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Because I'm A Woman by oloriomoloa: 12:36am On Jan 21, 2017 |
I AM A WOMAN!!! SO WHAT I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him. I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him. Because I am a woman, I don't have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality..... Because I am a woman, my husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ''it is in their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him" I cheat, and I am called a LovePeddler, I have committed an abomination, I have no right to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support I lack at home, I am an irresponsible mother. So I am sent packing, from the home we both built, with all my earthly possessions stuffed into a tiny box on my head. I am henceforth forbidden from seeing my two older children, I'm lucky to be allowed to go with my little one still suckling on my left breast. Three years later, the little one is tagged a bastard. Now, my new name is "after-three", because I am a woman. He is 28 and runs a company. He's tagged wonderful, hardworking, focused, career oriented, successful at a very young age. I am 28 and I run a company " Hmmmm, she is not even married, unserious, can not order her priorities right, a hustler, loves money, let her go and get a husband oh" And I wonder if being successful has anything to do with a person's gender. Because I am a woman, I am not allowed to have wits or be a prodigy, I cannot be financially buoyant, professionally successful or be treated with respect without a man beside me. Then I am tagged a generous leg opener, "a runs girl". They never see the possibility that I actually had to go through ups and downs to get to where I am. Because I am a woman. A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he's being praised and congratulated for moving on, afterall life is for the living. A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs, "ahhh! so early? Are u sure she wasn't sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. She's a witch! " Because she's a woman. Because I am a woman, this post will be considered controversial, and everyone will try to correct me. But don't forget, that I am a woman and it does not make me less human!!! Dedicated to Every Woman who is a Victim of Domestic Violence and Injustice You are Not Less of a Being By Oyeleke Mary Oluwadunsin 2 Likes |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by DozieInc(m): 12:42am On Jan 21, 2017 |
Your opinion though |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by Nobody: 12:45am On Jan 21, 2017 |
Its a Mans World Men,women are just for our enjoyment and support. You better get used to the fact that a Woman Will Never Be Equal To A Man. #FvckFeminism |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by Probz(m): 2:07am On Jan 21, 2017 |
Justdulla: I'm no radical feminist by any stretch but this is one of the dumbest posts I've seen on here. You know it's a woman who gave birth to you? |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by vitalisdiho(m): 2:08am On Jan 21, 2017 |
Too many cooks spoil the broth |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by Nobody: 2:10am On Jan 21, 2017 |
Probz:Fvck you too then |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by Probz(m): 2:18am On Jan 21, 2017 |
Justdulla: Onye ala. |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by Nomfanelo99(f): 2:21am On Jan 21, 2017 |
Justdulla:because I'm a woman |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by Nomfanelo99(f): 2:23am On Jan 21, 2017 |
oloriomoloa:the struggle continues |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by Nobody: 2:31am On Jan 21, 2017 |
Nomfanelo99:u know ma normal rants nah..do I look like one that dislikes the female folk? ma only ish is this. manr role is different from a woman's role in life. but some women wana raise shoulders and act like men |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by Nomfanelo99(f): 2:33am On Jan 21, 2017 |
Justdulla:I know was just pulling your leg .. |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by Nobody: 2:35am On Jan 21, 2017 |
Nomfanelo99:OK mamacita. are u sleeping soon? |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by Nomfanelo99(f): 2:39am On Jan 21, 2017 |
Justdulla:At 4am . so im left with 20mins |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by Nobody: 2:41am On Jan 21, 2017 |
Nomfanelo99:same here. Goodnight |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by Nomfanelo99(f): 2:43am On Jan 21, 2017 |
Justdulla:it's actually good morning |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by Nobody: 2:45am On Jan 21, 2017 |
Nomfanelo99:right |
Re: Because I'm A Woman by LordHiffy(m): 8:10am On Jan 21, 2017 |
All u pple should receive sense na. So because ure a woman u shld be given special privileges abi. I don't see Hilary Clinton, Eli Warren, Okonjo etc complaining about how they are being marginalised by men o. U gals should get off ur lazy asses and do some work. Becos I'm a woman ko becos I'm a lady ni |
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