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Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by jos945(m): 4:54pm On Feb 15, 2017
It is always a good feeling to love someone and be loved in return. But if I may ask, is this always the case in most relationships? Either Yes or No, it is certain that everyone is 100% in love with himself or herself.No doubt, relationship requires some level of commitment from both partners. At the point where one partner is finding it difficult to fulfill his or her own part of the commitment, then the relationship may likely end up in fatal crash.As a boyfriend in a typical Nigerian setting, you have some level of financial obligation to fulfill in other to satisfy your girl. If you cannot meet up, she will not only change your last name to “Hackergum” she will not also give you much needed attention.But as a single guy, your money is as free as a leg of a handicap on wheelchair. You will have the freedom to spend money on yourself and your immediate family.At least you won’t be thinking about buying your girlfriend Iphone 7 worth over400k when your parents who struggled to raise you are suffering in the village.Meanwhile, being in a relationship as a lady restricts freedom to enjoy life generally. You will agree with me that most guys are always curious of what their girl is doing at every point in time.Apart from this restriction, as a girlfriend you must be readily available to cook when he needs you, do his laundry as at when due and satisfy his sexual needs at all time. For this reason and many more, most ladies see relationship as a cage they don’t want to get locked in at any point in time.The point is, being single has a whole lots of freedom attached to it. As a single lady or guy, you don’t have to consider anyone’s feelings before taking actions and most importantly freedom with opposite sex will be fully secured and guaranteed as long as you are not emotionally attached with anybody.But then, every good thing has a bad side. Whether you are in a relationship or you’resingle, the two statuses have their own advantages and disadvantages.From your experience, which do you think is better, is it being in relationship or beingsingle?Let’s have your comments on this!

Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by classicgee(m): 4:57pm On Feb 15, 2017
being single
Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by Nobody: 4:58pm On Feb 15, 2017
Being a fvckboy
Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by dingbang(m): 5:01pm On Feb 15, 2017
Being in a matured relationship
Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by BiafranBushBoy: 5:01pm On Feb 15, 2017
Being in a Relationship smiley

It feels like heaven on earth wink
Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by Nobody: 5:02pm On Feb 15, 2017
walai I prefer my sanity, being single rocks but we all need someone in our life at a point in time.

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Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by classicgee(m): 5:02pm On Feb 15, 2017
being single is the best cuz as a young fellow u are able to pursue your dreams without distractions but being committed to sm1 has limitations....dating is a good thing and d feeling is great buh y cant that be later??.. i mean till when u have achieved many great things.. thank u
Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by SINZ: 5:04pm On Feb 15, 2017
Eating sharwarma cheesy
Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by oladipo322(m): 5:08pm On Feb 15, 2017
lolz..... OP u again
Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Feb 15, 2017
grin


I always like being in a relationship... But at the same time I wanna be single too tongue


But lemme ask my bae TrapHedges what he really wanted in his life..
Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by TrapHedges(m): 5:38pm On Feb 15, 2017
TrapQueen77:
grin


I always like being in a relationship... But at the same time I wanna be single too tongue


But lemme ask my bae TrapHedges what he really wanted in his life..

anything you want.. I want grin
Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by FTBOY: 5:43pm On Feb 15, 2017
being single and having easy access to pussy with no strings attached is ideal for the contemporary bachelor until he's ready to settle down with one.

no time for headache..

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Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by Brown14: 6:00pm On Feb 15, 2017
Both rock...

Being in a relationship is sweet IF its with d right person.

Being single is fun IF u r surrounded by d right peeps
Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by harffie(m): 6:12pm On Feb 15, 2017
Currently single and enjoying it but at the same time I'm searching for my girl..
Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by Spicylate(f): 6:19pm On Feb 15, 2017
Nawa oo all those intro for just the question: which is better-being in a relationship or being single?

OK...my own contribution is this: I think having a partner is kinda better than being single.
Reason:
1. With the right partner, you ain't bored.
2. He/she will add value to your life.
Etc

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Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by harffie(m): 8:24pm On Feb 15, 2017
Spicylate:
Nawa oo all those intro for just the question: which is better-being in a relationship or being single?

OK...my own contribution is this: I think having a partner is kinda better than being single.
Reason:
1. With the right partner, you ain't bored.
2. He/she will add value to your life.
Etc
He/she too can destroy your life.
Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by yearegods: 8:59pm On Feb 15, 2017
Spicylate:
Nawa oo all those intro for just the question: which is better-being in a relationship or being single?

OK...my own contribution is this: I think having a partner is kinda better than being single.
Reason:
1. With the right partner, you ain't bored.
2. He/she will add value to your life.
Etc

You're wise. God bless...

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Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by Spicylate(f): 9:23pm On Feb 15, 2017
yearegods:


You're wise. God bless...
God bless you too
Re: Let’s Talk!!! “which Is Better” Being In A Relationship OR Being Single? by Spicylate(f): 9:24pm On Feb 15, 2017
harffie:

He/she too can destroy your life.
that's why I said with the right partner

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