Okay guys.

Something big happened in a facebook group that I am and I would appreciate your sincere interaction here.

Here's the story,and names were changed so do not expect me to reveal their real identity..and the screenshots weren't from me,I saved them. Just incase you're wondering.

Amaka visited Chuka in his crib with the plans of collecting a phone from him that he wants to buy for her,so she came very late like around 3pm or so and couldn't get the itel S31 that he promises to get her so she slept over at his crib claiming "we're just friends" and like i heard,they said she had plans to spend the night at his crib that was why she came that late and she spent the night and said chuka was pressuring her for sex which she didn't come for,so she had no choice but to give in and now she said "He Raped Me"

Although we do not have the real identity of amaka because some guys were advocating for her and they concealed the identity because they said she's shy to come out and prove it,because everyone is in doubt about this issue because chuka is not someone that's a pervert at all,although he's a guy but I do not think he's capable of RAPE,he's good looking and very tall and cool,so this got a lot of people on the "WTF mood".

But what baffles me are,Why did she visit a guy and even sleep over at his house,they met in that Facebook group oh,not even real life or church or school,just facebook!!!Why did she even have the intention of collecting a phone worth over 28k orso from a guy that's not even your boyfriend or daddy.

And I would like girls to learn from this too,please dont visit a guy that your relationship isn't certified with him,please do not accept gifts from guys if you've nothing to offer. Its just sad how RAPE issues are increasing day by day because of our NEGLIGENCE.

and now this issue is a very serious one but I would like your opinion on this issue,it happened last week though,just last week Friday!!

And here some screenshot provided by those advocating for amaka's justice below which looks fake to me as I see no reason why you'll claim " RAPE" and hide it because you're shy,although the Facebook posts had been taken down but I was lucky to get the screenshots on my phone where she was narrating her story.

Feel free to drop your sincere opinion on this..

After av opened it wide

You met someone of fb and he promised you a fone, you went to his place and he raped you...

Even the Nigerian police will insult you

The cow of a lady is confused. She must have even enjoyed the thing

Is never a force please don't put words in her mouth

soo what was now ur itention

Going to spend the nite with him witawt the intention of having sex??

Nawa ooh!!...U can't calc the simple maths baah??

If she goes to court and say "he did not force me", her case file would be closed. A rape is considered a rape only in a situation where you did not consent and penetration took place thru coercion or threat. In this case He pressured her and she consented.

mtcheew

Stwepid gurl, what did you expect when you spent a night with him And you are coming here crying a victim

What's the "chuka" guy saying??

Cuz nowadays, things ain't as it seems,
but the fact that u decided to see a guy at that time, and still insisted on sleeping over, mehn, #OYO oo.

E fit be say y'all were even fooling around, and after the act, he refused to buy the phone, n she's looking for how to do payback, or what she said actually happened.

The truth is, u Dont crash in a person's house (guy or girl), that u ain't sure of, because someone looks gentle no mean say na gentle person

I don't understand, he pressured you and you succumbed.
How is that rape?

u mean he forced you, or you both enjoyed it

Babe wey no get sense, na her pussy dey suffer am.

This is not rape, it was simply a transaction... Give me pussy and take phone.

Do you moan? yes or no

Dude promised you a phone, you went to get it and decided to sleep over...is he your father that he won't want to touch you?...I won't be surprise if the guy didn't even buy the phone and still slept with her.

Raving of a frustrated stupid girl!.

Evrytin now na rape,rape upandan nobody x phucking anymore,ppl r now raping hia n dia odikwaegwu...

You went to a guy's house and sleep over because he promised you a phone.

If the guy didn't "collect" I for abuse am well well

mtcheeew

OP! the lady indicated from the screenshot that the guy didn't force her now, so its not rape. The guy only pressurizes her (geggenpressing). She must have anticipated some groping the moment she decided to sleep over...case disclosed

make dem ask the babe very well whether the thing no pass one round.... Rape ko... Rope ni

Girls of nowadays sef, how are we sure it is actual rape

I can't believe I'm typing this but honestly speaking... She's the root cause of her predicament...

Although the guy is a dog...

that not rape...... the bitch enjoy the dick

agrovick:
I don't understand, he pressured you and you succumbed.

