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Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Jammiiee(m): 6:28am On Feb 18, 2017

Tnx very much bro, I understand u clearly already. Was just curious. But with ur explanation and many others, I can draw my conclusion that with time n experience, as a profession, it doesn't pull any effect on majority of u in the field. Tnx

SonofHim:

What I'm trying to get you to understand is to see these things from a gynaecologist's perspective. He sees breast not boo, he palpates to feel a lump not fondles. The breast is just a mass of fat fibrous tissues and blood vessels. When he does a vaginal examination he's feeling or looking out for abnormal tissue architecture. The mind has been conditioned that way.
There's no need to be uneasy with your male gynaecologist.

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by dokyOloye: 6:32am On Feb 18, 2017

Jammiiee:
Must it always be about saving lives? How about a normal checkup, where u ain't sick or sth, but they av to examine ur boobs either for lumps or examine ur downside and test u for cervical cancer or what have you? What happens in such scenarios

Boobs examinations are mostly done in surgical clinics or other busy clinics where there are probably other doctors,nurses,etc in d same room and the only thing separating U and them is just that thin hospital screen.
Assuming U are a sicko and d devil hijacks U to misbehave, what if the woman then screams or shouts?
Is ur own not finished as per d profession?
There is just no way,and too many checks n balances,cos U are even supposed to have a chaperone of d same gender wt d patient if U are of d opposite gender during even abdominal examination, talk more of breast or vagina.
U are supposed to call even if it's a cleaner or even another patient of d same gender,though b/cos of d busy nature of our clinics here and cos Ur mind is free,most ppl don't bother wasting that time.

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Princedapace(m): 6:34am On Feb 18, 2017

Dfinex:
lol @topic. I used to feel same way before. ..those guys don't see u as a man/woman., they only see u as a human anatomy. ...lolsss

but truth is those guys don't have ur time....like going by the number of women they meet how many will they now have relationships with .....of all professions medical doctors are the less promiscuous (I stand to be corrected though )......cos the few I have made friends with always act like they are not even seeing u

except ofcourse for the highly perverted few.....

Well, I think women should take up the profession too.. What the OP is saying is that our body system doesn't work differently because of profession..

Yes, they are professionals.. But is risky because there av been reports of growing sexual misconduct by these professionals.. You can browse it online..

Women are more responsible to their callings than men.. I av some ladies who shared their experiences of how they were mishandled by these men at some points..

As for me, I will not allow my wife to be treated by a male but female professionals.. They are there, will locate one or two.. Is not hard..

He is not talking about relationship.. He is talking about seldom misbehavior..

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Jammiiee(m): 6:34am On Feb 18, 2017

I appreciate this without any form of attack, that was well explained. Tnx

dokyOloye:
Boobs examinations are mostly done in surgical clinics or other busy clinics where there are probably other doctors,nurses,etc in d same room and the only thing separating U and them is just that thin hospital screen.
Assuming U are a sicko and d devil hijacks U to misbehave, what if the woman then screams or shouts?
Is ur own not finished as per d profession?
There is just no way,and too many checks n balances,cos U are even supposed to have a chaperone of d same gender wt d patient if U are of d opposite gender during even abdominal examination, talk more of breast or vagina.
U are supposed to call even if it's a cleaner or even another patient of d same gender,though b/cos of d busy nature of our clinics here and cos Ur mind is free,most ppl don't bother wasting that time.

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by ReubenE(m): 6:35am On Feb 18, 2017

Mayflowa:

Don't push it. That is probably you. I lived in home full of doctors. There are many news of doctors acting fiddling ladies sexually and many extending the relationships into their bedroom.

Because, they have many clients. They get use to see ladies privy. Of course, no one would be attracted to sick and diseased patients. Even husbands are not attracted to sick wife.
Young doctors facing healthy patients get teased but they just try to refocus their mind because it could be a great source of embarrassment when caught in medical ethics.

Someone said doctors aren't spoilt. Doctors are very spoilt. The nurses in the hospital know this

Is there any are area where there are no spoilt people? Even this forum, nairaland.

Making it look as if they are worst of, in my opinion is so wrong. My dear, they devil is everywhere.
From the little I know, it moves men more when the process is hidden and gradual, or they go after it themselves. Not some lie down spread legs wide open of a thing, though the extremely perverted ones may see beyond what I am saying but that is not to say the great majority cannot put themselves under control.

Gynaecologists see these things everyday so I believe it's now a way of life for some

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Princedapace(m): 6:40am On Feb 18, 2017

Dfinex:

and u think it's water that is flowing through him because he is a professional? is he the only professional? are lawyers not professionals, are bankers not professionals? are engineers not professionals? why do they go ahead and keep relationships with their clients/customers?

please give cogent reasons, not that professional crap.....if u are talking work ethics/professional code of conducts, come forth and elaborate on it.

