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Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by chy4luv: 8:09am On Jan 22, 2017 |
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Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by sapien(m): 8:20am On Jan 22, 2017 |
Indians! Those curry eating, disrespectful buffoons! |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by olaniyi0(m): 8:21am On Jan 22, 2017 |
they want's ur cucumber and they don't know how to tell u yet, so screw their modafucker ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by dingbang(m): 8:22am On Jan 22, 2017 |
God punish any Indian that will try dat rubbish with me.... If I no arrange beat am outside office eh, my name no b dingbang 1 Like |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by amnesty7: 8:24am On Jan 22, 2017 |
Simply resign. You should not be living in a hell. |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by brandonobi(m): 8:24am On Jan 22, 2017 |
u r being too gentle that is y they still have mouth |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by sisisioge: 8:32am On Jan 22, 2017 |
Since you have lodged a formal complaint to the manager, the next time they bully you just tell them calmly not to address you like that. Plus arrange to entirely separate your work from theirs. That's if your line managers are different. Those sheetheads are something else...begin to carry face for them like you are ready for a fight. Nonseeese folks! 1 Like |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by Nobody: 8:40am On Jan 22, 2017 |
Seems you live in the UK?? Omo you nor be Naija again?? Shine eye for them and their head will correct!? 1 Like |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by chy4luv: 8:48am On Jan 22, 2017 |
[quote author=sisisioge post=53022286]Since you have lodged a formal complaint to the manager, the next time they bully you just tell them calmly not to address you like that. Plus arrange to entirely separate your work from theirs. That's if your line managers are different. That's what I plan to do. I don't know if it would be possible as the other one works 4 days a week out of 6 days. I used to work 30hrs a week but have reduced it to 24hrs recently. Our manager is very understanding. I will see if she could help me with that but I don't know if it will warrant me reducing my hours further so as not to meet them. Everyone is complaining they tend to be worse when they're on the same shift which happened yesterday. I also want to lodge a complaint for them to be separated or on different shifts if possible. Both of them scrutinies my work all the time trying to find any mistakes. Regularly I see them together gossiping and trying to find faults with my work. When an old member of staff make any mistakes they try to keep it low. I have informed the manager about this and she wasn't happy but I feel like because she is new she doesn't have balls yet. |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by amuijiji: 8:55am On Jan 22, 2017 |
To choke bottle for person eye dey hungry me.. OP, u re too cool nd they would continue riding on you.. |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by soberdrunk(m): 8:57am On Jan 22, 2017 |
You are complicating issues by reporting and arranging meetings with the boss, the only true way to stop a 'bully' is to 'bully the bully'. As long as you continue playing the victim and letting the bully know you are offended by his or her actions,, the bullying will never stop. Put on your crazy cap and let them know you are from Africa............... ![]() 14 Likes |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by lilyheaven: 9:08am On Jan 22, 2017 |
soberdrunk:You nailed it, don't wait, just send it back to then, as the insult is coming, but Indians can be wicked o, they will look for another way to bring you down. They are naturally witches, only few of them are good 4 Likes |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by onward4life(m): 9:14am On Jan 22, 2017 |
sapien: I tell yu and they always smell like Crayfish |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by onward4life(m): 9:19am On Jan 22, 2017 |
amnesty7: Guy tru But out here no job ooo And I have been without job since April in abj here That also tru 1 Like |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by Nobody: 11:34am On Jan 22, 2017 |
Have you tried ignoring then it walking out in them or using earpiece when they start their madness? chy4luv: |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by chy4luv: 12:53pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
daretodiffer: Thats what I do to one of them, so she now pushes the other one to ask me. She started the one yesterday because another colleague saw them discussing it first before she called my attention. Ignoring that one is difficult because she is most senior and incharge. It starts by her calling me first and saying can I show you something and it generates from there. |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by chy4luv: 12:56pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
Osahon7: I wish this is happening in naija, I would have ensured they got the beatings of their lives ![]() |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by chy4luv: 1:01pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
amuijiji: Am not really a quite person. I think she is just using her position to abuse new comers. But having been there for over a year I dont see myself as new anymore rather as a team member which she has failed to include me. |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by chy4luv: 1:06pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
lilyheaven: This is why I always let the manager know, so she knows there's a rift between us. Whichever way they try to bring me down, the manager knows. |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
