One word:RUN

Curioussme:
if I'm not dating it would be much better not the one someone is dating and it's like am not. Cos there's nothing to show for it. Obviously, I can't brag about such a man

Your entitlement feeling is legit high. I have friends like you. I always tell them a peeeniis don't make him any different.

Please go work hard too

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last time you where asking us if you should have sex with him
www.nairaland.com/3487464/should-let-him-sex-me

You do everything except having sex, what do you think is sex? You already had sex with him. When you have kissed, hold your body and soul together, suck your breast, finger you, my dear you are wasting your time saying you are a virgin. It's all religious beliefs.

Jesus Christ said when you see a woman and you just desire in mind, oh what a beautiful girl, I'd love to have sex with her, you already have sex.


The issue is that you have to be real to your man. You are not being real. You are hiding something from him and he knows too. Change your ways and he will be surprise you.

why will he give you money when u no give him sex

Op is finished! 8pages of bashing back to back... mod who took this to FP is evil

Outside of buta chicks, for any other Nigerian girl, a relationship is a transaction of money for sex. End of

thehedge:
hehehe true? the why don't y'all wait for girls to demand sex first? maybe that way you even get to charge them for it. heediot. keep deceiving yourselves.

Its your type that either beg for sex after spending money or result to rape cos you dont have the charm to attract it..

Harinholar:
@op just fall out....You won't be surprised seeing comments like is he ur dad,is he a Ponzi scheme to u and the rest...Love is a give and take affairs.....He is a thief....Cos I don't see anything bad in helping each other bfor marriage...No big deal and remember that when you start well you end well....#shalom#

Thank God u said helping each other.... U wanna make a relationship a Ponzi scheme? Like seriously??

Curiousme, you're just one of those opportunistic girlfriends... You don't want him to have sex with you, and you want him to alleviate your poverty. You cannot eat your cake and have it. No such thing as free meal.
#NoPremaritalSex#NoPremaritalSpending
Two-faced opportunist

Harinholar:
Bring your pair of 3D glasses both red and blue colour make I use am read am well... Idiot###



#useless broke nigga#

Lol. Bit*ch! I can never be as broke as your boyfriends/husbands and brothers combined together.

Empty piece of pipe, my guess is that you are a typical Ibadan bimbo who jump from one man's bed to the other with nothing to offer but a smelly kpekus.

Cretinous fvcktard. Never make the mistake of exchanging blogs with me -- by the time I an done whitewashing you, you'll regret ever registering on this platform.

Run along and don't lemme find you on my mentions again.

CandiceJay:
Responsibility kwa... Some ladies can't seize to amaze. When did paying house rents and financial stuffs become a responsibility for a "boyfriend"??

Nna ehnnn my sister na the responsibility part of the story taya me pass! If the boyfriend's responsibility is to pay her house rent, what then becomes the husband's own?
Yet they would still be the same ones to make noise on social media educating females to always remember their girlfriend boundaries, telling females to remember that girlfriend duties are different from wife duties, and crowning it up gender equality.
After everything said and done on the gender equality battle na this kain trash go come out of their mouth. The topic sef is so odd: "My boyfriend is dodging his responsibility" and what is the responsibility? House rent!
Chai my sisters y'all should grow up and learn to discern boyfriend's responsibilities different from husband's responsibilities

And for all of you making noise about Sex. If you have not so cheapened yourselves before the man with unnecessary money requests, you would have been able to say no when he asks for Sex and stand your ground. Its not your girlfriend responsibility to satisfy him sexually, that's a wife responsibility. If u choose to sex him then that's what it is - A CHOICE. Don't come here to make noise abt men wanting Sex without giving money. You be ashawo?
Just like he said no to giving u money, you too can say no to having sex. All na choice. Nobody force u, if dem force u, report it as rape.

But pls y'all shld stop embarrassing us by bringing Sex into this lazy girl's matter.

Men too... You that is accepting wifely duties from your girlfriend why can't you man-up and do husbandly duties for her? She would cook for you, wash your clothes, clean your house, having all manner of sex styles with you, abort babies for you or even give birth for you, pray for you, plan with you, and you would still have mouth to say she asked for money when she ain't your wife. Broz wetin else remain wey wife suppose do wey she no de do?

Harinholar:
@op just fall out....You won't be surprised seeing comments like is he ur dad,is he a Ponzi scheme to u and the rest...Love is a give and take affairs.....He is a thief....Cos I don't see anything bad in helping each other bfor marriage...No big deal and remember that when you start well you end well....#shalom#

"Love is a give and take affairs", but according to her narration, she has only been taking without giving and she is now announcing it because the taking is having some issues.
U call him a thief, pls what exactly did he steal?
Hmm, nothing bad in helping each other b4 marriage, pls which help has she rendered for the past 4 yrs of dating? If she has been of help, she would have stated it, but in the story, she has been good only in getting that help and never the other way round.
Pls is dating a form of employment for the ladies?

Yeeeeee! Igboro ti daaru!

Biko no mind them. Na your bobo. You guys are supposed to have each other's back. If he's being unsupportive as a BF, oyo is your case when you guys get married.

Boyfriend, not ATM.

[quote author=IHate9jerians post=53434889]This is just one of the mentalities possessed by the average nigerian woman that makes me hate them with a burning passion.Anyway,i blame the ever stupid nigerian men for always indulging the worthless nigerian women.If they didn't,the women wouldn't be so demanding of them[/quote
I believe you are Nigerian and your sisters too.

