dingbang:
lol u and I know perfectly is not a sin to date different guys.... Sex and dating are not the same tin.. Yes if I were your boyfriend I wouldn't mind you going out on dates with people, male or female alike... But I should trust that you aren't having sex with them...

DaintyJenny:


Haha... so in other words you don't mind your girlfriend going out on dates with other guys?
Odiegwu.

liveyourlife007:
Please who mentioned depending on girls for good luck. Didinrin

murphyibiam15:

ma'am is out of respect for ur mum that i wrote that...i am trying to tell u not to use ur mum as an eg in public places like this.u could just use 'someone'

respect to all mums.....i didnt insult u either...i enjoyed ur post and it did make sense to me and i am even in your own view too.
happy sun

Ginaz:


Used someone? Who? Anyway I understand people can twist your words out of context. It's fine anyway, that's their problem.

I love my mama, I don't take nonsense from nobody when it comes to her matter. I was trying to pass a message to everybody unfortunately they choose to pick out a fault.

Thanks and peace out, we shouldn't disrespect mothers no matter what. My regards to your mom and a happy Sunday to you

Ginaz:


I didn't use my mother to prove an example, I was giving an experience. Even I was baffled cos the feathers were all over the place, my mother was as baffled as me cos it was strange. We saw in time that what we were thinking was spiritual was actually ordinary.

Since then I and my mother have changed our mindset. It was an experience that taught us so many things all in one.

Anybody on seeing those feathers early in the morning would have thought superstitious. I was using my experience to tell others that sometimes things we don't understand doesn't mean they are spiritual.

So if you don't mind, don't talk about my mom that way. Thank u and have a nice day.

dingbang:
its a date.. They aren't fvcking....

Ginaz:
Hmmmmm, I can't help but grind my teeth in my mouth with anger while reading comments. You see why black men will always be wayward and backward?

They attach everything and anything to spiritual voodoo and ill luck. How can a normal being based his life fortunes and unfortunes on who and whom he has dated and slept with?

This is quite shameful.

I remembered a day I and my mom woke up to see black and white feathers spread all over our veranda. My mom was about going in to bring her anointing oil to bind all the witches that brought the feathers to our house, lo and behold, a white fowl was hiding behind the chair.

I angrily took a broom and drove the scared animal running away, Obviously it took shelter there.

What I'm saying is, not all things are spiritual if we don't understand them. Or you think you don't have bad luck too eh, it's only the woman?

It's a pity o, seriously. Deceive yourselves. Some Men eh, tufiaka, They hold anyone responsible when things are not going well for them.

Change your mind set so that things will go well with you.

Free101:
Op, you better believe o, there was a girl I was dating back then in 2015, met her here on nairaland. Then things started going wrong, it was always from frying pan to fire for me. It was after I broke up with her and was going through her post here that I saw one of her post claiming she has a "spirit husband". Abeg, how my life no go dabaru?

DaintyJenny:


Don't you know most first dates lead to fvcking?
Haha... me thinks you're very naive.

dingbang:
well I can act naive ..... Doesn't stop me from being un-dramatic... Its her body, she can fvck whoever she wishes to as long as she isn't my wife. The lord knows who is right for me

DaintyJenny:

Anyways... good luck with your "open relationship"

Olasco93:
Dating isn't an Excursion or Testing ground. Be responsible and Date wisely.

Free101:
Op, you better believe o, there was a girl I was dating back then in 2015, met her here on nairaland. Then things started going wrong, it was always from frying pan to fire for me. It was after I broke up with her and was going through her post here that I saw one of her post claiming she has a "spirit husband". Abeg, how my life no go dabaru?

dingbang:
hahahaha.... We all need to be happy and free from heartbreaks... Don't we?

DaintyJenny:

Yea.
But sometimes commitment brings more happiness and less number of heartbreaks.

dingbang:
commitment in marriage

DaintyJenny:

It starts with dating.
Or you think someone that has been playing away match behind your back, will change instantly because of one tiny metal band?

Free101:
Op, you better believe o, there was a girl I was dating back then in 2015, [b]met her here on nairaland. [/b]Then things started going wrong, it was always from frying pan to fire for me. It was after I broke up with her and was going through her post here that I saw one of her post claiming she has a "spirit husband". Abeg, how my life no go dabaru?

dingbang:
i will... Don't know about if a girl can. ..

truthsayer007:


Thank God you got delivered my broda, Nigerians like to live in ignorance and pretence like this things doesn't exist.

A lot of girls carry bad luck & when you start dating them you start losing money left & right. I have been a victim of this. And then you start dating some other girl, people will start begging you to take their money for a job you can hardly even do well. And then I sat down to think about this. This isn't normal at all.

This isn't about meeting a lady that's going to build your dreams & aspiration bla bla bla...NO, we are talking about good luck & bad luck here. This thing is spiritual and its Real as Fvck. I have experienced it. So no one can tell me I sound crazy.

lefulefu:

u for like share her moniker make we no go fall into her trap

sinaj:
bros nawa for u o!

Free101:

dear...i know what i passed through....can you believe she once told me that she "thinks" she is responsible for my predicament as of then but i was blind by love to see the meaning of what she meant until later.

sinaj:
thats strange tho

DaintyJenny:

You don't even need to ask. girls are usually more faithful than guys