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Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by deEntrepreneur(m): 5:31pm On Jan 22, 2017
Our relationship is now 8months old.

When we started dating, she told me about her past. Past relationships, breakups etc. Well, all fine and good. Her past was a little bit rough. But, she told me it was all to the past and she had left the memories behind.


She said she told me all that because she wouldn't want a situation where by I'll find out about any of them in the future. It might be a disaster.


Positive side of her, she's so loyal, respectful, mature, supportive, intelligent, possessing good manners and all. We do argue sometimes but we talk about it and move on.


In a nutshell, the last guy she dated was her boss at her I.T place of work. The guy is the director's son.

Fine, she also told me about their story. She served as a side chick to the guy which she acknowledged. Coz she knows his girlfriend isn't in the country. FF...

She was blindly in love with the guy. All the guy wanted was just to have his way and exit.

I asked her out when the guy stopped giving her the attention she needed. Though she told me all these after we've been like 2weeks old in the relationship.


Along the line, I discovered she was still connected to this guy in some ways,
They still meet at times, though the guy helped her when she was financial down. He played a vital role in her admission into school.


I've always thought about asking her authoritatively not to see the guy again, but she always assure me that there's nothing. Good, I believed her.



I later got to discover that the guy at a point in time slept over at her place and they were in the act. She confessed to me after much pressure.


She told me she was having serious cramps on that day and there was no one to call, I was out of town that week. She made me understand that it wasn't intentional bla bla bla.



My heart was broken.


She's been pleading for my forgiveness.

I know her past is still hunting her ,but do you think she deserves a second chance? I'm just too hurt to reply her chats or pick her calls.
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by fuckboys: 5:33pm On Jan 22, 2017

fūck you angry

No offense

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Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by dingbang(m): 5:35pm On Jan 22, 2017
fuckboys:

fūck you angry

No offense
grin


My broda.. As I see ur comment, I forget wetin to type again grin
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jan 22, 2017
Move on. A cheat is not worth a second chance because they'll cheat again. The trust is gone and it's best you let go.

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Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by pimpchi(m): 5:37pm On Jan 22, 2017
Sometimes I wonder what kind of brains some guys get... Some brains Na waste of space.
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by AntiWailer: 5:39pm On Jan 22, 2017
My Dear Op,

I recommend Run run run by Terry G.

In a nutshell u are dating a hoe and hoping for miracle.

Your narration of what led to ur b1tch being laid again got me laughing.

You are an eediot and if u dnt mind I can give u a location where I will slap you continously until your brain reboot.

Dnt mix it up a cheat will never change. He / she will only perfect the act of covering track.

Oku ooobo

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Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by femolacqua(m): 5:41pm On Jan 22, 2017
Waste of time, move on.
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by knightsson: 5:44pm On Jan 22, 2017
deEntrepreneur:
Our relationship is now 8months old.

When we started dating, she told me about her past. Past relationships, breakups etc. Well, all fine and good. Her past was a little bit rough. But, she told me it was all to the past and she had left the memories behind.


She said she told me all that because she wouldn't want a situation where by I'll find out about any of them in the future. It might be a disaster.


Positive side of her, she's so loyal, respectful, mature, supportive, intelligent, possessing good manners and all. We do argue sometimes but we talk about it and move on.


In a nutshell, the last guy she dated was her boss at her I.T place of work. The guy is the director's son.

Fine, she also told me about their story. She served as a side chick to the guy which she acknowledged. Coz she knows his girlfriend isn't in the country. FF...

She was blindly in love with the guy. All the guy wanted was just to have his way and exit.

I asked her out when the guy stopped giving her the attention she needed. Though she told me all these after we've been like 2weeks old in the relationship.


Along the line, I discovered she was still connected to this guy in some ways,
They still meet at times, though the guy helped her when she was financial down. He played a vital role in her admission into school.


I've always thought about asking her authoritatively not to see the guy again, but she always assure me that there's nothing. Good, I believed her.



