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Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Jammiiee(m): 7:46am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Tnx tete7000: 1 Like |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Reference(m): 7:48am On Feb 18, 2017 |
durasome: Well, not every case is extreme as you explain. I'm sure the vast majority of cases they see relate to the big issue of pregnancy or the lack of it which ends up requiring an inspection of the 'equipment' and in the husband's mind hopefully no test firing, after all how can you be dead certain it isn't the husband's gun that contains blank bullets. |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Kingsley1000(m): 7:53am On Feb 18, 2017 |
sincerely i can't be a gynacologist especially in africa.... |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Jammiiee(m): 7:54am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Pls how can one quote someone else from another thread to make it appear here, I see people do dt but dn't know how. I av a lady who posted her bad experience with a male gyn Princedapace: |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Nobody: 7:56am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Dfinex:Exactly. This is the main point. Those thoughts may have been there at the outset of thrir profession for it'd surely gradually disappear with time. |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by obontami: 7:56am On Feb 18, 2017 |
UltraLeslie:hahaha!!! 1 Like |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by abdddone(m): 7:57am On Feb 18, 2017 |
There are female gyn/obs as well and that has been my option. |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Laredojohn(m): 8:02am On Feb 18, 2017 |
It's part of what they are trained for, they see all women as the same...they see them as clinical samples,most girls saying they can't endure a male gyna, at the point of delivery who cares who is there in t labor room,it's like saying same for a guy who has boil on his genitals and visits a Dr and it happens to be be female Dr, will he resist or if he needs to be operated on close to his genitals will he resist,Dr's in general are trained to see all type of things, only a few perverts among them get sexually emotional with patients |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Reference(m): 8:04am On Feb 18, 2017 |
dokyOloye: I think your theatre describes a public establishment where typically the facilities are vast, staff and patients aplenty and authority detached. I will say to you here and now. In Nigeria private health facilities outnumber public ones by a magnitude of 10 or more, where space is often at a premium such that examinations and the likes are conducted in closets (and will the door be left open to the public....highly unlikely) staff to do these checks are at a premium and where authority is likely to be in the hands of the senior partner or medical director who does the examinations, so who will report who internally. The best you can hope for in this case is a disciplined, ethical professional individual, whistle blowing staff or a patient's response (as was the case of the Nigerian doctor in Canada) or the wife of the doctor going public as I have heard in a couple of cases over the years. |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by BobbyDean(m): 8:08am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Babzilla:. You just nailed it! Having seen so many gynaecologist consult & examine their patient & also from my own patient contact, one of the last things on your mind is deriving sexual pleasure from doing your job. Like it's totally off your mind(atleast for a right minded doctor)! Moreso, the ethical thing to do while examining a female patient is to have a Chaperone; a third party, usually a nurse or another doctor preferably female. |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Nobody: 8:09am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Jammiiee:Like I said, I was kinda shy. |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Jammiiee(m): 8:13am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Aii. If that's u, u look like Tiwa Savage Her sis? ToriBlue: |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by AreaFada2: 8:14am On Feb 18, 2017 |
frank950: Hahahahahahaha. |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Dexema(m): 8:23am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Cmanforall:Jexus!!! This is wicked, you need to be sued for violation of human rights. |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by omemero(m): 8:26am On Feb 18, 2017 |
A GYNECOLOGIST ASKED MY WIFE FOR SEX AFTER CONDUCTING TEST ON HER. HE WAS EVEN CALLING HER ON PHONE HOPING SHE WILL COME BACK. HMMMMM SOME OF THEM ARE WORST THAN YOU COULD IMAGING Dfinex: |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by dokyOloye: 8:27am On Feb 18, 2017 |
tete7000:They were all struggling to see cos that's a case of priapism,common in sicklers. Such cases are rare,U might never see one in d whole of Ur career,so when such cases present,everybody,esp those who have never seen struggle to see. |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Kennyodinye(m): 8:29am On Feb 18, 2017 |
GloriaNino:Then you will probably die |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Jammiiee(m): 8:43am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Ohh I see, tnx for the analysis so far, I understand better now. dokyOloye: |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by blackboy(m): 8:45am On Feb 18, 2017 |
