Iamthoney:
Hmmm....Na God go help us

Yes o

emilyone:


Some men can pretend for Africa

No you are wrong, they can pretend for the whole world ma'am

elantraceey:

Yes o

In Adanne's voice "Be veli veli carefulu ooo*

Iamthoney:
In Adanne's voice "Be veli veli carefulu ooo*

It goes beyond just being careful jare , one has to be wise too

alexialin:
Na WA... Really good luck!
A lady I know also divorced her husband when she realised he had no job after wedding. And she was also the one who sponsored her wedding.. After taking care of him for like 2years.. She got tired and divorced him. She's married to another guy who has a genuine job Nw.. But I wonder why some ladies will pay their own bride price and still expect the marriage to work?
It's amazing how some women think.
When a man notice u are desperate to marry and u give him money to pay your own bride price.. He simply capitalize on it , relax and enjoy the drama as it unfolds..
What a pity.

Am realy ashamed of such men. What a big disappointment. Should i find a lady that will assist me like these ones, i will work hard to reciprocate. God bless those ladies.

felo812000:
The Name of the magistrate sha. The guy saw that she love material thingz, he came with the carah and she fell yakataa. God helep both of them two

hahaha,d reporter no know d magistrate name datz why he name dat

The desperation of men and women. what happened to the marriage oath?

hi people...am new here plz shw me love

MMM husband

its nt the Husbands fault jare he has used his Life Savings For MMM so he doesn't know where to start from

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If he says he works with Zenith bank why will you want to go to his place to look for him when you know visitors are not entertained and the lady herself has job to do. Then asking friends of the guy or family of the guy the wrong step. What will you hear from them. God should just protect ladies.

Shame on the man. He's a disgrace to all hardworking Nigerian brothers....

Hmn
Speechlex

this one nah play nah....we see them every day here in Abuja....Abuja is all about packaging.....not all that glitters is gold.....my sister you just picked the wrong package.....

Hmmmm nkan nbe

she even lent him money to pay for her bride price

A man claims he works with Zenith bank and owns million naira worth business in Lagos, yet you sponsor the wedding. How foolish and desperate can a lady be? Ngwannu I must marry and be Mrs lagbaja continue to marry. Marriage is for better and for worse. You
Closed your brain to the signs now enjoy the prison ring of marriage you have choosen for your self.

curiositymaster:
Marry responsible men, na fine boys una godey find upandan.

alexialin:
Na WA... Really good luck!
A lady I know also divorced her husband when she realised he had no job after wedding. And she was also the one who sponsored her wedding.. After taking care of him for like 2years.. She got tired and divorced him. She's married to another guy who has a genuine job Nw.. But I wonder why some ladies will pay their own bride price and still expect the marriage to work?
It's amazing how some women think.
When a man notice u are desperate to marry and u give him money to pay your own bride price.. He simply capitalize on it , relax and enjoy the drama as it unfolds..
What a pity.

In one word, it's called "oshofree"

sayittome:

Am realy ashamed of such men. What a big disappointment. Should i find a lady that will assist me like these ones, i will work hard to reciprocate. God bless those ladies.

Pls sir, how on earth wil u want to pay ur wife's bride price with HER MONEY! I really don't get it.

And for d single ladies out there, PLS WITHOLD ALL ASSISTANCE TILL HE TAKES U TO THE ALTAR PUBLICLY. Never entertain desperation, d loss dat accrues from being desperate can b back breaking.

husband material scarce 4 market oooo.jobless husband,working class husband..all na husband..ogini

The lady in question is greedy!!! " He is working wt zenith bank" why then did u pay ur brid prize? Is either u ar greedy or u were desperate!! Marriage is nt by force !!

that kind man don jazz d lady her head was upside down before when he met him .the sex must hv been soo sweet that she forget that she paid the bride price.then at times goes on her eyes began to open..and you guys can see for yourself now .. she hv come to her right senses .the lazy man knows all jazz have expiry date.

And he never like to work just to jazz women.may God protect our sisters from this kind if men ijn ... If you are a single lady say amen....
Man must work o..
No food for an orphan like me..I must hustle .
Happy new month in advance ppl..

No be for better for worse smh for u.....Don't u see that or tink about the future before you go into it U dey raise muscle then abi..naw you are tired...

Paid your dowry, height of desperation. You brought the insult to yourself.

Paid your dowry, thats height of desperation. You brought the insult to yourself.

I even lent him money to pay my bride price

ehhhhhh
na by force 2 marry

U for just marry 50 Naira cucumber, make we hear word since u pay by ur self for ur self.

gud luck,though i can't seem to understand why u married the man in the first place when u dnt knw him well.

nemynely:


Pls sir, how on earth wil u want to pay ur wife's bride price with HER MONEY! I really don't get it.

And for d single ladies out there, PLS WITHOLD ALL ASSISTANCE TILL HE TAKES U TO THE ALTAR PUBLICLY. Never entertain desperation, d loss dat accrues from being desperate can b back breaking.

that of course is the man's duty. No compromise on that. Am only sayin that ladies who go far to suport their partners do not deserve such treatment.
I think you right, no desperation.

She only allowed herself to be deceived and ignore the early signs, how come it never occurred to her that if he truly have a job, there will be no need for her give him money to pay her own bride price. she was having the hope that things will get better some day, but the unfolding outcome was becoming unbearable.