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Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by lollmaolol(m): 9:12pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
tobaseye: Then some people will be telling me crap. Bro, i feel you..u know love is a beautiful thing, i will suggest you go with the lady your mind is at peace with. Do not marry someone based on self pity or what her family will say afterwards, its only one life, you cannot afford to make a lifetime mistake. I believe prayer can help you too. Final suggesstion: Follow your mind, follow peace in choosing them. may God help you. |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by Harinholar(f): 9:13pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
Pray about it...and follow your mind.... |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
At 36, you can't take decisions that matter to your life. Oga, take responsibility for yourself and and actions you make. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by kerryjossy(f): 9:14pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
The answer u seek is right in the inside of u. Do not ignore your gut feeling. U love her, go for her. U dont love her, let her be. She can forgive u if u leave her now buh she will never forgive u if u cheat and prolly may someday divorce her after marriage. NB: Flee from the ones that will advice u on NL to pray. Honestly u dont need prayers now. What u need is to make use of your #commonsense. 6 Likes |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by wellmax(m): 9:14pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
tobaseye DL things |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by goingape1: 9:16pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
tobaseye:bros forget that girl! one ab0ki with big prick dey service her well well! find one White chick for there na ![]() why you dey mumu like this. our naija women na useless piece of Shiite! never you have pity on any black woman because our black women don't have pity and self respect for there self! all there ever think of is money and prick! your prick and money can never be enough for our naija woman. once she tasted your prick and money, she will still go out for a greener prick and money ![]() your prick and money can never satisfy a naija woman! those useless set of black women species are blood tasting prick and money parasite.... DONT TRUST A BLACK WOMAN 2 Likes |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by AlphaStyles(m): 9:17pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
hmmm |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by wellmax(m): 9:17pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
MrMcJay:you forgot PC |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by dfrost: 9:18pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
MrHighSea: I still dey read am bros. I go tell you after I don read finish. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by alluredmary: 9:19pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
Hmmmmmmm! Wonderful! My dear u are confused within urself, what do u really want? |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by Ten06(m): 9:19pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
Imagine, at 36 u lack d willpower to take decision on an issue that will determine your destiny. It's a pity. Abi na jazz dey work u? 3 Likes |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by MrMcJay(m): 9:23pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
wellmax:Haaaaa! U sef sabi! |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by Nobody: 9:23pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
You need 3 Night Crusade. What do you want? Go for it. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by Crownbird(m): 9:24pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
Appearance is different from Character. Guy luck up and start afresh ... You want some specific type of lady, that you cannot be guaranteed. With your type of setup/build up, my advice is that explain the matter to your mama. If you really want to have a good wife for naija, you need to create time and mingle with the society. 6 month small, a year or so ... the way relationship dey work for abroad different from naija own. In short, your only solution na your mama cuz if any friend advice you ... you will burst more than the one you're required to. |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by Nobody: 9:24pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
YOU SOUND LIKE A BELIEVER!! IF U ARE CONSULT THE ALMIGHTY GOD! ASK HIM WITH AN OPEN AND HONEST MIND! AM SO HE WILL LET U KNOW YOUR MISSING ROB |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by Seamareggae(m): 9:24pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
This ur matter get as e be.. . I hope when you meet another lady in abroad nd fall in love.... U go come ask for more advice here.. .. Goodluck bro... 1 Like |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by Gynah33(f): 9:25pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
You obviously didn't hear from God on this matter, that's why you are confused now. Go back to God ask for His help and He will. When it is God's leading your mind will be at rest. Talk to your pastor. |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by Sultty(m): 9:25pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
Y do u ask me, I'm not the love doctor ![]() 1 Like
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Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by donsteady(m): 9:29pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
tobaseye:At your age you still depend on pastor and men of God to tell you how to live your life. Smh 3 Likes |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by babyface224(f): 9:29pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
