Nogodye:
Since you were pregnant for him, my advice for you is to get it off your mind thinking that your man do cheat on you even if he do.Never stop loving, respecting and showing him affection...Lastly, stay off of everything he called his private and personal matter or belonging to save your Relationship & save you from depression and heartbreak.By doing this, your man will later trace his steps back to you...I pray that you will enjoy the benefit of your Relationship/Marriage and God will keep your relationship from any form of destruction.

Benita27:
I would have asked you to run as far as your legs could carry you sister!...but you're now pregnant for him.

You're his fiancée, not wife yet but he throws you out of the house for being inquisitive, you slept out but still went back to the same man.

When he marries you he's likely to do worse, these are red flags of who you intend marring, but you saw and ignored the signs, now you're pregnant...you should either walk away as his baby mama or just remain with him.

vani86:
Your spirit na proper amebo sha

Adeosas:
thanks dear for your advice God bless u.

Chidonc:
sister learn to mind ur business and stop searching bag that is not yours. if you are tired of the relationship, walk away, No b by force to marry,pregnant or not.

Benita27:
I would have asked you to run as far as your legs could carry you sister!...but you're now pregnant for him.

You're his fiancée, not wife yet but he throws you out of the house for being inquisitive, you slept out but still went back to the same man.

When he marries you he's likely to do worse, these are red flags of who you intend marring, but you saw and ignored the signs, now you're pregnant...you should either walk away as his baby mama or just remain with him.



thanks dear for your advice God bless u.

Adeosas:
thanks dear for ur advice

ToriBlue:
This is why you shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket. Now you are stuck with him..

You just have to manage him like that.

Benita27:
I would have asked you to run as far as your legs could carry you sister!...but you're now pregnant for him.

You're his fiancée, not wife yet but he throws you out of the house for being inquisitive, you slept out but still went back to the same man.

When he marries you he's likely to do worse, these are red flags of who you intend marring, but you saw and ignored the signs, now you're pregnant...you should either walk away as his baby mama or just remain with him.

alexialin:




For him to even throw her out.. Says a lot about him.
Why get pregnant in the first place?
The pregnancy has now placed u In a compromising situation?
Honestly I don't know how u can manage this relationship situation . The preg has complicated the whole thing. May God see u through

Benita27:
Some women could be stupid in love you know.

alexialin:





Very stuppid I swear.. All to feel am In a relationship or am engaged.. Smhh. Just allow their bfs walk all Over them and later start wailing.. Smmhh.

Benita27:
People have different reasons why they get stuck up in silly relationships.

Some feel if they let go of the guy, no other man would love them the way that one has in the past..fixed mindset.

Some are scared of starting all over again. So they just get stucked with the wrong person.

I don't see why a guy would lock you out of his house for a day, which is disrespectful and demeaning and you'll still go back to him even to the point of getting pregnant.

Let me just reserve my comment.

alexialin:




I understand that been alone part.. When one decide to breakup from his or her partner . But at the end of the day is better to be alone and choose wisely next time to someonelse who appreciates and sincerely loves one and he's ready to build his future with her. Than to be with an abusive or serial cheat because she doesn't want to be lonely. If a lady values herself there are certain stage in life, she will be alone for a while before a good guy with good head comes along
For me, to be alone and carefully choose is not hard for me. Am perfect in such things. Lol.
I can stay alone for a year or even two sef, as long as I know am not deformed. So no big deal there. Na today person dey stay alone?
I can't come and suffer mental abuse at this my age lol.. For Wetin nah?

And that part he threw her out is the height of disrespect. She sef no value herself. If not she would have walked and not turn back. And that's self respect!.

Well ,May God see her through and make her sensible and wise.. Amen.

samtol4:
@op sorry for the pain and agony but expect more . A man that threw you out will assault wen you eventually become his wife ! Seven years of staying with a guy in same roof when he has not paid bride price will devalue your worth . That is a big No . . Hope single ladies will learn from your experience . Lastly there are two types of husbands in the market : 1.Boss 2. Friend . When you marry a boss he doesn't apologised even when he is caught cheating or wrong he will claim right . A boss issue command and his words are final . Sisters marry a man who is like a friend . A man you are not afraid to talk . A man who is like your brother and companion not 'oga '

vani86:
Your spirit na proper amebo sha

Adeosas:
thanks for all your comments i really appreciate.i will try and bear all rubbish is not that i cant abort but i was adviced by my Doctor not to do so cos is complicated. so i leave everything everything in d hands of my creator he knows the best. plss i know many can judge me by saying staying with him for long. im a less privldged child since 2005 i sufferd till i met him so i have been staying with him since when i was in yr 1 till i graduated. double dating dont favour me at all, i dont fancy it at all if not i could have leave him for long. when you love a man deep dwn from ur hrt and ur both struggle tghter u will know how it feels to start all of over again. 7yrs rlationship is not 7days it pains to see ur man double dating and claims is not true. if he open up to me the way i do to him there wont be prb but he keeps yelling at me not to ask him.infact God will pay him back in his own coins.