It takes discipline and they are trained to do their job for the good of their patient and that gets them paid.Yes, they are human , we all are human in every area of life we encounter situations that we have to make a decision and thoughts run in our mind from what we see, it might be wrong but its all about discipline and self control even if you have an evil thought to do evil the choice is yours to do it or not to do it.In the line of official work we all know its always best to act professional. Some say the gynecologist are professionals they just do their job nothing to it but we should remember they are humans. It takes 2 to tango. Some patients encourage evil while some you know you don't even go there. Just like lecturers too . Not all female students do male lecturers sleep with or sexually harass. Would you say you wont send your wife or daughters to a school where there are male lecturers? We can say judges are professionals or policemen are professionals but we should remember they are all human. Life is about decisions taken some professional some unprofessional which could have a huge repercussion. The Op has some point , the male gynecologist are human but they are professionals and though humans its their duty to do their job and not let their lust take better judgement of them. When pushing comes to shoving even if its a male doctor you will take what is available. Just as there are cases of Judges, police who act unprofessional so also in cases of gynecologist but don't mean to rule them all out. I'm a married man and I have been at the delivery room at the birth of my children. The second a male doctor handled the delivery to the cleaning of her vagina (where the baby came from) and stitching. He was doing his job whether he had thought or not that's in his mind but so long as he did nothing unprofessional and he did his job and we were all happy. In the hospital in Abuja where my first child was born there are 3 gynecologist - 2 females and a male. This is Abuja. I always went with my wife for the regular gynecologist appointment during pregnancy. To my amazement most of the pregnant women usually preferred the male gynecologist. There was a case when the male gynecologist was not available and the patient said she will wait till the male gynecologist comes back. He seemed very popular and once when my wife went to see him she commented he was professional. When I hear of men assaulting male doctors because they say they touched their wife in an unislamic its sad. But its important for doctors to show the patient and those around he is professional. In most cases a female nurse is usually called in by the male gynecologist/doctor when he want to check sensitive areas of the female patient. What is important is that a female patient who is being sexually touched by a doctor would know and there are the appropriate channels to seek justice. No male doctor will really like to ruin their career over a patient when in real life I'm sure they can get any they want. Having a smear to their name because of an unprofessional act can cost them their fantastic career for life. They most likely will never get a job anywhere . I believe male gynecologist are as professional in handling a female patient as any female gynecologist would. Not saying they are all saint or not human. They are trained and they will get the job done. What runs through their mind na them sabi so long as they do their job professionally. |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by mvem(m): 8:45am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Princedapace:...simply the man should not examine the wife and ur illustration is not a hard one to answer...what of nurses that put and change catheta(those stuff that aids urination) it happens everywhere and most nurses are female or a female doctor/nurse examining u or giving u injection on ur bum.....so u think during female procedures or complications only one female gyn can handle her, there might be series of doctors and nurses who can be both male and female....just be realistic, hv u thought of operations or will u find only female surgeons too.....when a male is examining a female i think a third party(usually female) is required to be present... |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by mvem(m): 8:48am On Feb 18, 2017 |
blackboy: |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by doyinbaby(f): 8:49am On Feb 18, 2017 |
In Nigeria more than 90% of O&G men so women be objective when being attended to by O&G rather than being unnecessarily suspicious,,O&G is strainous very few female doctor specialize in O&G. ,,...if you need help medically you better let a man treat you rather let your case get complicated in the name of looking for a female O&G that may be non existent |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Dunsin89(m): 8:52am On Feb 18, 2017 |
I am a male gynaecologist myself and my Christian trained conscience wouldn't allow me to sexually molest my patients even though some patients can be quite seductive and luring. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by mvem(m): 8:54am On Feb 18, 2017 |
doyinbaby:....thats what am saying the O/G are male dominated some guyz says they will look for a female O/G....so if there wives are desperate for care or treatment na so dey go dey look for female O/G....female mostly tend to go towards pediatrics not O/G.... |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by buffalowings: 8:54am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Dfinex: Fixed that for you Highly promiscuous |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by mvem(m): 8:54am On Feb 18, 2017 |
doyinbaby: |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by SycophanticGoat: 8:56am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Jammiiee: Typed the obvious truth bro. I used to be damn shy where my siblings are, like they never see me naked but one very day when I had severe abdominal pains due to ulcer, no be person tell me to open my full nyansh for my elder brother to put injection. The thing is, when one is sick, there are many things one'd have to overlook at that moment and hope to firstly battle the illness.. |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by bigzykizzy: 9:02am On Feb 18, 2017 |
whether u avoid a male doctor or not, the fact remains he know ur anatomy and physiology in his brain which is not different from real life examinations. he know every part of ur body more Dan u. |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Nobody: 9:04am On Feb 18, 2017 |
lepasharon: I was about to give a thoughtful reply to this post but after I clicked on your moniker and saw your DP, I was like "No wonder!" |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Dfinex(f): 9:05am On Feb 18, 2017 |
buffalowings:ok....thank u |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Jammiiee(m): 9:08am On Feb 18, 2017 |
alternate laffs Mcowubaba: 1 Like |
Re: How Do Females Cope With Male Gynaecologists? by Nobody: 9:11am On Feb 18, 2017 |
dokyOloye: Why are you so passionate about this topic? Males shouldn't be viewing the vagina of females that are not their wives, Western culture has corrupted this world. What is wrong is wrong. Stay away from viewing a woman's V. G regardless of whether it has pus or not. Western culture is useless. |
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