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elantraceey:
I really don't understand how a lady can be so deceived.....she never went to his work place or questioned his family members and friends or something?


I don't think I can date someone for two months and not find out the true financial status of that person.

Many people no get brain

End time Husband.

A chick i dated during NYSC (2006/2007)did same. we were retained by our various offices. somehow she was making more money. she said i dint look like someone ready to settle down in 2 years, i said add anoda 2 making 22, i never still ready. we parted ways but still remained friends.

she kept telling me of one big offshore boy on her neck, last last they started rolling. 6 Months later wedding bells. They then relocated.

Fast forward to 2015, I met her here in Abuja. me too don marry born. she was surprised. then she told me how she seperated from the guy after 2years. she also sponsored wedding and everything that followed. the guy kept lying about one big 120million Naira contract he did for EXXONMOBIL. After 2years, she discovered he was scam and filed for Divorce. though as at then the court just gave them 1 year seperation or something like that. As at november 2016 when we last spoke, they were still seperated.

alexialin:
Na WA... Really good luck!
A lady I know also divorced her husband when she realised he had no job after wedding. And she was also the one who sponsored her wedding.. After taking care of him for like 2years.. She got tired and divorced him. She's married to another guy who has a genuine job Nw.. But I wonder why some ladies will pay their own bride price and still expect the marriage to work?
It's amazing how some women think.
When a man notice u are desperate to marry and u give him money to pay your own bride price.. He simply capitalize on it , relax and enjoy the drama as it unfolds..
What a pity.

Hmmmm Abuja Marriage

Marry responsible men, na fine boys una godey find upandan.

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Sugar mama

Some men are useless soft d*cks sha.

The Name of the magistrate sha. The guy saw that she love material thingz, he came with the carah and she fell yakataa. God helep both of them two

You made my day, LMAO.. Many women should have been thrown out into the streets really.

That is why i frown at the sentence "The man is the head of the family" too many loopholes, man go just dey manage those things.

BlaQWolf:
But When we men sponsor our wives on virtually everything, we never asks for divorce yet they say what a man can do, a woman does it better. I just dy look that woman with one eye

lent him money to pay ur brideprice?

wow.. that man was faster than me..

i dey find mufu like u since

So jobless is now hiv ? May God help this country

U did not know he was unemployed until after ur wedding yet u sponsored the wedding and borrowed him bride price. Aunty u just shot urself in the foot. U are a liar.U knew he was jobless but married him out of desperation. Now u cannot bear it anymore u wanna quit. Stop lying and face ur self inflicted fate abeg.

sponsored our wedding, I even lent him money to pay my bride price,” she said.
then keep lending him money, abi what has changed? he didn't suddenly go jobless, broke, lazy, unmotivated or did his mouth or cassava change?


marriage is not by force

It seems love was not even in the equation. It was all about what he had that turned out to be a lie. Banker & Lugbe house. Ladies keep falling for money anyhow.

I hope others learn from this.

Marry a simple guy that genuinely can show his means of livelihood. Big or small.

My sister take heart OK, ..remember the vow u made that day:in sickness, n in health, in poverty and in wealth etc till death do u part. So no quitting now

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Just Imagine; you Lent him money to pay your bride price You are the one marrying Him not Him marrying you Useless love.

Just Imagine; you Lent him money to pay your bride price You are the one marrying Him not Him marrying you Useless love.

End time husbands

Babe you can't tell me that after a year of courting or so you neva noticed that he didn't have a job. So he never took you out on a date? He never bought a gift for you. A zenith bank staff. That is you never noticed it. I refuse to believe. It means you were doing it right from the start cos if you sponsored your wedding for a man that is working and worst paid your bride price it means you knew it.

What do you expect when you sponsored the wedding ?

The foolish husband that can not insist things be done according to his financial muscle or suspend it indefinitely.

Now this, my people, is what is called okpuagbakoba-asanwionuamakpiqui
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Osalobuan lahor!

The man is as wicked as you are naive...

But that is past....

Look the Only solution is you both sit down and agree which job he will to apply for according to his study or which business (which you, wifey will not contribute more than 25%of the capital to)

OR pack your bags and leave...before children enter the equation... That nigga is from the pit of hell...
Not only does he hate you, he loves seeing you labour and suffer in vain....

Away!!!!

nickxtra:


http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/01/sponsored-wedding-even-lent-money-pay-bride/

that is your own cross, carry it with joy.

Etinosa5:
She want to marry

When a woman says 'she must marry this year by fire by force', she will end up falling victim to scammer husband.

Linda Ikeji take note

That a big lesson to all of us...... What a big shame!!! To d man....

[b][/b]That a big lesson to all of us...... What a big shame!!! To d man....

when dey tell you that you shouldn't rush into marriage una no go hear.




goodluck...

AntiWailer:
What do you expect when you sponsored the wedding ?

The foolish husband that can not insist things be done according to his financial muscle or suspend it indefinitely.

Lol...na Zenith bank manager

elantraceey:
I really don't understand how a lady can be so deceived.....she never went to his work place or questioned his family members and friends or something?


I don't think I can date someone for two months and not find out the true financial status of that person.

he could have faked efritin for her, including family self.

Ewoooo!..... the girl enter one chance. I for play that kind gold digger with one of my baes wey dey form love, but my conscience no gree me. Some guys get mind shaa.

elantraceey:
I really don't understand how a lady can be so deceived.....she never went to his work place or questioned his family members and friends or something?


I don't think I can date someone for two months and not find out the true financial status of that person.

She did not know he was unemployed until after d wedding yet she sponsored the wedding and borrowed him bride price. She just shot herself in the foot. She knew he was jobless but married him out of desperation. Now she cannot bear it anymore and wants to quit. She should stop lying and face her self inflicted fate abeg.

You are on the right process.... DIVORCE. Though against it but the case is helpless.


As a man, i must assume responsibility in every manner of my marrital life.