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My Brother Won't Listen by rollybest(m): 4:02pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Please nairalanders, my elder brother is about to get married. The problem here is that, the wife to be is three years older than him. I have warned him not to continue but he keeps saying age is just a number that they love each other ,i don't want any member of my family to regret any union . Please what should I do. Note:my parents also warned him of marrying someone older than him due to lack of respect and some other stuff. advice needed pls. thanks all |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by Nobody: 4:08pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Abeeegi... Check this thread before u gonna tell ur brother again... https://www.nairaland.com/3648352/see-hilarious-photo-young-bobo |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by Laveda(f): 4:09pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Are you the one who's gonna live with the woman after marriage? He's old enough, he has made his choice.. Let him be. |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by Nobody: 4:09pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
TrapQueen77:Naughty gal |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by gsainttrinity(m): 4:10pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
please Go and live your life... saying you don't want your relatives to regret their union as if you are God or there is anything you can do about it. You are just a busy body with the rest of your likes poking their nose into someone else life. GET a LIFE! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by rollybest(m): 4:10pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Laveda:Am just scared of the future of their marriage especially when the girl is igbo |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by airminem(f): 4:11pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
You seems worried too much for your brother to ignore
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Re: My Brother Won't Listen by rollybest(m): 4:11pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
gsainttrinity:Thank you sir, so care is now busy body? |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by Nogodye(m): 4:12pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Just 3yrs! Wake-up bro.Age is nothing but a number...Maturity and Understanding of each other is what is require.What if you don't knw that his wife to be is older than him? |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by rollybest(m): 4:13pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
pls pals what i need here is a simple suggestion, not abuses pls abeg |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by ikp120(m): 4:37pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
rollybest: What sorta suggestions? The ones to help you execute your stupidity and naivety? Or the ones to help you purge yourself of stupidity and naivety? Abeg which of them? |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by rollybest(m): 4:55pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
ikp120:Choi see insult. Oga just reason for once now |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by Kobicove(m): 4:57pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Leave him...let him do it and learn from the experience |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by ikp120(m): 5:05pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
rollybest: Which suggestions do you want? The ones to end a relationship because of a senseless sentiment of yours? Sorry if you felt insulted. But the motion looks really senseless, stupid, sentimental and naive to me. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by rollybest(m): 5:16pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
ikp120: case close. don't need your suggestion anymore your comments is void of substance, it's insaluburious to my problem |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by ikp120(m): 5:25pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
rollybest:replied |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by gsainttrinity(m): 5:30pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
rollybest: Care you say? like is he a child that does not know what he wants? I would give you an example what care is.... mum to my close friend once adviced him some years ago to use the little money in my position to upgrade his education and certificate... but him been very desperate for quick success decided to travel abroad with the money. He was an adult, even though with reservations the mum blessed his journey abroad. Few months abroad, my guy was deported with all his savings gone in the process. the CARING mother was the same person to raise up cash with which he got back on his feet and went back to school as previously advised. Now caring for people is not taking away their right to make mistakes by making their choices as adult, CARING is when you are there to support them whether they made the right or wrong choice, being there for them whether or not they took your advice. that is how you care for people. In conclusion, what you are doing is "busy body" |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by rollybest(m): 5:32pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
gsainttrinity:Noted |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by Nobody: 5:38pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
let dem be abeg!... age is got nothing to do with love... even if he marries someone of his age.. it doesn't guaranty happiness or forever. |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by rollybest(m): 5:39pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Gistedge:Roger, i pray for them sha |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by cezarman(m): 5:40pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
Haba! Oga, why did you bring your brother's private life to nairaland na? Will he marry her into your house? Just imagine.... |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by rollybest(m): 5:42pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
cezarman:no name mentioned, no pictures uploaded bro, just wanted to get public opinion. Even if you see him on the way you won't identify him |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by gsainttrinity(m): 5:42pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
rollybest: I understand you want the best for your brother, but the best you can give him is support in his decision and try to explain in reasonable terms why he should not marry the said lady.... but please don't force your idea on people or manipulate them. Only God knows the best. |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by cezarman(m): 5:44pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
rollybest: See talk oh! You even brought tribe into the issue sha. |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by rollybest(m): 5:45pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
gsainttrinity:Thanks bro, one the most reasonable words from a nairalander ever. God bless you 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by Nobody: 6:24pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
rollybest:na wa for u self...is it a crime to marry ur elder? si long she respects him |
Re: My Brother Won't Listen by rollybest(m): 6:46pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
nnamdiokere45:na wetin i dey pray for |
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