Thank you sweetie for this awesome reply.. I hate that reply of 'professionally trained'.. My dear, lawyers are professionals too but they often bury the constitution they swore to protect..

Ask this babe if she has not heard or read the growing trend of misconduct by the male practioners..

Where I work, we were trained to see our customers in a professional view but my dear, sometimes, we take advantage of few..

Is just that the world has gone gaga.. A male practioner is meant to treat a male patient ..while the female handles the female patients..

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Jammiiee(m): 6:43am On Feb 18, 2017

Chizzy4love

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Jammiiee(m): 6:49am On Feb 18, 2017

Lol funny one cheesy

Origin:
You will be shying away from them claiming privacy.

On d-day when you are in labour, before the doctor even reach, you've spread all the legs and will be shouting Doctor!!!!! COME O ;!!!

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by dokyOloye: 6:53am On Feb 18, 2017

VajanahDischaj:
the reason why mallams take their wives to the north or Arab countries for child expectation days.

same thing I'd do, cos I don't trust male gynecologist from the west of Nigeria especially. them go finger tire say na exam.

"mallams take their wives too d north or Arab countries "
"Same thing I'd do"

But Ur gender is saying female.
Na wa oo

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Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by dokyOloye: 6:57am On Feb 18, 2017

SonofHim:

I've taken delivery of several of my classmates and friends wives and when my wife is due for delivery a colleague will take her delivery. I don't have a problem with that.

And you keep talking about conformist

It's a pity that among d non professionals,it's even d women that are saying "no biggie" wt VE.
Then d males are d ones expressing reservations.
Does this mean that's d mindset of d typical Nigerian male?
Can't act beyond what they see?
Wahala dey oo.

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by NaijaBlend: 6:59am On Feb 18, 2017

What does a mortuary attendant do with his "visitors?"
A professional does not need to "eat" his clients.
Get that into your thick skull!

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Jammiiee(m): 7:02am On Feb 18, 2017

Really?

tosyne2much:
My school health centre is dominated by Womanizing doctors

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by bigsmoke2(m): 7:02am On Feb 18, 2017

Doctor are humans and may sometimes have unholy thoughts when with female patients but that is why u must ALWAYS have a chaperone present in this situations in other to discourage you from acting on any silly tought that may cross your mind. you cant be sued for your toughts, you can only be sued for your actions.

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by tete7000(m): 7:03am On Feb 18, 2017

Jammiiee:
OK sir, and av u heard of cases where docs fumbled on this

Yes, there will always be in every human endeavour, one or two black sheep. One or two who allowed devil take hold of their minds but the question is: 'what percentage of whole practitioners do that?'. Of course they are in minority. It is not a story you hear everyday you will agree with me.

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Ssthorm(f): 7:03am On Feb 18, 2017

kayzat:
You can identify a girl who is a virgin by
the way she urinates. If she urinates and
the sound goes like Tiziiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii know
she is virgin. But if she urinates like
shwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa as if you have
switched on bathroom showers, my brother,
my good brother I have a story to tell you

Lol..apparently u tnk women urinate thru dier vaginas?? Hahaha..lwkmd!! U neva sabi sha

NB: To the frustrated souls crying over this joke my advice to you lots is to just do the needful and end it. What I wrote above is just a joke and it will remain what it is so nobody should transfer their domestic troubles on me. Cheers

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Ssthorm(f): 7:04am On Feb 18, 2017

Lol..apparently u tnk women urinate thru dier vaginas?? Hahaha..lwkmd!! U neva sabi sha cheesy

kayzat:
You can identify a girl who is a virgin by
the way she urinates. If she urinates and
the sound goes like Tiziiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii know
she is virgin. But if she urinates like
shwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa as if you have
switched on bathroom showers, my brother,
my good brother I have a story to tell you

Lol..apparently u tnk women urinate thru dier vaginas?? Hahaha..lwkmd!! U neva sabi sha

NB: To the frustrated souls crying over this joke my advice to you lots is to just do the needful and end it. What I wrote above is just a joke and it will remain what it is so nobody should transfer their domestic troubles on me. Cheers

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Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Josephamstrong1(m): 7:07am On Feb 18, 2017

Dfinex:

that's because u don't have any further answer .....and stop sounding like ob/gyns are super humans who don't have feelings/blood flowing through their veins such that they can't be aroused. ...let me help u.

apart from the fact that business/work ethics demand professionalism while with a patient, seeing women's unclothedness gradually becomes boring to them cos they have seen one too many (that is to say the probability of them getting excited about treating the females may have been there in the early days of their career).....

as time goes on all they become interested in is treating the patient and making their money......that been said need I reiterate that there are some selected few who still acts perverted even with all the professionalism and years of work experience.....