How is that rape?

How is it not rape?
I once went for a concert with a supposed friend,it ended quite late and i could not go back to school,had to spend the night in his place,i shared my fears about sleeping over and he calmed all of them saying "he isn't that type of guy" Filled with reassurance i opted to go,i barely had started sleeping when he came on strong on me,it was a struggle till the next morning,i couldn't sleep,as early as 5am i left the house.If i hadn't fought hard enough,or if i lost the will and gave in and most importantly if he didn't relent his efforts due to my continued struggle it definitely would have been a different story.Sex should be 100% mutual,i don't see why an adult should be coaxed or cajoled into doing something that should entirely be out of freewill.

chiwetel:
How is it not rape?
I once went for a concert with a supposed friend,it ended quite late and i could not go back to school,had to spend the night in his place,i shared my fears about sleeping over and he calmed all of them saying "he isn't that type of guy" Filled with reassurance i opted to go,i barely had started sleeping when he came on strong on me,it was a struggle till the next morning,i couldn't sleep,as early as 5am i left the house.If i hadn't fought hard enough,or if i lost the will and gave in and most importantly if he didn't relent his efforts due to my continued struggle it definitely would have been a different story.Sex should be 100% mutual,i don't see why an adult should be coaxed or cajoled into doing something that should entirely be out of freewill.

Its like they think your being in the house automatically makes them entitled to sleep with you.

We should start an awareness campaign to teach them that girls visiting you doesn't mean go ahead and force her

chiwetel:
How is it not rape?
I once went for a concert with a supposed friend,it ended quite late and i could not go back to school,had to spend the night in his place,i shared my fears about sleeping over and he calmed all of them saying "he isn't that type of guy" Filled with reassurance i opted to go,i barely had started sleeping when he came on strong on me,it was a struggle till the next morning,i couldn't sleep,as early as 5am i left the house.If i hadn't fought hard enough,or if i lost the will and gave in and most importantly if he didn't relent his efforts due to my continued struggle it definitely would have been a different story.Sex should be 100% mutual,i don't see why an adult should be coaxed or cajoled into doing something that should entirely be out of freewill.

Let me emphatically state I condemn rape.

I see where you said if you lost the will which is what I'm emphasizing, they had sex because the lady SUCCUMBED to the guy's pressure. She wasn't RAP.ED, they had s.ex after she caved from her initial stance of no.
If she had screamed her LUNGS out, are you saying the neighbors wouldn't have torn down the door to the guy's place?

If she had locked herself INTO the toilet/bathroom and refuse to come out till day break when she is ready to leave will the guy break down the door?

There is no doubt the dude acted antisocial but going by the narrative of the story, it wasn't rape.


BTW, you do need to scrutinize your friends well. The fact that you have/once had a friend who tried to take advantage of you calls for concern.

I had a similar experience back in school with a lady who came house hunting in my lodge and then decided to keep her stuff at my place pending when she sorts herself. Something came up that led to her sleeping over at my place and that was less than a month after we first met, we slept on the same bed but I made sure I was on my best behavior. Till today, that act of mine still surprises her.

As individuals we do need to be watchful of the kind of persons we let into our lives.

who rape who? forget that thing, unless the babe did the raping. you met a guy on group chat ( point 1), visited him in d evening ( point2), to collect a phone of 20k plus ( point3), slept in his place intentionally ( point4). judgement loading................ the babe is guilty of wanting to fornicate and fornicated, she is hereby sentence to buharis ear problem without cure since she be mumu. cooooouuuurrrrrtttt!

monlawal:
If she goes to court and say "he did not force me", her case file would be closed. A rape is considered a rape only in a situation where you did not consent and penetration took place thru coercion or threat. In this case He pressured her and she consented.

Very true but what was she expecting sleeping at his place, prayer?

pwettiejay:

Very true but what was she expecting sleeping at his place, prayer?

lolzz. I think so or maybe she thought he would do some magic in the night and the phone would just appear from somewhere. Guys aint gat when a girl is on the bed. #Fact101

Babe is only vexed because she is yet to collect her phone from the dude, this is just cheap blackmail...like say she no enjoy am, she run go tender her yansh without collecting her phone, now she dey feel cheated.shioor

you cant rape the willing.