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She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by igidaduro: 10:36am On Feb 02, 2017 |
There are somethings i really don't understand. A friend needs an advice. The story goes:- I met this lady 2 yrs ago or more she didn't say yes until last year September or so, i figure out that are supposed bf broke her h@, So i was very careful and everything was fine then i discover she couldn't get over the guy so i asked her if she was going to leave me if the guy comes back Then she started crying (that was a yes for me) i pet her not to cry cos I can't withstand her tears i let her realise I care and want something serious that's why I ask. Later I discover she stop/reduce the time we see her attitude changed so i ask her and i got to know she is back with her ex. All this happened within 2 month. So i put myself together as i saw it coming i try to comfort her that I know it's not easy for her.she said she still want to be my friend which i didnt object. Fast forward to late January she told me she want me to get a woman for mysef that she is getting married this month February, so as a good guy i kept my distance from Her i don't want to affect a relationship. Suddenly she started complaining that am avoiding her blah blah and have changed, this continued for days so I decided to visit her, one of the days I went to her place i tried to get close to her(just to know her motive, if that's what she wanted) she objected but she won't still stop chatting me. Up till midnight and as early as 6 in the morning. Now i don't even know what she want. Abeg una ladies wetin this kain babe dey find ooo her wedding shud be 2 weeks from now 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by peter0071(m): 10:42am On Feb 02, 2017 |
Abeg talk something else.... it takes two to tango.... stop pushing the blames on her... you are also playing your own parts... please stay away from the married woman if you really respect her marriage 173 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by newyorks(m): 10:42am On Feb 02, 2017 |
u're her pain reliever.if u understand my point. 58 Likes |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by kilokeys(m): 10:43am On Feb 02, 2017 |
you are an accessory in her makeup bag maybe the eye shadow... she needs that idea that someone somewhere cares about her she is sick.. and u are the placebo 40 Likes |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by igidaduro: 10:47am On Feb 02, 2017 |
peter0071:Bro Peter you probably don't get the point am not pushing the blame on her, but thanks anyway 3 Likes |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by igidaduro: 10:48am On Feb 02, 2017 |
newyorks:Maybe i understood maybe not Abeg explain |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by igidaduro: 10:48am On Feb 02, 2017 |
kilokeys:Hmmm |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by KevMitnick: 10:50am On Feb 02, 2017 |
You are a means to an end. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by newyorks(m): 10:52am On Feb 02, 2017 |
igidaduro:she njoys ur chattin skills and ur torelance.maybe u are good at polishin heartbroken ladies. 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by igidaduro: 10:56am On Feb 02, 2017 |
newyorks:Lol thanks, but tolerance isn't in my dico 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by peter0071(m): 11:09am On Feb 02, 2017 |
it is well... All i am trying to explain is that you must do everything possible to cut the relationship since she is getting married to another man... from the way you spoke, you like her... but this is what you ought to do...no matter the cost... she is leading to a corner that may have consequences igidaduro: 10 Likes |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by joliyp(f): 11:17am On Feb 02, 2017 |
ok.....ds wont end well 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by joliyp(f): 11:18am On Feb 02, 2017 |
ok.....ds wil nt end well 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by Nobody: 11:18am On Feb 02, 2017 |
Bro.. .just be yourself, tell her how things stands between u 2 now, do not be an obstacle between the two couples.. .as I see with what you wrote up there, you said the ex broke her heart...this somehow indicates that the marriage "may" not last.. Now u shouldn't keep urself too close to this woman.. .its clear she wants u BUT bro, just as a friend.. Know your place. 8 Likes |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by igidaduro: 11:20am On Feb 02, 2017 |
joliyp:How? Am not understanding |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by lodphil(m): 11:25am On Feb 02, 2017 |
You should ve cut all contact with the chick when she went back to her ex.I mean delete her number from your phone,block her on whatsapp,give her a wide berth.Don't allow people that are confused to also sow confusion in your life. 127 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by dacovajnr: 11:27am On Feb 02, 2017 |
infatuation at work |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by ikp120(m): 12:05pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
Your guy dey turn her brain like DJ Crazy, but she no wan do kerewa with him because say she don marry. Is that hard to get? ***Changes gear*** Your nigga is in the god damn fvckless friend zone of a fvcking married lady mehn. Tell ya nigga to just see her as a nice assed friend who has no fvck for him, and just go get a fvcking girlfriend, because this one is both fvckless and married. ***Changes gear*** Igota go? 5 Likes |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by lodphil(m): 12:09pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
ikp120:what's up bro |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by Silas0(m): 12:11pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
lodphil:end of discussion! 9 Likes |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by ikp120(m): 12:13pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
lodphil:I'm cool man, and you? |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by lodphil(m): 12:17pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
ikp120:great bro,you promised your guy one E-book lyk that.Pls is it ready,even if it means purchasing it. |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by ikp120(m): 12:34pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
lodphil: Bro abeg just forget it. The thing no dey stable like that. I can't just give you something that's not stable and reliable, even if it's for free. |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by lodphil(m): 12:52pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
ikp120:Ok,no probs bro. |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by megareal: 1:23pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
She just needs a friend. 1 Like |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by yomi96(m): 1:56pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
op as big as u r u dnt knw??
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Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by fumisko(f): 2:00pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
megareal:And the guy she is marrying is what? 10 Likes |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by megareal: 2:00pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
fumisko: A husband. |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by frugal(m): 4:00pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
You asked her if she was going to leave you if the other guy comes back, then she started crying. Lol. No comment. 1 Like |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by Headlesschicken(m): 4:29pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
Let go of d confused gal,life x too confusing dis days,so y add more stress 2d burden,buh I guess 1of d reasons y she didn't wnt 2b wiv u was cos of yuh english nigga u slayed dt sh!t up dia... |
Re: She Is Getting Married But She Won't Let Me Be. #help by Chuknovski(m): 4:36pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
give her a send forth gift she would never forget from your loins,over load her with the cassava 3 Likes |
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