Have bn thr dear. Most r perverts.
Buh u kw... They scared of the going against professional ethics.
U kw wat dat means wen they do.
Rsn we have female assistant or chaperon during the examination.
Mind u, it takes a disciplined married man to handle this alone wtout sm Ill tots.

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by mvem(m): 7:08am On Feb 18, 2017

Dfinex:

and u think it's water that is flowing through him because he is a professional? is he the only professional? are lawyers not professionals, are bankers not professionals? are engineers not professionals? why do they go ahead and keep relationships with their clients/customers?

please give cogent reasons, not that professional crap.....if u are talking work ethics/professional code of conducts, come forth and elaborate on it.

...woman is there any other choice...if u re in med school and see what this to be doctors handle u wont respect the human body....if u see hw they touch naked cadavar here and there u will know human dey like meat...doctors hv code of conduct and abide by it, anyone that strays will severely be punished..yes i know they re humans nd hv emotions but there heart and mind are stronger than yours they hv seen tinz u havent on a regular basis....so ur stuff wont make them go gaga and u re a lady and might certainly visit one one day because gyn/obstretics are very male dominated and also mammography too...

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by mvem(m): 7:19am On Feb 18, 2017

Princedapace:

Thank you sweetie for this awesome reply.. I hate that reply of 'professionally trained'.. My dear, lawyers are professionals too but they often bury the constitution they swore to protect..

Ask this babe if she has not heard or read the growing trend of misconduct by the male practioners..

Where I work, we were trained to see our customers in a professional view but my dear, sometimes, we take advantage of few..

Is just that the world has gone gaga.. A male practioner is meant to treat a male patient ..while the female handles the female patients..

...gyn/ob are male dominated in the world and also those in charge of mammography....so if ur wive hv an issue u will be looking for woman gyn when i know the gyn specialist are mostly men.Be realistic...what is ur other choice.This guyz play with naked cadavar in there school days and see tinz u dont see on a daily basis i know they re humans with emotions, i know that but there training hv made them more strong minded than u.....if they err they are punished severly but guy these people don touch and see naked body die, cut them pieces so y will urs be special...nd u say female gyn, hv u thought of lesbianism....

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by kayzat: 7:19am On Feb 18, 2017

Demola99:

Joke?
You sounded like an illiterate
How could you be so stupid

Weyrey, the way you carry this matter for head you sure say no be borehole dey between those legs

You sound very pained than usual. kindly deal with your frustration and stop barking like a dog here.

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by mvem(m): 7:22am On Feb 18, 2017

mvem:
...woman is there any other choice...if u re in med school and see what this to be doctors handle u wont respect the human body....if u see hw they touch naked cadavar here and there u will know human dey like meat...doctors hv code of conduct and abide by it, anyone that strays will severely be punished..yes i know they re humans nd hv emotions but there heart and mind are stronger than yours they hv seen tinz u havent on a regular basis....so ur stuff wont make them go gaga and u re a lady and might certainly visit one one day because gyn/obstretics are very male dominated and also mammography too...

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by mvem(m): 7:22am On Feb 18, 2017

mvem:
...gyn/ob are male dominated in the world and also those in charge of mammography....so if ur wive hv an issue u will be looking for woman gyn when i know the gyn specialist are mostly men.Be realistic...what is ur other choice.This guyz play with naked cadavar in there school days and see tinz u dont see on a daily basis i know they re humans with emotions, i know that but there training hv made them more strong minded than u.....if they err they are punished severly but guy these people don touch and see naked body die, cut them pieces so y will urs be special...nd u say female gyn, hv u thought of lesbianism....

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Jammiiee(m): 7:27am On Feb 18, 2017

One of d bad examples

Mayflowa:

Don't push it. That is probably you. I lived in home full of doctors. There are many news of doctors acting fiddling ladies sexually and many extending the relationships into their bedroom.

Because, they have many clients. They get use to see ladies privy. Of course, no one would be attracted to sick and diseased patients. Even husbands are not attracted to sick wife.
Young doctors facing healthy patients get teased but they just try to refocus their mind because it could be a great source of embarrassment when caught in medical ethics.

Someone said doctors aren't spoilt. Doctors are very spoilt. The nurses in the hospital know this

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Jammiiee(m): 7:31am On Feb 18, 2017

That was a mixed grill of sarcasm and expletives...