Wow! When you want to report them again do it via email so that you have proof. If they refused to change, report to the most senior You can also change your job. I feel your pain. chy4luv: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by chy4luv: 1:47pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
daretodiffer: Yes I report via email as well.Changing Job is easy as I have two places asking me to come work for them, but how do i know I will not meet such kind of people. Though people say indians are worse people to work with. I really like my job and workplace due to the flexibility as I have young kids and manager is very understanding with childcare. |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by Nancykay: 2:47pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
My dear i understand exactly how you feel, i stay in India and i know how devilish some Indian women can be especially to blacks. I once worked with them and they paid everyone in the company for over two months apart from me (note i was the only black there). Indians I know are so scared of the law, (police) trust me as a 9ja babe nah i no carry last, i got my salary back to the last Rupee though i was given a bounce cheque at first. Like you've said already ask for a meeting with your manager and let those bullies be present. Also try as much as possible to say your mind. If they continue ignore them as much as you can and carry out you duties well, just behave as if they don't exist it will hurt them so well because they can be extremely jealous. If they continue and you have a good evidence against them my dear used the law or just form like say you dey call police. my sister I promise you they will comport and give you your maximum respect. Don't forget to thank me later ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by Nobody: 2:57pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
Not all Indians are bad anyway, I have a few of them as friends, jovial and kind hearted. People should stop generalizing. Girl u have to be very stubborn with them, roll ur eyes whenever they are bullying u and pretend u are not listening... sometimes when they talk just say 'blah blah blah.. what did u say again or u can simply ask 'are u talking to me? Be free with yourself and move about happily, it will kill them. When u re not working use headphones and listen to song or play games on ur computer. 5 Likes |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by dingbang(m): 3:05pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
worworgirl: ![]() |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
dingbang:I don't pray to meet the bad ones and I hope u meet the good ones someday, coz they can be extremely nice |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by dingbang(m): 3:21pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
worworgirl:hmm.. Leme just meet one first... Because if I happen to be in authority someday, I will chase all Indians away from Nigeria first |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by Nobody: 3:30pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
dingbang:The fact Nigeria has bad record in some countries as a result of drugs and other crimes committed by its citizens didn't make these countries send every other Nigerians back home. If U are in authority u can only deal with People that commit crimes |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by dingbang(m): 3:36pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
worworgirl:and dat damned Indian has committed a crime and he has to be sent back to his country.. Babe u need to see what these indians are doing to us... Forget abt some of them being nice.. These people are demonic.. Gosh...I just despise dem the way Hitler despised the jews |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by Nobody: 3:38pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
dingbang:oga the op is not in Nigeria ok |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by dingbang(m): 3:40pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
worworgirl:her cross then.... |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by Richy4(m): 3:47pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
why are you whining...Tell her that she can drop dead for all you care...Complaining will be like giving her an upper hand....to act superior... Just follow her to wherever she was having her break/ lunch one day and tell her that you have had it up to here... with her bullshit...that you are not gonna tolerate that anymore...No physical confrontation because Indians don't do that violent things ...verbal, intelligent and constructive insult will do the magic...I wish you knew how to politely dish out an insult...without making it look or sound like it....The type Cameron used on Nigeria when he said we were fantastically corrupt......I might even give u tips on an opening line of insult that sound kinda intelligent if you want ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Help I Am Being Bullied By An Indian Colleague At Work by eyinjuege: 5:04pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
Bullying in the workplace is taken very seriously, especially in the UK. Make an official complaint. Start with writing an e-mail, explaining your grievances, and be polite, straight forward about it. Try not to be too emotional, but also be concise and state how its been affecting your productivity. How you don't like coming to work because of her, and how you've had to reduce your hours because of her. You can also mention you're now been ganged upon by her and her friend. Don't mention their races, unless you genuinely feel they're not just been bullies but also racists. The email is an official documentation of the concerns you want addressed. Anytime there's an altercation between you and them, start writing and recording such on a paper, with date and time it occurred. Also put down the witnesses present. Just collextball these notes, for a future date when you need to make another official complaint. 1 Like |
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