I later got to discover that the guy at a point in time slept over at her place and they were in the act. She confessed to me after much pressure.


She told me she was having serious cramps on that day and there was no one to call, I was out of town that week. She made me understand that it wasn't intentional bla bla bla.



My heart was broken.


She's been pleading for my forgiveness.

I know her past is still hunting her ,but do you think she deserves a second chance? I'm just too hurt to reply her chats or pick her calls.




will you tell this your wh@ore gf to fvck off before I give you a dirty slap from here? You don't need her!


Guys/Men have become so weak, I weep!
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by dingbang(m): 5:44pm On Jan 22, 2017
AntiWailer:


My Dear Op,

I recommend Run run run by Terry G.

In a nutshell u are dating a hoe and hoping for miracle.

Your narration of what led to ur b1tch being laid again got me laughing.

You are an eediot and if u dnt mind I can give u a location where I will slap you continously until your brain reboot.

Oku ooobo
quote d op na
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by fuckboys: 5:44pm On Jan 22, 2017
dingbang:
grin


My broda.. As I see ur comment, I forget wetin to type again grin
the thing pain me well well,, guys never wan wise up angry
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by Nobody: 5:45pm On Jan 22, 2017
deEntrepreneur:
Our relationship is now 8months old.

When we started dating, she told me about her past. Past relationships, breakups etc. Well, all fine and good. Her past was a little bit rough. But, she told me it was all to the past and she had left the memories behind.


She said she told me all that because she wouldn't want a situation where by I'll find out about any of them in the future. It might be a disaster.


Positive side of her, she's so loyal, respectful, mature, supportive, intelligent, possessing good manners and all. We do argue sometimes but we talk about it and move on.


In a nutshell, the last guy she dated was her boss at her I.T place of work. The guy is the director's son.

Fine, she also told me about their story. She served as a side chick to the guy which she acknowledged. Coz she knows his girlfriend isn't in the country. FF...

She was blindly in love with the guy. All the guy wanted was just to have his way and exit.

I asked her out when the guy stopped giving her the attention she needed. Though she told me all these after we've been like 2weeks old in the relationship.


Along the line, I discovered she was still connected to this guy in some ways,
They still meet at times, though the guy helped her when she was financial down. He played a vital role in her admission into school.


I've always thought about asking her authoritatively not to see the guy again, but she always assure me that there's nothing. Good, I believed her.



I later got to discover that the guy at a point in time slept over at her place and they were in the act. She confessed to me after much pressure.


She told me she was having serious cramps on that day and there was no one to call, I was out of town that week. She made me understand that it wasn't intentional bla bla bla.



My heart was broken.


She's been pleading for my forgiveness.

I know her past is still hunting her ,but do you think she deserves a second chance? I'm just too hurt to reply her chats or pick her calls.



What's the relationship between her cramps and inviting the guy over when she couldn't reach you?.
She's dating the both of you, keeping the relationship is your choice to make.

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Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by dingbang(m): 5:46pm On Jan 22, 2017
fuckboys:
the thing pain me well well,, guys never wan wise up angry
girl wey yarn say her past dey somehow den come dey tell d guy say make him no cheat on am.. Den d stupid girl come go open leg for fvckboy like us collect akpako, d op come here come begin to cry make we tell am sorry.... grin
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by Nobody: 5:48pm On Jan 22, 2017
This case is simple. If you haven't met her before the said sex escapade with her ex, it would have been justifiable to forgive her.

That being said, you mentioned some distinguishing characteristics of this lady in question. If I'm to go by your submission, you actually do love those qualities.

Now I'll want you to look at the issue from this perspective. Say if this lady had slept with this guy before meeting you, what would you have done?

Before you take any decision, I ll want you to carefully study the pattern of communication between her and the guy. If you forgive her, do they have chances of crossing path in the nearest future?

One thing with sex is that it breed attachment. Even if you are a high class lady, at the sight of someone who have slept with you, you absolutely nothing and hence spontaneous one night stand is realistic.

