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Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Feb 15, 2017 |
There is quite a lot in the Bible about love . As a matter of fact according to Matthew 22: 34-40. Every command that is written in the Bible stems from love . Either loving God or loving your neighbour (that is anyone you come in contact with) . It even tells us about the ultimate display of love by Jesus Christ who lay down his life so our sins could be forgiven. The most well known passage about love is in 1 Corinthians 13 where we get the list of what love entails. The Bible also says a lot about lust. Matthew 5:27-30 Romans 1:18-32 2Samuel 11. Lust is self centered. It is all about putting your desires first without giving a thought to the person you are lusting after. What then is the difference between the two? The difference between love and lust is the attitude of the heart. If you are in love the attitude of your heart is one of selflessness with the other person as your focus Whereas If you are in lust the attitude of your heart is one of selfishness with you as the focus. So if you find yourself wandering about whether you are in love or not Ask yourself what is my heart attitude towards this person is it selflessness or selfishness ? The answer to these questions will be a pure indication if you are in Love or Lust . 1 Like |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by RoyalBlak007: 12:03pm On Feb 15, 2017 |
Errrrr...... It's not easy to be faithful....ya know ![]() |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by SINZ: 12:05pm On Feb 15, 2017 |
#TeamVirgin ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Feb 15, 2017 |
SINZ:hmmm |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 12:08pm On Feb 15, 2017 |
RoyalBlak007:you didn't give it a try |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by RoyalBlak007: 12:09pm On Feb 15, 2017 |
oilyqueen: I always look beyond what I see... So I can't try something I know won't work out #beingReal |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by firstking01(m): 1:26pm On Feb 15, 2017 |
Nice post. |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by jakandeola(m): 2:13pm On Feb 15, 2017 |
SINZ:lier |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 8:33pm On Feb 15, 2017 |
Hmmmm, have been reminded of a few things here. Kudos OP. You know guys could be deceptive and a girl never gets to differentiate based on whose desires he placed first. |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by dhardline(m): 11:44pm On Feb 15, 2017 |
Will read those passages once more. But you absolutely right though. |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 10:10am On Feb 17, 2017 |
Oilyqueen you are presently dealing with a snake. Avoid that guy called thesly.one. He's a hopeless womanizer. Just ignore him and save your happiness. I just studied some of his history and what a guy said about him He will stalk you mischievously. He will use all manner of smooth talking to get you and when he fails to get what he wants from you, he will resort to terrible blackmail. He will blackmail you in a way you never expected. Even as at yesterday he tried blackmailing another girl he has been chasing for a long time who refused him. Save yourself the trouble. This guy will stalk and blackmail you. You will so regret ever not ignoring him. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 10:17am On Feb 17, 2017 |
He will attack you if you don't mess around with him. You know you can't mess up, that means you are inviting unwarranted attacks and cheap blackmail by making out your time for nerds like him. His latest victim is someone i may not like but he showed himself for what he truly is. 1 Like |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 10:29am On Feb 17, 2017 |
karacta1:Oh, dumbass, IF you have the courage to dish out advice for your crush, you should be brave enough to mention my moniker well...how coward of you?? If you are talking of the recent chat between me and thornapple. Well she's isn't a crush, nether do I have reasons to chase her. Her approach to things is awkward hence my intervention. You know what, I don't get cowed with people tagging me all sort of names. It only goes a long way to show how much you have being stalking me... This is public forum, you don't just slander my person without any prove whatsoever. If you must forewarn someone, you shouldn't paint a bad picture of me to make the process look convincing.. You know what I think of you and your so called friend (Sincere4them or whatever), you two are suffering from chronic brain drainage. This is gradually resulting into lost of self's pride and inferior personality... You need to grow up sir 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 10:32am On Feb 17, 2017 |
karacta1:I don't normally do this but your growing stupidity leave me no choice... Take your advice, roll em up and Shove them into to your stinking ass... Bloody asshole |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by 2dice01: 10:38am On Feb 17, 2017 |
