quite welcome. Source: http://www.opinions.ng/top-10-questions-mmm-subscribers-mavrodians-answer/ |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by segzyogondus(m): 11:49pm On Jan 14, 2017 |
Everyone got their own understanding about various things... You are right about Disagreements and being mature enough to get it settled immediately but when there is no Disagreement do you have to make one available by all means? No so it depends on the two of you before Disagreement comes up so you don't expect people to just try disagree about things cos they feel if it occurs then it would make the relationship stronger mind you not everyone can handle disagreements better still they rather just apologize and let it go else there comes the over reaction and then things go from bad to worse and that ends it,they go their separate ways 1 Like |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by basmur(m): 12:07am On Jan 15, 2017 |
WHETHER you agree or disagree....sha get a LIFE before a WIFE...if not you are on your own |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 12:08am On Jan 15, 2017 |
This certainly is my hour of need for a thing like this. |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by omooba969(m): 12:23am On Jan 15, 2017 |
tobloj:. 1 Like
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| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 12:25am On Jan 15, 2017 |
bamisepeters:On any good day, i can pass for a relationship counsellor but now i can only desire to be counselled. What do you have to say about a relationship where someone surrenders his ego and tries everything he could to put things right but the other party doesn't want to see an end to the problem?. |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 12:28am On Jan 15, 2017 |
omooba969:You can't be more right. so so true!. |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by omooba969(m): 12:31am On Jan 15, 2017 |
Sincere4u:. 1 Like
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| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by omooba969(m): 12:35am On Jan 15, 2017 |
segzyogondus:. 1 Like
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| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 12:36am On Jan 15, 2017 |
Sincere4u:The Boss, i've been monitoring you. So you were finally unable to resolve the issue that has left you so sad for so long?. You had so much faith you could settle in good fate. I really feel for you… Can we private chat?. 1 Like |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 12:57am On Jan 15, 2017 |
omooba969:I won't argue that but letting go hasn't been easy at all. |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 12:58am On Jan 15, 2017 |
karacta1:Later. |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 1:04am On Jan 15, 2017 |
Sincere4u:Ok, will be waiting You can't go on this way you know. 1 Like |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by piagetskinner(m): 1:09am On Jan 15, 2017 |
Larablink: Nope that's not what he's saying...hes saying its impossible not to have disagreements,,no matter how subtle |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Atiku2019: 1:27am On Jan 15, 2017 |
desquad: If you don't want to vote for an Atiku that's cool, but I don't think using the word "Goat" For any tribe/ethnic group is just too wrong. Good Morning bro how was your Night? |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 1:29am On Jan 15, 2017 |
ireneony:ireneony!. |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 1:52am On Jan 15, 2017 |
karacta1:Thanks bro. Got your pm. |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Hillary4Jesus: 2:10am On Jan 15, 2017 |
Nawao Sincere4u:Nawao
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| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 2:28am On Jan 15, 2017 |
Hillary4Jesus:Hahahahaha  |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by aksule(m): 2:50am On Jan 15, 2017 |
I think l just have to agree with people who believed that there's bound to be disagreement in a relationship |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by DaySpringer: 3:12am On Jan 15, 2017 |
Abrupt: Na so People will just come and type anything. You have parents right? If they are still together and they have a happy marriage, will you say they have never disagreed before? Disagreement means Lack of agreement, difference of opinion. Synonyms include Difference, dissimilarity, dispute. Disagreement is present in everyday life, even your siblings that you grew up with, you still do not see eye to eye on all things. A relationship is formed between two people who grew up in different environments and have different views on things. See the word different being repeated, There is a difference between the two and therefore they cannot agree all the time. They can have different opinions on a subject, or how to handle a particular thing or have different stands on a particular sensitive issue like how many children to have and these can lead to disagreement. A relationship cannot be disagreement free Infact no disgreement would have to imply perfection of the two people and not just perfection, perfect compatibility and perfect direct neural synchronization which is not possible. The message which the OP is trying to pass across can best be summarised by this excerpt from Marc and angel blog's "Differences of opinion don’t destroy relationships – it’s how a couple deals with their inevitable differences that counts." http://www.marcandangel.com/2015/09/09/7-ways-happy-couples-deal-with-disagreements-differently/ 1 Like |
| Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 3:32am On Jan 15, 2017 |
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