but why propose wen ur having doubts..yes age is not by ur side but the truth is, its not ur age that will make ur marriage work, u need to be happy n frankly u should be honest with ur self...this marriage ish is not a days job..n for the new crush, maybe she has some personality deposition in her that you love...it might be infatuation.. so my advise is sit down n remember what made you to be attracted to ur gf in d first place...then u talk to her based on what u've reasoned out...but I beg of u if in any way u find out that ur still not happy n still not convinced to take the next step with her, pls jst walk away... 1 Like |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by yhemsy62(m): 9:30pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
Benita27:God will bless you more than you can ever imagine in your life. Marriage is a life time course, you don't go into it out of pity 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by Btruth: 9:33pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
All I could see in all your story is that you are not in love with the other girl. And please, don't because of your church drag yourself into that marriage with the lady, so that both of you will not suffer for it. Be a man. Take a break and re-search for another bird. My one pence though! Be good. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by Tobium1(m): 9:42pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
After some month I was given the permission from the Church to propose to her, Ok, I was about to give my own advice, but den, dis line struck me cold and I lost idea of the wat to say 1 Like |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by JennieCutie4U(f): 9:43pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
bro, marriage is a lifelong commitment, its forever so u hv to be careful. don't marry out of pity or sentiment. from ur long piece, I can see dat you don't completely or really love dis girl enough to marry her and u r going to cheat on her if u go ahead to marry her trust me, so just pray hard about it and afterwards, if you still don't hv peace about the relationship or taking the next step in it, just quit!..... but sha u'll break d girl's heart o chai, 7months?? nd u r just realising dis now ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by Olanna45(f): 9:43pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
tobaseye:Marriage requires more than feelings... Feelings fizzle away... Look for a woman that can keep and make a home.. One that will be a support system to you... A great mother and an adorable wife.. Not all that gilitters is gold ohh ..some na romanian steel. Finally, good things sometimes do not come in attractive packages.. Study both ladies and see who has the traits to make a good home feelings should be secondary ohh..... 1 Like |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by ekems2017(f): 9:44pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
Bros marriage is not something you rush in so that you won't rush out. Keep physical beauty aside. There was something you saw in her that made you see her as a wife material. Let's forget church for now cos it's only two of you that will stay together and not church. Sometimes the devil might want to deprive you of your joy by bringing distraction. On the other hand this new girl what qualities have you found in her? What if she is in a relationship and just want someone to play around? I won't tell you to choose anyone. Take sometime off go back to your God talk to him. And pls if you are convince you don't want your wife to be. The earlier you let her know the better to avoid wasting her time. God will see you through. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by 400billionman: 9:45pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
tobaseye: Shey nah your church go marry the girl for you ? My church said, my pastor said, her family said. You are not ripe for marriage.. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by linearity: 9:45pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
Dude! Do both of you a BIG favor, don't marry her, be open and tell her the reason. Also, don't keep her waiting, you are tying her down, the early you release her, the better. Be a man, summon the courage and make that call and tell her that, you are sorry that it is not going to work. In life, you have to learn that, no matter what you do, it is impossible to please everyone. No matter where you face while standing, your back will still be turned against half of the planet and it's beauty and that is how it is in life. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by Opakan2: 9:46pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
your case is similar to one married olosho here on Nairaland camouflaging as romance writer to do coded internet runs They marry for marriage sake without proper counsel and consideration. They will now go about looking for young naive boys to take advantage of, even boys below 18yrs are not spared @OP don't be like those ones in loveless marriages who hide secretly to call opposite sex at ungodly hours.. free the babe if you are not so attached, you'll surely meet new, cool ones But your age sha.. it's far gone |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by jfleece(m): 9:47pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
If u don't have feelings for someone I suggest u allow her go and focus on the lady u love, simple.... |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by fuludu: 9:48pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
U be big fool permission of the church to propose. So the church will now give u permission to sleep with ur her when u do make up ur mind to marry her. Na small small boy dey worrry u 1 Like |
Re: I'm 36 Not Sure If I Love My Fiancee And I Don't Want To Cheat On My Wife. by Jimi23(m): 9:48pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
If u don't love her pls let her go. If u marry her and break up with her ul make matters worse. |
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