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Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by EasyMind(m): 10:45am On Feb 17, 2017 |
here we go again |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 10:59am On Feb 17, 2017 |
TheSlyone2: I will not respond to your insults. That you saw the advice i gave to my queen as soon as i posted it is because you are already stalking her right now. I know she made herself available for you to razzle that is why i tried advising her the way i did without mentioning you directly but you quickly saw it cos you've already started stalking and hunting her. You are lucky i'm a changed man now otherwise i would've taken you down in one clean swoop. oilyqueen is a sister to my friend, sincere4u. My encounter with him made me a better person otherwise when i first came here i was as wild as you. An untamed animal like you shouldn't associate with her. She deserves better people around her. I have already sent out an IM to sincere4u warning him his sister is in danger and i hope he'll respond and come online. One thing i want to warn you is to stop stalking her, leave her alone. Hurt her by any form of blackmail and i will dig your grave in this forum. Don't hurt, don't stalk her, or you will have me as your worst nightmare. mark my words. You are just a hopeless womanizer. Wat makes you the worst kind is that when a girl refuses to accept your advances, you attack her personality anf pride. By so doing you have the mind of a hopeless rapist. That is exactly what they do. Once a girl refuses them, they force and rape her. Other guys would just walk away when they are refused but not rapists like you. I am not afraid for her cos you certainly can't woo her no matter how hard you try. You couldn't get Thorn/apple not to talk of my Queen. What i am concerned about is your stalking her and hurting her. Try it and i will bury you. That's a promise from me, mark my words you shameless rapist. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 11:08am On Feb 17, 2017 |
TheSlyone2: You severally tried to convince thorn/apple to look away from my friend. You are not even half the man he is that is why no girl really has much interest in you. I have nothing to tell you cos by insulting her brother you have already ended your move on her. Be sure she has now gotten the message. Hurt her and that is when i will pull your head off your body. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 11:09am On Feb 17, 2017 |
wawu i am here to enjoy fight ![]() ![]() ride on guys ![]() |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 11:21am On Feb 17, 2017 |
My Queen if not that you are a very busy person i would have asked you to look up all the interactions this guy has had with Thorn/apple from the beginning and you will see what i am talking about. He had been razzling her for days and just as at yesterday turned to attack her. It was even another lady that asked her to ignore him and asked him why he has been stalking the poor girl. At the end of the day, HE STILL WENT BACK TO HER TO ASK HER WHY SHE HAS BEEN SO DIFFICULT.. I have also seen what a fellow guy once wrote about him. It was so obvious the guy knew him well. I really don't have the time else i would've shown you some of what i had been talking about even beyond yesterday's event to show you for how long he's been on her and the way he went about it but i know he will go back to adjust or delete his statements/interactions with her. I think i have done my part and trust you know what to do. just that i don't want to see you go/deactivate by the time he resorts to hunting and blackmailing you for been difficult. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 11:21am On Feb 17, 2017 |
karacta1:Look at this hopeless fool talking. Firstly, you claimed mentioning me codedly was wise but I tell you, it is a plain stupidity. Wasn't stalking your so called sister before I stumbled on your piece of trash. You should have hidden your idiocy by not highlighting my monicker... Secondly, you claimed you are doing her a favor by advising her on here. Heck, she is your damn sister, why not engage her in a rather more confidential and polite manner?. Why do you have to go about the whole thing with sheer show of stupidity. I mean if you must advice, why not call her phone or chat her out privately. Or do I have reasons to believe that your fear of losing her to a stand up Nairalanders prompted this nonsense? Thirdly, you claim you have already sent it out IM to Sincere4u claiming that her sister is in danger... How low of you. This is public forum. People dialogue and relate with each other. By so doing ideas are shared. If you so claim that she could be raped on Nairaland then tell her to stay the fvck out of this place. Lastly and most importantly, you claim you have a remarkable relationship with this lady. My question however is this, don't you have her contact details? Why can't you engage her in a rather more private manner? My remarks of you however; your friendship with this lady over time is still hanging in the friendship zone. You couldn't man up to take the friendship to the next hence your bizarre sense of attachment.. It is however important you stay clear of involving me in any of those strategies you have mapped to garner her sympathy... 2 Likes |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by SINZ: 11:23am On Feb 17, 2017 |
