Guys pls how do I inform the lady I love that another lady is four month In with my baby, I've been with her for more than 4years and I don't want to loose her at all as I've make all my life plans with her.. whenever I imagine my future she's the only one I see in it.

Pls kindly advice me on how to handle this situation.. when is the right time to tell her or should i just keep it as a secret?? I don't want to loose her pls..

u love ur gf u say. y can't u keep thing in ur trouser, before u go misbehaved.? u just wasted four years of her life like moimoi.SMH 4 u ooooooooo

Eyaaaa... So sorry but first thing first, If you really loved her as you claim you would not have cheated on her. Only the thought of how she'll feel if you cheat on her will discourage you from cheating but I guess you are just selfish, Only thinking of your self and your own pleasure.
Now for the advice... You better tell her so as not to compound your woes, if she can cope then she'll stay and if she can't then sorry 'na you cause am' cause if she later finds out which will definitely happen then all the trust instantly shatters and it will never be the same, ever.

bt u forgot that u love her when u were knacking another lady, and after impregnating her u nw remember the one u claim to love, i doubt u love ur girlfriend in the first because if u do u will knw u are endangering her life and urs by having unprotected sex with a third party. JUST REMEMBER THAT WHAT GOES AROUND COMES BACK AROUND, if u are in her shoe will u love and marry her if u knw she is pregnant for another guy?

so are we actually supposed to give you advice?

which love oga,,u were even sleeping with another lady without protection n u re saying u love your gf?for your information u just committed a crime that's the hardest for a lady to forgive...if that lady love her future let her run away with speed from you,,love gbawaoku!

mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew





get out sef

U were only lusting after her!

Love don't cheat!...move on with ur preggy babe...

ogbeni, you don't love her. you are tired of her pussy. better don't marry her and kill her with cheating. I hope you have not infected with any STDs.

NegeduGrace:
which love oga,,u were even sleeping with another lady without protection n u re saying u love your gf?for your information u just committed a crime that's the hardest for a lady to forgive...if that lady love her future let her run away with speed from you,,love gbawaoku!

thunder fire love.

hollowpot15684:
Guys pls how do I inform the lady I love that another lady is four month In with my baby, I've been with her for more than 4years and I don't want to loose her at all as I've make all my life plans with her.. whenever I imagine my future she's the only one I see in it.

Pls kindly advice me on how to handle this situation.. when is the right time to tell her or should i just keep it as a secret?? I don't want to loose her pls..

you love your chick but you impregnated someone else.its your type that distribute STD's like hand bills. You are MAD

Guys dey fall mi hands at times, Allah, you've been with her for 4yrs, you no give her belle, you kon go give another bïtch belle?

If na your sister or daughter pesin do, you go gree make your daughter or sister marry the guy?


4yrs faa

I forgot to add that, I have never had sex with my girlfriend.. one thing always lead to one thing and we always postpone it anytime we want to..
she is still intact..
I know I deserve all the insult and bullshitting, buh I cross my heart I love her very much..

hollowpot15684:
I forgot to add that, I have never had sex with my girlfriend.. one thing always lead to one thing and we always postpone it anytime we want to..
she is still intact..
I know I deserve all the insult and bullshitting, buh I cross my heart I love her very much..

I understand the way you feel.. Inform her nd seek her forgiveness..It's a 50/50 chance anyway

dejt4u:
I understand the way you feel.. Inform her nd seek her forgiveness..It's a 50/50 chance anyway

op, your story get as he be, u love her and u were seeing another woman, if she can hold her body why can u hold yours? So u were secrectly cheating on her when she thinks u are a good guy, not fair. To be sincere with you, this has happened to me before, exactly the ways yours is happening now, the funniest thing then was that the pregnant girl's family chose a wedding date , one way or the other I got to know about it but I didn't ask him neither did he tell me. It was after the wedding he was calling to discuss something with me and I burst everytin b4 he could say a word, I accepted my fate and walked away honourably
Note: the relationship was 8years then, we live in different cities but we visit eachother, he didn't upload any pre wedding or wedding pix not even his child's pix. I know he's regretting his actions but I'm a happy person now. Op tell her and let her decide on time please.

Four years and you kept postponing the time and in all those four yrs you were not faithful.

Well, tell her and pray she forgives you.

Another question is, what will you do about the pregnant lady?

NegeduGrace:
which love oga,,u were even sleeping with another lady without protection n u re saying u love your gf?for your information u just committed a crime that's the hardest for a lady to forgive...if that lady love her future let her run away with speed from you,,love gbawaoku!

Graaaaaace

So why did you cheat ?

When you were cheating on your girl, did we know?
Now your sidechick is pregnant you come need our help.

Dude! U can kill o

[quote author=hollowpot15684 post=52988820]Guys pls how do I inform the lady I love that another lady is four month In with my baby, I've been with her for more than 4years and I don't want to loose her at all as I've make all my life plans with her.. whenever I imagine my future she's the only one I see in it.

Pls kindly advice me on how to handle this situation.. when is the right time to tell her or should i just keep it as a secret?? I don't want to loose her pls.. [/quote

Men men men and the ting in between there legs has no control, u cant eat ur cake and still have it. So marry the one you sent impregnated she is also a woman and d mother of ur unborn child gradually u will love her other than hurt the woman u claim to love .mtchewwww

hollowpot15684:
I forgot to add that, I have never had sex with my girlfriend.. one thing always lead to one thing and we always postpone it anytime we want to..
she is still intact..
I know I deserve all the insult and bullshitting, buh I cross my heart I love her very much..

Bravo !bravo!!bravo!!! .just let our brothers wife to go and look for another better man

StarBukola:
u love ur gf u say. y can't u keep thing in ur trouser, before u go misbehaved.? u just wasted four years of her life like moimoi.SMH 4 u ooooooooo

I'm sure she wasted his money as well, so no big deal, it's a win win.

NegeduGrace:
which love oga,,u were even sleeping with another lady without protection n u re saying u love your gf?for your information u just committed a crime that's the hardest for a lady to forgive...if that lady love her future let her run away with speed from you,,love gbawaoku!

if the guy is rich no big deal, he may even marry both of them and they will agree.

tfk2000:

Graaaaaace

sir..actually my email is not functioning..

NegeduGrace:
sir..actually my email is not functioning..

Dnt sir a smally like me ooo. So how am I gonna contact u?

hollowpot15684:
Guys pls how do I inform the lady I love that another lady is four month In with my baby, I've been with her for more than 4years and I don't want to loose her at all as I've make all my life plans with her.. whenever I imagine my future she's the only one I see in it.

Pls kindly advice me on how to handle this situation.. when is the right time to tell her or should i just keep it as a secret?? I don't want to loose her pls..

You love ur gf and you still sexed another lady raw and even offloaded inside eh. You are just plain wicked!

You are wicked at the highest level.

refiner:
U were only lusting after her!
Love don't cheat!...move on with ur preggy babe...

wrong
cheating is natural in most men...
men are created to be polygamous...
that I cheat on my girlfriend doesn't men she ain't my number love...
after all there is a big difference between sex and love making

torres89:


wrong

cheating is natural in most men...

men are created to be polygamous...

that I cheat on my girlfriend doesn't men she ain't my number love...

after all there is a big difference between sex and love making

May I know the diff pls?