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Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by deEntrepreneur(m): 5:49pm On Jan 22, 2017
AntiWailer:


My Dear Op,

I recommend Run run run by Terry G.

In a nutshell u are dating a hoe and hoping for miracle.

Your narration of what led to ur b1tch being laid again got me laughing.

You are an eediot and if u dnt mind I can give u a location where I will slap you continously until your brain reboot.

Oku ooobo





Yeah bro! I really need a filthy slap!
No doubt
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by Cholls(m): 5:50pm On Jan 22, 2017
my brother nah stop being a chump.......pick your phone after you read these and call her tell her how disgusted and disappointed you are in her........tell her not to call or text you so you can have space to decide if it's a good idea to go on with her.
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by deEntrepreneur(m): 5:53pm On Jan 22, 2017
TheSlyone2:
This case is simple. If you haven't met her before the said sex escapade with her ex, it would have been justifiable to forgive her.

That being said, you mentioned some distinguishing characteristics of this lady in question. If I'm to go by your submission, you actually do love those qualities.

Now I'll want you to look at the issue from this perspective. Say if this lady had slept with this guy before meeting you, what would you have done?

Before you take any decision, I ll want you to carefully study the pattern of communication between her and the guy. If you forgive her, do they have chances of crossing path in the nearest future?

One thing with sex is that it breed attachment. Even if you are a high class lady, at the sight of someone who have slept with you, you absolutely nothing and hence spontaneous one night stand is realistic.





Hmmmm.


So thoughtful...


Thanks so much, I really appreciate!
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jan 22, 2017
My bros sorry to say this,am also a lady like her to be frank a cheat is always a cheat.she would have called her girl friend rather than an ex.did she say that the didn't sleep together you know what I mean
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by soberdrunk(m): 5:58pm On Jan 22, 2017
The problem with couples of nowadays is that y'all see each other as each others property and tend to be 'over-protective", young man if you love that woman then love her "completely" whether she sleeps with the whole community or state!! The reason for the many relationship 'breakups' nowadys is the many 'terms and conditions' that people attach to 'Love'. Porn stars have boyfriends and husbands, just 'one' extra 'reserve player' and you want to give up on a woman you claim to love!! angry angry angry

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Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by CoolFreeday(m): 5:59pm On Jan 22, 2017
You can forgive her and continue with her if she promise to leave the firm and end any form of relationship with the guy or assistance from the guy.

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Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jan 22, 2017
deEntrepreneur:



Hmmmm.

So thoughtful...

Thanks so much, I really appreciate!
Anytime
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by Nobody: 6:04pm On Jan 22, 2017
deEntrepreneur:

I later got to discover that the guy at a point in time slept over at her place and they were in the act. She confessed to me after much pressure
She dated the guy/was his sidechick knowing fully well that he was in a relationship with another woman and she's still seeing him knowing fully well that she's in a relationship with you. Yet you describe her as being "so loyal, respectful and mature", smh.

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Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by fergieboy: 6:20pm On Jan 22, 2017
Serves you right. Una wey they carry relationship for head..
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by AntiWailer: 6:42pm On Jan 22, 2017
dingbang:
quote d op na

Lol.