Berlynn: Lol, Aproko! ![]() Nothing passes you by ![]() **sits right next to her** |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 11:26am On Feb 17, 2017 |
karacta1:Stop sounding like a pathetic idiot... Common when would you start using brains.. This is social media, why are you so worked up with irrelevant issues . Well, just so you know, you and your pathetic friends might find solace on Nairaland love. I don't... I'm a stand up guy. I prefer a more direct approach to things. Not this shiii you both are covered with 2 Likes |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 11:31am On Feb 17, 2017 |
Berlynn: My dear there is no fight going on here. I have changed and a better man today from my association with oilyqueen and her brother sincere4u. In my former self, this hopeless womanizer that goes by the name of theslyone2 won't stand me cos i knew how to handle rapists like him. Why do i use the word rapist, that is because he is the only guy i see here you would attack and blackmail a female nairalander for not yielding to him. You will agree with me that is the way of rapists. If a girl doesn't want a guy, why not just leave her alone than resorting to blackmail and attacks?. This pains me cos i have sisters too and could imagine if it was my sister that was been virtually raped. The lady he has come after this morning happen to be a sister to a guy i have much respect for and has learned much from him. 1 Like |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by SINZ: 11:34am On Feb 17, 2017 |
Well, I think the girl opened a thread to address a neutral issue, it was nothing personal. |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 11:36am On Feb 17, 2017 |
karacta1:Oh Mehn, this shiii is so getting serious Are you this low in thinking? Where have you kept your senses of reasoning?? How dare you tag someone a rapist on social platform... I think I'm dealing with fool whose have since lost his sense of entitlement... You are delusional... No doubt. If you don't want your sister to be raped, tell her to stay clear this forum . Idiot 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 11:38am On Feb 17, 2017 |
Theslyone2, i have just busted you for all i care, rain all the insults you want. When Oilyqueen comes online she'll see all these and take precaution. Leave her alone hopeless RAPIST. THESLYONE2 THE RAPIST My advice for every female nairalander is to be very careful with you in particular. 1 Like |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 11:42am On Feb 17, 2017 |
TheSlyone2: She's going no where, she is here for noble purposes and will stay. You won't change that and that is why i have quickly exposed you to save her from becoming your victim. 1 Like |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 11:43am On Feb 17, 2017 |
karacta1:I'm quite sure your so called oilyqueen or thornapple or Sincere4u or whatever should have brains more than you. Well, you think by defaming my person on here will help you garner sympathy but It doesn't work like that son. It only make me stronger and popular... When you grow the balls to come out with concrete proves as to the allegations you made, feel free to engage me in a more civilised discuss... I only deal with sane minds not some bloody lunatics without bearing and direction 2 Likes |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by rose54321: 11:51am On Feb 17, 2017 |
That you ask this question points to the direction of lust. You cannot love someone and question it. Now that I've read the post I see how unrelated my response is and how misleading the title is. |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 11:51am On Feb 17, 2017 |
karacta1:You must be so mad to have place so much importance on Nairaland... Grow your stinky ass up |
Re: Am I In Love Or Lust? by Nobody: 11:58am On Feb 17, 2017 |
TheSlyone2:Loser and RAPIST. Stop mentioning sincere4u cos you are not half the man he is. He doesn't even know you but in trying to get a girl you severally tried to compare yourself to him and defame him. Even here you started by insulting his person directly yet while trying to woo his sister. You are just a hopeless and incorrigible RAPIST every female nairalander should beware of. I have sent a mail to her brother, sincere4u. I only hope he'll see it and come online to see the python i just caught under his sister's bed. 1 Like 2 Shares |
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