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.... by Nobody: 3:02pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
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Re: .... by Nobody: 3:06pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
Divorce her. |
Re: .... by Sleekbaby(f): 3:11pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
Forgive her. 1 Like |
Re: .... by tossie101(f): 3:13pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
Hm |
Re: .... by oglalasioux(m): 3:23pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
This woman can never be loyal to you again. Women can do anything for money and fame. Has she needed anything you couldn't provide? If the Danladi of a man is way up in position above the both of you then there's trouble. Have you wondered why your wife doesn't seem to fight for transfer to where you are but always far from you? Dust up yourself and move on now. That woman is gone for good. 3 Likes |
Re: .... by wonlasewonimi: 3:23pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
Bros how you dey take do withdrawal method? |
Re: .... by Nobody: 3:26pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
Couples go through hard times. If she didn't sleep with this man, and she cheated emotionally then you guys should go for couples counselling and draw a line under this misfortunat experience and continue with your marriage. We all make mistakes and the question is do you want your marriage? Do you still love your wife? If you do then you must do the hard work and take whatever lessons this affair offered and work on your marriage. There's no relationship without heartache so don't expect yours to be any different. If you love her then do the work. I pray for your happy home. Amen. 5 Likes |
Re: .... by Sunnymatey(m): 3:31pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
tossie101:CHEATS GOT NO TRIBE 3 Likes |
Re: .... by Lagbaja01(m): 3:44pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
you both need to see a counsellor. |
Re: .... by Nobody: 4:44pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
Some women sha!, just imagine the sacrifices the man was making, yet she was ungrateful with some flimsy excuses. That her job isn't helping your marriage. Some women don't know how to stand blandishment from certain men who are hell-bent on getting under her skirts. She should resign and go into entrepreneurship. 1 Like |
Re: .... by Smhart1(f): 4:48pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
See divorce her everywhere SMH if it was the other way round it would have been forgive and forget. OP only you knows if you're willing to let go or not. Follow your mind. 1 Like |
Re: .... by Dyt(f): 5:00pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
All I can do is SMH |
Re: .... by sniperr007(m): 5:35pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
tossie101: Not into tagging pple with behavior but girls from d north no b am. 1 Like |
Re: .... by sniperr007(m): 5:35pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
Oga... Marriage na for life. Find a counselor to advise u guys. |
Re: .... by REDDEVILS1(m): 5:47pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
Some pple mumu oh, so u are asking us for what to do with a woman that planned to kill u with her lover? You no even want pple to know what she did. Seriously, I mean no disrespect. Nna Pls divorce that woman right away. Delete everything about her in your life. These two will just kill u. They will get back together any time soon. Your wife is in love with him. Pls to avoid stories that touch 3 Likes |
Re: .... by tossie101(f): 5:59pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
sniperr007:Hmm i neva knew o.. I used to think other wise |
Re: .... by WHOcarex: 6:56pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
This story sounds familiar. Like déjà vu. Like I read it before. way back |
Re: .... by Nancykay: 6:59pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
I see you really love and respect your wife, sometimes shit happens. It wouldn't be easy getting over that, why not sit with her and have a one on one discussion as adults, hear from her and ask her what she really wants, ( does she want to go with the other guy on remain with you) if she wants to be with you, fine she can stay, but then, you'll will have to gradually let go of the hurt, but if she chooses the other guy, let her go but before then involve her family and let them know what really happened and why she wants to go. If she continues to see the other guy that's if she has decided on staying with you, you have to talk to her parent to curtion her. I will also say its better she works her transfer back to her family or better still start a business of her own close to home for Christ sake she is a mother and her Children need her big time . there is always this thing about distant relationship that I'm so scared of.. Dunno if I'm the only one here sha. 1 Like |