Curioussme:
if I'm not dating it would be much better not the one someone is dating and it's like am not. Cos there's nothing to show for it. Obviously, I can't brag about such a man

Girl u r nt serious, what do u define relationship to be? In as much as he is suppose to support u once in a while, its nt his responsibility. Is it all about money? Am dating a guy that is nt financially bouyant and we ve been together for 3yrs, i work for my money, i rather give him than collect, i just helped him pay his rent without him asking for my help, girl learn how nt to depend on a guy.

woman! lean on me no be press me die. No one throws around money easily like that. He is being prudent you are being too demanding. Get a means of livelihood and demand less.

rossi5:


Must she vomit everything ...and must u guys use sex as prerequisite.. I can't remember advising u by the way all she is asking is support..hello.

Sharrap. Very lame defence. "Must she vomit everything"? After stating how she has been collecting from this innocent young man, she did not state how she has been of help to him, and you are here asking if she must vomit everything. The truth is that there is absolutely nothing to vomit cos it is very obvious she has practically turned this man to a free atm machine. She only complain when the atm machine temporarily cannot dispense. She made this clear in one of her reactions when she said she cannot brag of this dating and if she is not dating she knows she is not.
Abeg, dating na full time employment for ladies?

Go get a job

Harinholar:
I wll never encourage a lady to be lazy...of course we need to be hardworking than u..guys..yeah....cos it commands respect for us as a lady...BUT guys should not in any way hide his responsibility ONLY if his babe understand he doesn't have...You are man bro...wake up ...Your responsibility should be your responsibility even if she get money pass dangote....That's my point

Thank you dear

This was u some 3 months ago

Curioussme:
Hi guys, I've been in a relationship for about 4 years now. We've never had sex, am a virgin and he knows. Though we smooch and do everything except sex cos we agreed at the beginning of the relationship to wait till marriage . Last time I went visiting him, to my surprise he went and bought condom, saying he got it to avoid stories that touch.

U don't gv ur bf pussy yet u expect husband responsibility from him?
The thunder that would fire u soon is doing rounds in sambisa

anigbajumo:


So??

Watin u dey expect b4,they are talking sense to her head not only her but every other dependent ladies like her...

what's wrong with this one

Mznaett:


As for me? It's been a long while I left naija guys to their fate of abusing women...
Without mincing words those guys sprewing rubbish here and there are sex starved teenagers who can't afford to take care of themselves not to talk about their ladies..

Once again,preach on sis!

Very right my dear.

if I'm not dating it would be much better not the one someone is dating and it's like am not. Cos there's nothing to show for it. Obviously, I can't brag about such a man [/quote]
it's because of girls like that u that men disrespect us! sister get a life!

Hey Madam,
What did you call him? Thank God you said is your boyfriend and not daddy.
The said boyfriend doesn't need to perform any responsibilities on you. What you guyz own each other is an obligations.

Chidonc:





last time you where asking us if you should have sex with him
www.nairaland.com/3487464/should-let-him-sex-me

now you are saying he is stingy
babe this is buhariya period, there is no free money to waste, who buys goods without inspecting it.

You be FBI?? How on earth did you dig that post. Boy people smart oo. I duff my hat for you.

About the matter, I gad nothing, I am neither the guy nor girl, and may suggestion would be relative, because we are humans and different rules

Curioussme:
if I'm not dating it would be much better not the one someone is dating and it's like am not. Cos there's nothing to show for it. Obviously, I can't brag about such a man

obviously with the way your brain works, you are not the kind of girl a real man should be serious with,that is the reason he has dated you for four years and no commitment, you believe in dating a man for what you can benefit from him,you want a Maga you can show off to your other shallow girlfriends, you believe that the only contribution you can offer in a relationship is sex,that is why you see it as a bargaining chip,babe grow up,guys are wiser.

Curioussme:
if I'm not dating it would be much better not the one someone is dating and it's like am not. Cos there's nothing to show for it. Obviously, I can't brag about such a man

this obviously is why your bf doesn't like spending on you. You feel entitled to his money, and you don't seem to want to live within your means.

It's not his responsibility to pay for your shyte. You aren't his wife, and with the look of things he isn't going to marry you either. You are like a leech and he isn't comfortable with it.

Curioussme:
Hi peeps, I've been dating this guy for almost 4 years now, and I've noticed when I need a major financial assistance from him, he'll just enter low key and be giving flimsy excuses like he doesn't have plans for me.

The most recent one that happened is that I need to pay my rent and the money with me isn't enough he's also giving excuses that he has commitments.

Sincerely, am tired of these excuses, I can't imagine getting married to a man who can't support me while am single what will he now do when we're married. He acts like someone who dodges responsibilities by all means.

Am confused right now,is he just a stingy person or what? The last time I needed money from him, I had to quarrel with him about it before he finally gave me money Guys pls help me out

When you are living alone and you depend on a next person to help you with your rent you are seen as liability . Men do not like that . Since you are not married restrict your ask to favours ie thing he want to do for you cos he wants to not the ones you ask . Cos he has options if you push him far He will leave nothing will happen .
Main while in this present age all girls should strive to provide for themselves as this is the sure way to not being g taken for a mug.

EmilyShoton:
my dear lady, its a pity I have to comment on this, just wanted to pass. first of all, are you maried to him that you expect him to pay your rent, is he your father or atm machine?

Its a pity how some of we ladies think. In this days, you cant earn your own money and is waiting your bf to pay your rent and give u money.

Is it not your mates making world records?

Girl wake up, go and work and you will see how he will appreciate you.

The day I started being responsible for my self was the day 1, I had peace if mind. 2. He started respecting me, 3. He even did what I didnt expect because he said he is impressed by my responsible nature.

You didnt come to this world to depend on men but to go out and succeed.

keep waiting for him to pay your rent biko.

Ezigbo mmadu

u no get parents?...na him send u go school?