BlackDBagba:
Better 'let sleeping dogs lie'...

Benita27:
Both parties should deliberately provoke their spouse to know how they handle certain situations.

Is a good idea to me.

Benita27:
Both parties should deliberately provoke their spouse to know how they handle certain situations.

Is a good idea to me.

SalomonKane:
Provoking one's spouse should have a limit. Frankly, I don't see the need for one to provoke one's partner because one want to know how they'd react or see their bad side.

This might be a clear example to buttress the say: trouble sleep, yanga wake am.

Amelian:



But what if the guy appreciates peace a lot and does not want any form of provocation, even his gestures initiates peace.. Lol.. And if the lady deliberately provokes him and it ends up pissing him off...and he could be the unforgiving type.

It's very risky. And like makydee said she might regret it.

And that's one scary route 2 take.

Mehn such move ain't easy to delve into... Lol

ojun50:
If u call that person yr uncle then u are in big trouble

Benita27:
So would you be comfortable with an unforgiving man as a husband?, at least while provoking him deliberately you've been able to realize he's unforgiving.

Benita27:
@ the embolden, it should have a limit and not include setting him up with another lady.
When it comes to character, testing your spouse isn't bad, it gives an edge in knowing him better, one gets to know what he would do when angry: this is the bottom line.

Masonic:
Well, i think im just gonna sip this diet coke while waiting for the peppersoup.

ojun50:
If u call that person yr uncle then u are in big trouble

knightsson:

Contribute your own opinion Jor,

Benita27:
So would you be comfortable with an unforgiving man as a husband?, at least while provoking him deliberately you've been able to realize he's unforgiving.

Amelian:




But how would the babe know, which exactly is the limit for her guy. U know person no dey know person finish.. Even in marriage one is still trying to understand his or her partner, come several years.
What one might think is child play irritation to someone, might even be an explosive one to another..

So why dabble with emotions and anger

Cholls:
my sister do even know what they're telling you to do here.........let me give you this analogy. ..........I have a girlfriend and one day the devil decided to lay an idea on her head to tempt me to see if I was going to fall by sending one of her pretty sisters to come and cook for me on one of the days I was down things wasn't going fine in my business so I needed something to talk to someone so can encourage me make feel loved when I got home surprise surprise look who I saw the most beautiful girl I have ever seen..........long story short..........that night I slept with her now she is pregnant for me..........now the regretting ever listening to the devils advice by sending her sister to his house.

Masonic:

Benita27:
Ma', elders are never wrong when they say something.

For instance, i'm dating a guy and it was all rosy, i never deliberately provoked him and we had minor issues he would wave over.

Then he propose and i say 'yes', we got married and weeks later i did something that wasn't deliberate but he got mad that he had to beat me up, then as time goes on, whenever i provoke him madly he beats me up.

Do you know this kind of man could have been avoided only if i provoked him while we were dating?, cos he would have still hit me while dating me.

DuchessDee:
My opinion is :

If she needs someone to provoke him , Call on Me

Amelian:




I won't be comfortable with an unforgiving husband but I as a person hate conflicts and irritations at home or in my relationship.. So which means that if two peace loving people are together, and they both know what makes them tick off.. I doubt if any of them would want to deliberately annoy each other.
Cmon?

Amelian:




Hahahahahahaha

U try lol