SycophanticGoat:

OP thinks all doctors are sex starved pervs like him. Him no know say the number of girls wey doctors done wire done reach to make man tire or retire..

My brother is a good example. How will a guy who must have slept with about 200 - 400 beautiful and tall ladies, not have the courtesy to act professional on the job?

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Rahym001(m): 7:33am On Feb 18, 2017

Dfinex:
lol @topic. I used to feel same way before. ..those guys don't see u as a man/woman., they only see u as a human anatomy. ...lolsss

but truth is those guys don't have ur time....like going by the number of women they meet how many will they now have relationships with .....of all professions medical doctors are the less promiscuous (I stand to be corrected though )......cos the few I have made friends with always act like they are not even seeing u

except ofcourse for the highly perverted few.....

please say what you know.

The doctors i know nack anything nackable if there is a word like nack. Very promiscuous

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by durasome(m): 7:33am On Feb 18, 2017

Op though human differ,but I want to tell you that a lot of them are professionals who are so used to the female anatomy that they are not easily aroused by such sights.come to think of it, most times it is only females with illnesses that has to do with those areas that do need to be checked. What will attract a doctor in a woman that has vaginal bleedings,tumor.offensive odour and what have you. It is only the deased that seek their services.

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Princedapace(m): 7:34am On Feb 18, 2017

mvem:
...gyn/ob are male dominated in the world and also those in charge of mammography....so if ur wive hv an issue u will be looking for woman gyn when i know the gyn specialist are mostly men.Be realistic...what is ur other choice.This guyz play with naked cadavar in there school days and see tinz u dont see on a daily basis i know they re humans with emotions, i know that but there training hv made them more strong minded than u.....if they err they are punished severly but guy these people don touch and see naked body die, cut them pieces so y will urs be special...nd u say female gyn, hv u thought of lesbianism....

Baba.. I will find and book before any problem comes.. As people have special lawyers before any case as comes, that is what I will be doing..

As for lesbianism I don't av problem with that.. Another man can not be touching my wife any how..

Let me ask u a question, imagine I'm ur best friend and before u married ur wife, u used to tell me about her a lot... And becus I am a male gyn, will u allow me spread ur wife's legs and examine it and search her boobs for treatment because I'm a professional? Will u stand with me face to face in my office or at any other gathering and we talk about other things? How comfortable will u be knowing fully well I play with the place u use for eating

A man's pride is her woman's private parts.. Just that the world has gone gaga, these things arent meant to be..

Once again, women should take up more of these professions..

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by mira4u: 7:35am On Feb 18, 2017

They are cool. The female gynecologist are usually very rude and impatient. I prefer the male any day any time.

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Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Jammiiee(m): 7:37am On Feb 18, 2017

Bro femo how is the gang, av u settled now wink

femolii:
All this thing are nothing before males gyno is their field likewise female gyno examin male too shaving dressing n all d rest. what are about when some die would u go n tell them not naked ur wife.

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Reference(m): 7:38am On Feb 18, 2017

I suppose its like a baker being enticed by bread hawked on the streets or a farmer loving the smell of roasted corn at the road side or the mechanic gawking at a passing honda..... highly unlikely. They have seen so much, looked at them in such detail that their disposition will not create an atmosphere of suspicion and unease. Anyway they also know that to be successful and bring home the bacon regularly they have to act professionally to the great percentile of patients/customers that come their way. Infact it is their wives and partners of these doctors that will feel the emotional squeeze of what their husbands could be doing while at work and not their patients. The patient will consult for only a while but the consultant will serve for a lifetime. It is he and his family I pity.

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Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Dfinex(f): 7:39am On Feb 18, 2017

Rahym001:

please say what you know.

The doctors i know nack anything nackable if there is a word like nack. Very promiscuous

and u did not see where I stated that my experience may not be the true state of things. .....or u are just looking for a fight?

Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Mcowubaba: 7:43am On Feb 18, 2017

UltraLeslie:
Little errors like this is why I consider you at par in intelligence with a swamp frog!!!

I understand your pussy may have seen more dick traffic than Heathrow international airport sees aircraft, so, please don't bring your bonobo-handshake custom here as the norm.

Ugly girl.

Oh lawd .....

Mehn see Metaphor shocked

Nairalanders are Evil grin

On topic, I have examined female patients before (not the sexual organs though), this was back in school, I won't lie, I initially felt something going on in my pants... But I controlled my brain and mind, and focused on the examination and study.
This was some years ago, when I was still a bit Naive about sex and females, but now a Vulva, Vagina during physical examination is just like every other body part...

Anyways, I'm not a Gynecologist or obstetrician, but somehow Vaginas always finds itself on my work table

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