Re: .... by keepingmum: 7:13pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
U don't trust ur wife U started been mean and harsh to her just based on ur insecurities ...without any proof U stopped loving and became cold/emotionally withdrawn without communicating to ur wife U allowed the devil whom ur wife had told u was nearby into ur home U don't even know for a fact she was pregnant...often times women experience missed periods for months due to several reasons from stress/hormonal changes etc and u just assume she was cheating on u? Ur insecurity led you to hit ur wife and become violent to her yet u reported ur wife to ur family that she has stopped been loving to u after bn physically violent. When will men learn that women are emotional beings? U now have it in ur head that ur wife wants to kill u simply because an ex toaster is in the picture? U need to change and start showing ur wife love and attention cos it's very rare for a happy woman to be content with posting miles away from their marital home if she is been shown love, attention and peace in the home. 3 Likes |
Re: .... by jchioma: 7:39pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
Free the woman jor! She and Danladi go tire. No bi fvck? I hate cheats. Especially in marriage. |
Re: .... by CuteCp(m): 8:30pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
That lady is takin advantage of you...u r just 2 good 4 her n she's very lucky she got married to some1 luke u....(Northern side) she knws if she get married to a hausa man...she 4 be 2nd or 3rd wife...n maybe competitin with 3 to 4 co-wifes..... That girl ain't loyal...she's already in luv with another man....oga goodluck with making ur marriage work....if i were u...I'll divorce her without lookin back...i don't 4giv such no matter hw good she was.... She'll never change...no wonder she isn't fighting d transfer....i beliv she's d one applyin 4 d transfer unknown 2u...that wiman can kill u anytime soon...she's desperate to be with her lover...oga run frm ur life oo Oga abeg leave that woman...u r a man u can still get married 2 a sweet 16 lady...mk she go roast with her lover... u deserve a loyal lady 1 Like |
Re: .... by limamintruth: 8:52pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
sniperr007: You must have been meeting the wrong ones then. And in that case the South girls are worst. 1 Like |
Re: .... by sisisioge: 8:54pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
Ohlordhavemercy! Chai! Since the deed has been done and she appears remorseful, can you arrange to move back to the same state with her? I meant having the family in the same location...Or, run! It can't be easy mehn! When women cheat, it's usually not physically alone. A lot of emotions is involved and anything can happen when people aren't thinking with their heads. Good luck...May God Himself settle this matter for you. 2 Likes |
Re: .... by Richy4(m): 9:32pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
wonlasewonimi: All those long epistle, was that the only thing you picked 2 Likes |
Re: .... by Davidgrey: 9:57pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
No comment! |
Re: .... by Nobody: 9:58pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
[quote author=CuteCp post=53597786]That lady is takin advantage of you...u r just 2 good 4 her n she's very lucky she got married to some1 luke u....(Northern side) she knws if she get married to a hausa man...she 4 be 2nd or 3rd wife...n maybe competitin with 3 to 4 co-wifes..... That girl ain't loyal...she's already in luv with another man....oga goodluck with making ur marriage work....if i were u...I'll divorce her without lookin back...i don't 4giv such no matter hw good she was.... She'll never change...no wonder she isn't fighting d transfer....i beliv she's d one applyin 4 d transfer unknown 2u...that wiman can kill u anytime soon...she's desperate to be with her lover...oga run frm ur life oo Oga abeg leave that woman...u r a man u can still get married 2 a sweet 16 lady...mk she go roast with her lover... u deserve a loyal lady[/quote |
Re: .... by Nobody: 10:08pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
. 1 Like |
Re: .... by sniperr007(m): 10:13pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
limamintruth: Maybe but d ones I ve met, watched from afar, even married. Dey no b am. Mayb its just me. |
Re: .... by Nobody: 11:54pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
J jchioma: |
Re: .... by Nobody: 12:09am On Feb 11, 2017 |
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Re: .... by Nobody: 12:30am On Feb 11, 2017 |
I keepingmum: |
Re: .... by Nobody: 12:37am On Feb 11, 2017 |
Mummy am not a coward to strike my wife. I swore never to beat any woman. keepingmum: |
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