Sorry
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by mayoor15(m): 6:58pm On Jan 22, 2017
soberdrunk:
The problem with couples of nowadays is that y'all see each other as each others property and tend to be 'over-protective", young man if you love that woman then love her "completely" whether she sleeps with the whole community or state!! The reason for the many relationship 'breakups' nowadys is the many 'terms and conditions' that people attach to 'Love'. Porn stars have boyfriends and husbands, just 'one' extra 'reserve player' and you want to give up on a woman you claim to love!! angry angry angry
OP please don't follow this advice, she will keep cheating on you when you get married, she will even sleep with other men aside from that guy, which kind cramp made her sleep with her former lover when she was in a relationship with someone else, if you don't want to keep tormenting yourself just let her go, there are better girls out there. In your write up I saw loyal, she isn't loyal dude...
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by mayoor15(m): 7:00pm On Jan 22, 2017
rebirthforgoody:
My bros sorry to say this,am also a lady like her to be frank a cheat is always a cheat.she would have called her girl friend rather than an ex.did she say that the didn't sleep together you know what I mean
wagbayi omo gidi
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by mayoor15(m): 7:03pm On Jan 22, 2017
BTW OP, sorry if I may ask are you okay? in 2017 you still want to follow a serial cheater?..
..The writing is already on the wall for you, better decode am fast..Bro come back and share testimony say you don send her packing.....
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by Nobody: 7:14pm On Jan 22, 2017
Second chances are for pūssies and if you've got any self respect, u wud dump dat bītch like she's a leper. She's damaged goods, don't save her (they don't wan be saved).

EDIT:
And hey, don't let her perceived "good manners" fool you, every dog dat bites still licks āss.
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by Elbizzcklinz(m): 7:18pm On Jan 22, 2017
Waste of mb, op u knw what to do, sack that hoe. There are lots of fishes in d ocean
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by ikp120(m): 7:47pm On Jan 22, 2017
deEntrepreneur:
Our relationship is now 8months old.

When we started dating, she told me about her past. Past relationships, breakups etc. Well, all fine and good. Her past was a little bit rough. But, she told me it was all to the past and she had left the memories behind.


She said she told me all that because she wouldn't want a situation where by I'll find out about any of them in the future. It might be a disaster.


Positive side of her, she's so loyal, respectful, mature, supportive, intelligent, possessing good manners and all. We do argue sometimes but we talk about it and move on.


In a nutshell, the last guy she dated was her boss at her I.T place of work. The guy is the director's son.

Fine, she also told me about their story. She served as a side chick to the guy which she acknowledged. Coz she knows his girlfriend isn't in the country. FF...

She was blindly in love with the guy. All the guy wanted was just to have his way and exit.

I asked her out when the guy stopped giving her the attention she needed. Though she told me all these after we've been like 2weeks old in the relationship.


Along the line, I discovered she was still connected to this guy in some ways,
They still meet at times, though the guy helped her when she was financial down. He played a vital role in her admission into school.


I've always thought about asking her authoritatively not to see the guy again, but she always assure me that there's nothing. Good, I believed her.



I later got to discover that the guy at a point in time slept over at her place and they were in the act. She confessed to me after much pressure.


She told me she was having serious cramps on that day and there was no one to call, I was out of town that week. She made me understand that it wasn't intentional bla bla bla.



My heart was broken.


She's been pleading for my forgiveness.

I know her past is still hunting her ,but do you think she deserves a second chance? I'm just too hurt to reply her chats or pick her calls.




Sorry bro. I guess she is part of the confused ladies around town.

Just play along and be authoritative
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by Bahddo(m): 7:52pm On Jan 22, 2017
Hahaha... She was having cramps and invited him to relieve it grin

Look at the brighter side though, at least she tells you everything... Truth and lies.

If I were you, I wouldn't take her serious. Most girls don't value guys who take them serious. Love is for weak azz pussie niggas. Make her your side chic and she would be struggling to become your main.
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by enuk80(m): 8:43pm On Jan 22, 2017
I wish i have something to say..your post made me remember my nymphomaniac infac I fact randy girlfriend that mess around with guys ad even married men....girls always take advantage of guys especially when she knows that the guy loves her so much...she will never change..it has become her habit...my girlfriend is yet to change...she lies and the painful thing is that she claims to be saint just like the positive characteristic u, mentioned about ur girl...to be too emotional is not good..it affects one being...i no how you feel op..I have been there and I am still battling with my emotion
Re: Broken HEART! I Need Advise. Matured Minds Only Please. by Cornerstone2020(m): 9:35pm On Jan 22, 2017
OP disconnect with that lady .to avoid opening another thread here about your relationship with her,here in the future.
Note: whores can be loyal.

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