Kennyodinye:
u are a mumu....if na so i for don marry more than 30 girls by now

ToriBlue:
I don't know why guys keep dating women the can't marry. Its sheer wickedness.

Benita27:
What kind of unfinished business do you have with her?.

alexialin:



We are not wicked or selfish. If u know u can't marry a babe u are wooing? Then hands off! Women are like flowers. You don't keep fucvking and dumping when u are tired. That's pure wickedness on your part. Pray your babe does not go extreme and deal with u diabolically.. Na then!, when u come. Life next time.. You will run away from pussssies.

Evil guy.

ToriBlue:
I don't know why guys keep dating women the can't marry. Its sheer wickedness.

Charlentine:
So here's the problem, I do love this lady to a degree, but I ain't going for that marriage stuff. Not yet, and definitely not with her. I told her my plans from the day we officially started dating and she was totally cool with it. only to suddenly go mafia and change everything and become super possessive and pester me for marriage after some months, in a "If u won't marry me then ENEMY mode activated!" kind of way. That's unfair na! I've not dated much but my last gf wasn't unreasonable na, she even loved me for being straightforward with her and we dated exclusively until I had to travel. Then i adviced her to move on with her life (tho it was a very hard decision cos she's an awesome person, beautiful too) but we're friends till date.


Anyway, so Im letting this lady go so she can find a proper husband, but I don't want her beef (she gets very hostile and vengeful whenever she feels slighted even for the best of reasons, no matter how much u try to reason with her) cos I still have some unfinished business with her and don't want her to ruin it. Shes the type that, if something isn't going her way then it is BAD no matter how great it has been. She has potential husbands (ex'es) and has quickly resorted to hooking up with one for marriage. I wish her well, but don't need the hostility now.


How does one deal with this? Wud it have been better to give her false hope, and then bail once I get my stuff out? Won't that be unfair to her? Are the majority of ladies selfish like this cos I always hear ladies cry "he jilted me bla bla bla"? because guys have learnt to be dishonest with them? Is there another way? Like Ive confessed, I haven't dated much, but I want to believe we don't all have to be bad.

Mypeople2:
Babe, sometimes it is not our fault .You may think she is your" soul mate" when you are looking at the physique.But apart from physique, what else does she have ? Since we can't judge a book by its cover,we can't ascertain what kind of material she is without dating her first .

NotComplaining:
what would you think if you were the brother of the girl? Women aren't toys man! If i were the girls bro i'd beat the shi*t out of you for the disrespect.The sister aint your prostitute nigguh.

You took advantage of a clearly vulnerable girl to satisfy ur glut gtfo. Ask the girls dad for advice.

Thank God Muslim countries worth their name do not tolerate such impunity.

Philpham:
OP u are very stoopi.d , after eating her puny u are letting her go. It shows u are among the 99% of irresponsible non-husband material in Nigeria.

People like you lack commitment, and eventually become serial cheaters in marriages.

I promise u , if you keep jumping from one woman to the other, u will never find a wife material and when u eventually do, she will cheat on you.

If it's me , I will break your head if you dump me. And I hope she does.

Obiwannn:


This" Shes the type that, if something isn't going her way then it is BAD no matter how great it has been."

OP this got to me. I have same issue also with my gf. Are all women truly like this? I mean everything is great then at the slightest provocation she flares up and it is BAD, no matter how great it has been. Is that the way women behave? Because like you now, I'm also considering bending to her rules just because I want to break her heart in future. I mean it seems it does not pay to be a good guy again o

Charlentine:
If what u stated here were the reality, and you tried to put your puny hands on me, I'd immediately have you fleeced, and then dried in the sun. Next time you'd avoid a guy who moving on his rights!

NotComplaining:


So now u sabi talk rights? The girl that doesnt have a dic*k is right-less abi?

Naija will continue carrying last in everything as long as ppl like you are allowed to breathe.

Charlentine:
Naa. u're the Evil babe here. cos she ain't that bad. Oh and I'd like to think only a handful of ladies are really like you cos otherwise only a handful of men would be alive and well today. Ya'll be killing them like chicken "oh that one, I destroyed his life cos he was chatting with one random girl" "that other one, well I cursed him with blindness cos he looked at one chics arse at the mall the other day"

Honestly, bad governance is just ONE of Nigeria's many many problems!

Charlentine:
Guys, watch out for dis babe. By their fruits u shall know them. U half-read the OP and just flew to karma conclusions?? Jeez! P.S: there's nothing like karma in this situation.

Charlentine:
Idiocy in low places!

Charlentine:
I don't know why any woman would AGREE to date casually if she knows she would later try to FORCE marriage on the guy. It's sheer wickedness.

Charlentine:
why would you want to break her heart in the future bro? That sounds mean. Like, I didn't ever bend to her rules; I told her straight from the onset, she agreed, but later tried to change things which, I always set her straight until she began to insist. That was when I had to tell her to pls move on, cos clearly, we were no longer on the same page. Do you understand?

But yeah I get what u mean by things being all BAD just cos something aint going her way. That attitude is very frustrating.

NotComplaining:


Then be the bigger man and stfu.

Charlentine:
kikikikikiki okay I have shut up. I guess Im the bigger man now

sekem:


I'm so sure your brain is paining you.

So in your warped mind, every relationship MUST be consummated with marriage, abi?

Mtcheewwww

Sincere4u:
Mtcheeew!
Yeye post!.
what were you dating them for?... just sex?.
mtcheeeeeew
Better you date when you are ready for marriage.

ToriBlue:
I don't know why guys keep dating women the can't marry. Its sheer wickedness.

Benita27:
What kind of unfinished business do you have with her?.

Obiwannn:


Well, I'm just reiterating the part where you said you'd just bid your time with a view to move on in future, and I am seriously considering that route. I mean you even said it yourself that girls would come and say bla bla bla he dumped me... when in actual fact they were dumped because of their perceived actions or in actions.

And again I used to think she behaves the way she behaves because she's not Nigerian and probably due to the way their society see women, I haven't really dated a Nigerian for that long to know for certainty how women behave, in fact the whole dating thing is quite new to me. But having considered what you have posted here I can draw up some similarities and conclude that women are women no matter the part of the world they are from and more often than not, they do deserve what they get.

Emzyme:
Lol that is how one started acting all jealous whenever a gal calls me or am talking with one
Bros u shld nt have told her ur plans plainly ,
Give her hope , then crush that hope
Then disappear from her life

SweetBoyFriend:

This is how to identify a dumb guy

Why can't you keep your mouth shut for once ??

Going around telling her you don't wanna marry her, how do you want her to act ?? You want her to Laugh and tell you "I don't think I'm the right one for you"

She's the smartest person on earth, she was acting like she loves you and want to marry you

The money and the dick was good, she did a great job using your little brain

Do you know how many niggas she bursted it open for when you where dying in love and calling her your girlfriend ??

You don't tell a girl that type of stuff even if you don't love her, just act on it, your behavior will drive her away